Nope. Taking it slow is 3-4 months of dating then deciding to be exclusive. Not a year of dating, sleeping together, going out, cooking meals, all while being told you two are “just friends”
He is treating you as a reliable f$ck and some companionship while he decides what else he wants. It's been a year. He's never going to commit to you in some grand gesture, it is not going to get any better than this, & please don't sunk cost fallacy yourself into sticking around longer.
Believe that you deserve so much better than this BS.
i'd like to point out that him comparing you going out drinking with your friends to him hooking up with a female coworker is manipulation. that is not the same thing. at all.
you deserve someone who isn't going to use your need for space against you.
I didn’t even check if the door was locked or not it was closed, if the door was locked that would have been the end of that door if I did check.
we are just friends
he's taking it slow.
We have been dating for almost a year now
Nope. Taking it slow is 3-4 months of dating then deciding to be exclusive. Not a year of dating, sleeping together, going out, cooking meals, all while being told you two are “just friends”
He is treating you as a reliable f$ck and some companionship while he decides what else he wants. It's been a year. He's never going to commit to you in some grand gesture, it is not going to get any better than this, & please don't sunk cost fallacy yourself into sticking around longer.
Believe that you deserve so much better than this BS.
i'd like to point out that him comparing you going out drinking with your friends to him hooking up with a female coworker is manipulation. that is not the same thing. at all.
you deserve someone who isn't going to use your need for space against you.
The fact she so easily called you a bitch to another guy just to get a free drink, says all you need to know about her character.
Ain't no man going to get me to say something derogatory about my husband for a damn free drink. Not worth it to me
I RESPECT my husband to much for that. Clearly your gf don't respect you at all.
I would be calling her my ex gf if I were you,
Let this one go, but keep the proof in your back pocket if she brings it up again.