Well, I’m sorry to hear about this. First and foremost get tested.
Change your perspective in this. Confront her? She is probably the only person in the world who has any grasp on what you’re about to go through. I think she’ll better serve you as an ally than an adversary.
HIV is something we have the ability to live with now. You will be able to live! a life.
Consider what’s important. Identity, relationships, Career, money, things, status.. these things are fleeting at best.
Take this time to connect with the self. The you behind the eyes.
You shouldn’t have to CONVINCE anyone that being with you or getting back together is right. If he said he’s moved on, you need to accept that and leave him alone. If he feels like it’s worth another shot after time passes, then he will come to you and it will be your chance to evaluate if you still want to be together.
I don’t understand why he needed Reddit to tell him this lol
Well, I’m sorry to hear about this. First and foremost get tested.
Change your perspective in this. Confront her? She is probably the only person in the world who has any grasp on what you’re about to go through. I think she’ll better serve you as an ally than an adversary.
HIV is something we have the ability to live with now. You will be able to live! a life.
Consider what’s important. Identity, relationships, Career, money, things, status.. these things are fleeting at best.
Take this time to connect with the self. The you behind the eyes.
That said, picking fights with drunk people is never a good idea
Some men are very shy and introverted and scared to ask. This doesn't have to mean he doesn't like you.
If he doesn't ask you, the only way is getting active and doing so yourself. If he doesn't want to, he will tell you.
You shouldn’t have to CONVINCE anyone that being with you or getting back together is right. If he said he’s moved on, you need to accept that and leave him alone. If he feels like it’s worth another shot after time passes, then he will come to you and it will be your chance to evaluate if you still want to be together.