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Date: January 14, 2023
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So my first thought was yeh maybe he does not want a baby but then I thought what if he just has some weird fetish? Like he jerks off knowing that he came into this condom because of you? I honestly would just ask him straight up why he did that. Not offensively just out of curiosity.
I’ll ask him for one tomorrow
Same here! Have a good night.
You’ve lived together and a year and been together how long??? Sounds like she groomed you and is now using you. She likes a free online in maid while she can fuck whoever she wants. If you stay you’re gonna become a free nanny as well, watching her kid while she gets knocked up again. Break up and find someone your own age who won’t use you. Start fresh and move in with your brother.
Can't wait for the I fucked around and found out follow up post from OP.
I’m still in shock but I think you’re right. He’s so sweet and kind to me now, which is why I was confused in the first place. Especially when I was bombarded by Reddit dms and comments saying he’s a psychopath and I’m being manipulated
“We kind of got into a back and forth argument when he said 'facts over feelings'”
Oof, cringe. Trade him in for a modern model.
Have empathy that someone treated your dad horribly & he cannot help what he is.
Let him have his dignity.
Honestly couples counselling is useless if the individual doesn’t want to save the relationship. Counsellors aren’t magic, you have to come in willing to do the work. I’m a huge advocate for therapy, but they would likely spend money trying to do half-assed CPR on a corpse.
Oh my. He sounds an awful lot like my EX husband. Things probably won’t change. In my case, they escalated and my life became even more miserable and left me wondering what the hell was wrong with me. After I left, I realized I wasn’t the problem. I wasn’t perfect, but all his actions and words had caused me to be so turned off by him and threw me into a years long depression. Looking back after I was out, I couldn’t believe (still can’t) that I stayed that long and put up with all that BS!!!
A true loving partner will not try and change you, manipulate you, control you, or abuse you physically, mentally, emotionally, sexually, spiritually, or verbally. They will also not give you a list of their perceived flaws/ineptitudes they find in you.
This isn’t a healthy or loving relationship. The fact that he is keeping track of how often you wear those pajamas and other things is so toxic by itself.
No one will be sexually attracted to a father, mean boss, or hall monitor figure. He’s created his own unhappiness by blaming everything on you and continuing to nag you and make you feel inadequate constantly.
Once I was free of this relationship (lasted 14 years), my whole world opened up. I realized I didn’t have a low libido. I just didn’t want to have sex with HIM because of how he treated me. The depression and anxiety and unhappiness lifted. I felt a freedom like never before. Now, years later I’m in a truly healthy relationship-partnership and I wish I had left that old relationship so much sooner. I stayed for the kids and because he had me convinced this was all my fault and something was wrong with me. Even said I should see a doctor about my low libido, because surely something was wrong with me only having sex with him 1-2 times a week. That’s all I could stomach with him. There was no problem, except him. Now, even after being with my current love for 2 years we can have sex 4-7 times a week and I still want more lol. I wish for you to be happy and loved properly and well respected. Leaving is never easy, but it can be so worth it. Good luck to you sister!
Buddy, she tells you she thinks she might not want to be with you anymore. Which sounds like shes tip toing around an idea shes had for a while. Now her telling you she wants to go to couples councelling. I think shes just trying to keep you around in case things with the other guy dont work out, but i promise you, if she hasnt already, she is going to “try” the mutual friend out romantically. but if she spent the night, as an ADULT, im sorry but the odds are she already crossed the line. But I think its a line she made her mind up on a while ago.
This is one of those moments you look back on later in life and go what the hell was I thinking
Hope it works out for you
You’re either extremely monogamous or you are not. Which is it? If you’re still sure you are, you should end it now. This will continue to come up.
What would OP possibly gain from from explaining himself to her? That would purely be for her benefit and he should be 100% over doing anything for her at all. She's trash and doesn't deserve any more of OP's time or resources.
I am so sorry this happened to you, I hope both you and your cat arent both traumatized! Your kitty must be so happy you found him! I'm glad you are ditching the low empathy/no empathy, callous sociopath. I cant even imagine someone taking my cat and lying about where he is. Now the co-worker knows what a POS your ex is, so they should act accordingly. Good luck to you and Benji!
It’s a certainty that I would like to keep my coworker in my life and have some sort of romantic relationship.
Here we go. A pathetic cheating egoist went to Reddit to justify his cheating.
Why don't you tell your girlfriend this and let HER be the one to decide whether she wants to be with YOU?
Oh, right, probably because she'll dump ya cheating ass…
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I (31F) found out at the start of the year that my boyfriend (30M) of six years was cheating on me with one of his work colleagues. I was devastated but immediately ended the relationship and moved out of the house we shared together. When we were together my family loved him and really welcomed him into the family immediately. They know he cheated on me but are still in contact with him, my dad regularly plays golf with him still, despite knowing how much he’s hurt me. They’ve been pressuring me into going to relationship counselling with him for the past few months and think we should work through our issues. I told them that cheating is a non negotiable to me and not something I am willing to ‘work through’ with him.
I’ve already got a lot to work through with trying to move on from the loss of a relationship and that betrayal, and it is making it even more difficult feeling like I’m losing my family too due to their lack of support and understanding. It’s like their choosing him over their own daughter. I don’t know how to handle things without cutting them off.