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Which you know because of experience, i.e. how all young kids learn that fact. What experience have you had to know how therapy works?
Is there a reason she stopped taking the meds? I'm not very informed on them as I don't take them but I had an ex that did and regularly started and stopped them before they reached their full effects because of the side effects though she definitely needs to be on them because of her mental illnesses. It sounds similar but more long lasting? She had a similar experience too but for her it was when she would start taking them and it wasn't limited to her genitals. It was full body for her. Just full body numbness.
From my experience, if she stopped taking them willingly but should be on them for one reason or another the PSSD won't be the last issues you two have. My ex self sabotaged the relationship and the leading cause was her mental illnesses making her unstable emotionally and would become very impulsive at times.
I’ve tried asking them and they don’t really have anyone (mum works in an office with everyone being over 40 and younger people are taken, dad doesn’t work because of health). One of my friends maybe has a friend whose looking for a boyfriend but they’re a bit young+I don’t know anything about them. Also my friend is very apprehensive about me in general as we’ve not known each other long and she tends to be rather protective of me to a degree (and we’ve spoke about dating before, both of us agreed it could be on the table in the far future, but we’re to far apart age wise, 19-26 but it’s not an impossibility and I also more or less said she’s kinda to young for me, or implied it).
Does telling her I liked her make me shady or sketchy? Is it in the same realm as adultery? I just feel shitty about it
Dude she s straight up lying, she got caught and panicked so she called him to tell her first.
It feels like projecting. The whole thing is baseless and inane. Also, OP, get proper titanium bars! Do yourself the favor, you won't regret ir.
But he also said that he and I are just friends.
Pretty big detail to leave out of the main post.
It's been 3 months. Don't buy jewelry for a 3-month gf (or perhaps, for any gf ever unless you are 100 percent sure of her taste). jewelry is very personal & peoples' tastes vary like mad. You're likely to waste a bunch of money on something she sticks in a drawer. Also, don't spend $250 on a 3-month gf for Christmas? That's just way too much.
You should strongly consider a new room mate. I can live with a girl hooking up before or not during me but living with her would bread insecurity. No chance things last with that. The shit is set up for failure.
Sounds like a gag gift. Probably wouldn't worry too much.
I think you should use her level of engagement as a guide.
Is she messaging you first as often as you are messaging her first? Green light. keep on chatting.
Is she making one word responses and taking a long time to reply? Red light. Slow it down.
Sounds like you both need therapy and to work on yourselves rather than trying to save a relationship because you got comfortable with each other. Get your self esteem back and learn to make friends. Y’all are too old to use MH as an excuse for shitty behavior.
have a feeling that he wants his needs met
What makes you feel this way?
It’s just porn and masturbation – don’t make it into something bigger than it is.
Bro then fucking break up with him. You clearly hate him for his memory issues and you shouldn't be with him. Do yourself and him a favor.
In the end i don't think there is middleground to be found here. Either you change the name and rekindle the relationship or you don't change the name and wait to see if your Fil will eventually change his mind. Although, i wouldn't hold much hope for the latter.
Names are a big thing, i think given your stance of keeping your own last name you can agree.
Sorry ya'll are going through this, must be heartwrenching for your husband.
Eh…it's definitely more nuanced than being gay, but there is nothing wrong with saying “I want more than one partner” and it can be a fundamental part of who they are much like being gay. It just means that you are no longer compatible with people that want a monogamous relationship. Sexuality really is a spectrum and as long as you and your partner as close, you can make it work. When your on opposite sides, it's time to walk away.
Just figure out what your boundaries are. You don't need to be his shadow to prevent him from cheating on you. If you are afraid that this relationship with the 19 year old (gross) is going to turn into something then state your boundaries.
You should say to him “All these one on one rides with 19 year old are boundary crossing. You cannot be spending so much time helping this one. There are other women there and you aren't Captain Save a Ho so stop it. You know this is upsetting me so chill on the one on one stuff.” If he gives you that little sister bullshit then just tell him “She's not your little sister. She's actually a woman who keeps asking you to spend time with her alone and I don't want to date a guy who doesn't care about my feelings on the matter. I'm respecting the fact that you don't want me involved in your hobby and now you need to respect that I have boundaries here.”
If you find that he's not willing to respect your boundaries then you have your answer. Don't stay with someone who doesn't respect you.
4 year in early 20s is nothing. You have 50-55 years ahead of you. Can you live 50 years like this??
Ah, a coworker. Give her this book:
– NOT “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity – Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D. with Jean Coppock Staeheli
First, I'm sorry you are going through this.
Others have noted “trickle truth”, and the pain it causes. I'll note here that it isn't just important for you to look up that and understand it, but let her know. The more “trickle truth” happens, the harder it is to repair. If she's fucked up, she needs to come 100% clean about all of it ASAP.
You two also need a marriage councilor, asap. Because I'm going to go against the flow here and say that you could save this, if you both want to.
She screwed up here. 100%. She's also a person that is going through a rediscovery of who she is, finding new confidence in herself. You two as a couple are going through life change with job changes. This is some serious, serious stuff. People are going to make missteps in these moments, and yes, sometimes really fucking bad ones. As others have also noted, you two both likely need some individual counseling as well to heal yourselves (and for her to have a place to process this new version of her while figuring out how to do so in a healthy way).
You guys need a plan. You need to sit down and figure out what the steps you can both take and individually take to heal from this, regain trust, and get to a place where she can honestly say it will never happen again and you can trust in that. This is what marriage counselling is for. Make an appointment asap.
WTF did I just read?
Definitely ! I was thinking the next time he asks , I’m going to say “sure but why don’t we invite the other ones that way it willl be fun!!”
Unfortunately, this is a very common talking point for so called “Men's-Rights activists”. I wouldn't marry someone who openly admits to not trusting me. I saw your comment about him cursing at you and calling you a bitch in arguments, another huge red flag. My mom always said, “if they're comfortable calling you a bitch, don't be surprised when they start hitting you like one.” Verbal abuse is often a precursor to physical abuse. I would get out now before it gets worse.
This is not what a great heart looks like and I’d really recommend you look at why you think it is. A normal reaction to your current scenario would’ve been “I must’ve lost signal there, what’s you say?”
This is a red flag and it’s probably not the only one.
This is only the preview of what he will do. It will escalate when you become vulnerable eg get pregnant. If he can find enough empathy to apologise to your dog but not to his own wife, that means he is a psychopath and/or he doesn't love you. I would walk if my partner did that to me
You think i should've talk to both of them at the same time? Or not at all? I understand now that it was not a good idea
It isn’t a deal breaker. And I don’t want to be her therapist, I just don’t want her to hurt herself, as it seems extremely painful whatever she is going through
If you're going to J.A.D.E., that is, Justify, Argue, Defend yourself, or Explain yourself, then at least don't do it over text. Voice call her.
This! Early of my relationship there was 1 time my partner was too busy (social life+work) that sent me text less regularly and not every engaged. I was anxious because i thought he tried to pull back then gradually disappeared, so i ask him if he still wants to continue with me. He immediately called me back to reassure me, and it makes me feel much eased than if he just texted.