Agreed. I don’t understand the mindset of a lot of people here that as soon as you enter into a relationship with someone, they’re your top priority. When it turns into a life partnership sure, but there’s no way someone should be putting their new partner over their lifelong best friend
Those times are past. Do not stay with someone out of nostalgia or Sunk Cost Fallacy. It's called “fallacy” for a reason. Now it's time to take care of yourself.
Lmao you want your gf to feel “safe” when you lied to her face and are asking internet strangers for advice on how to basically gaslight her? Fuck off with that shit.
If you're long distance then it should be quite easy to not know that he's seeing someone else. You won't bump into them at the grocery store or be invited to the same parties.
Yes i agree with you i have to pay attention to the “rebuilding” process of our trust together because as you said things will obviously feel wierd for a bit
info: how long have you two been together?
Agreed. I don’t understand the mindset of a lot of people here that as soon as you enter into a relationship with someone, they’re your top priority. When it turns into a life partnership sure, but there’s no way someone should be putting their new partner over their lifelong best friend
Yes, and if they're married it won't matter. You're talking about if they divorce
Don't do that
That doesn't address what I said at all.
Those times are past. Do not stay with someone out of nostalgia or Sunk Cost Fallacy. It's called “fallacy” for a reason. Now it's time to take care of yourself.
Lmao you want your gf to feel “safe” when you lied to her face and are asking internet strangers for advice on how to basically gaslight her? Fuck off with that shit.
Seems like you need therapy asap. Also, stay away from him unless it has to do with the kids.
Cheating isn't uncommon, getting pregnant isn't always hard, people are horrible.
Yeah reddit checks out.
If you're long distance then it should be quite easy to not know that he's seeing someone else. You won't bump into them at the grocery store or be invited to the same parties.
Yes i agree with you i have to pay attention to the “rebuilding” process of our trust together because as you said things will obviously feel wierd for a bit