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Date: April 24, 2023
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You should leave her, one would think you have learned your lessons, but you respect, and understanding gets in your way.
You will much happier acting more selfish. She has lied to you multiple times do leave her. She has lied about him, so she needs to ghost him. You shouldn't give a crap what he deserves.
Leave her, you should gave done way, way earlier. In fact the moment you have discovered first lie, you should have asked her to ghost bob.
Do you enjoy, being in crappy relationships? It sure seems like that.
I understand why you feel hurt and betrayed. I imagine it feels like a real slap in the face that she’s ‘moved on’ so quickly. I’ve been there.
However, the best thing you can do is turn away and ignore.
Get some space. Don’t engage with her. Remove her from social media. Tell your friends that you don’t want to hear about what she’s up to.
I know how hot that will be. It’s naked to become so separate to someone whose life was entwined with yours. However, it’s for the best that you get and maintain distance.
It may be freeing for you to consider that what she does is none of your business nor your problem. What you do is none of her business.
I know it hurts right now, but it won’t always hurt this much. One day you will wake up and you will feel less sad. It will take time, but this pain will eventually go away.
This is abusive behaviour.
The physical stuff you described — hitting, pinning you down, etc — is 100% clearly abuse.
But the other stuff is as abuse as well, even if it's more subtle — like trying to keep you isolated by discouraging you from hanging out with other people — thats limiting your social outlet, and increases your availability to her, as well as stops you from gaining any perspective on this relationship.
This whole business of pouring drinks for friends but not you, refusing to listen to your problems and making the discussion all about her, etc etc — whether she realises she's doing it or not, that is abusive behaviour that is designed to lower your self-esteem and keep you dependent on her. (Think about it this way — you're more useful to her if you have terrible self-esteem, because that way she can treat you like a punching bag.)
She's a lot of your “firsts”, so it's natural to feel like you won't be able to find the good things (kissing/sex/intimacy) elsewhere. That's because your brain has no frame of reference for finding these things elsewhere. You're only 23, you're still very young and have plenty of time ahead of you.
The fear of missing out is crippling.
But imagine what you're missing out on by staying in this relationship. If you left * You get to hang out with other coworkers if you want (and not worry about your girlfriend slagging them off). * You don't have to spend 8 hours drinking and listening to the same crap music, feeling sidelined and ignored. * You can find friends that you share interests with and have fun with them. * You don't have to be put up with being called awful names or being physically (or verbally, or emotionally) abused anymore. * You're now free to meet a girlfriend who treats you respectfully and can actually make you happy, rather than treating you like dogshit.
That is what you should be afraid of missing out on.
Make a plan. Talk with your support network (it sounds like your on-line buddies know what's up and can be supportive in this situation). If there's anything you absolutely need from her place (things like house keys, important documents etc), then get that stuff back with as little contact with her as possible. Write down all the physical abusive stuff she's done (including dates/photos if possible). And then cut her off — block her number, block her on socials. If she approaches you at work, tell her to leave you alone. If she causes trouble, talk to your boss/HR. She does not deserve, and is not entitled, to any more of your time, energy or heartbreak.
You deserve so much better, and you can absolutely find it — but first you have to leave.