It’s so widely known at this point that the husband stitch 99% of the time causes more harm than good, it’s unlikely he doesn’t know. It’s unnecessary for the most part unless there’s massive tearing, not to mention the vagina snaps back except for a very small part near the cervix so there’s really no need for the stitch. If it were me I’d just keep asking him why my pain doesn’t matter to him and why it seems like he wants me to be in pain.
It’s so widely known at this point that the husband stitch 99% of the time causes more harm than good, it’s unlikely he doesn’t know. It’s unnecessary for the most part unless there’s massive tearing, not to mention the vagina snaps back except for a very small part near the cervix so there’s really no need for the stitch. If it were me I’d just keep asking him why my pain doesn’t matter to him and why it seems like he wants me to be in pain.