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Date: November 26, 2022
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You're young…. but your time, your youth is finite, don't waste more time then you have to with anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself.
Are you joking? Maybe Elinor thought OP knew but Spencer? Her best friend who knew how tortured she was over the affair- no way. I think he knew she didn't know but was falling for Elinor and wanted things tied in a neat little bow. OP needs to leave the husband and find a new BFF
I think if you explain to her it's not that you don't trust her it's just you would like it if it for you to pay it since you feel like you are trying to make sure she has enough money to do more stuff instead of always paying for something that you can handle. Remind and asure her you love her and it's something you want to do by yourself. In basics be straight forward but not to forward.
I am sorry for you, OP. I really do wish you the best.
You can't. It's not your job to change your mother's mind. Best you can do is say that what she's doing is fucked up and that you'll never support it. What she does with that is up to her.
What do you think I mean by more invasive? A cheek swab and getting blood drawn are on the same level to you??
lmao fail
I could be wrong because I’m a man but preheating the woman with an orgasm makes her more prone to have more. Could he use a vibrator/toy on you so you orgasm during foreplay? Then keep constant bullet vibrator on your clit?
I'm failing to see why anyone would want to make her see such a horrible shit. She's in the right, and you tell him that. And you leave her where she is to have a nice life with her salon, her husband and her baby.
He mentioned he was planning to buy it for himself after his first tax season. It sounds like he did NOT mention why it was so significant or important that he buy it himself.
She may have just assumed he didn't have the free cash right now which is why he was waiting, so she decided to surprise him with something he really wanted, earlier than expected, as an anniversary gift.
My partner did something similar for me years ago and surprised me with a nice pair of Bose headphones I had been eyeing up but never bought due to the price tag. It was very thoughtful of her.
I feel like I was honey potted. Oof, that's some questionable wording there my dude. I get that you're struggling with what's happening, but I seriously doubt she intentionally tricked you. I can't imagine what she would've gained from that. Time to put that nonsense aside and address this like a rational adult.
If you haven't talked to her about it, you should have that talk in the calmest way you can without being accusatory. Be curious about why this is going the way it's going. Share what you miss and ask how she's feeling and what's going on in her head that makes her less affectionate and more standoffish. Maybe she's struggling with something she's not sharing that you can help with. Or maybe it's time to establish some more structured boundaries and schedules so that it's easier for you both to online together. And if you're really that miserable, maybe you two should go back to living separately. But you won't know if this could be better until you two talk about it.
It's important to remember that this is a very big change for both of you and it may take time and effort to get to a point where it's happy. And it may never get there – this may not work. It's one thing to see each other for a few hours then go home to your own spaces and an entirely different thing to have to spend every moment at home with the other person. She might need more time alone or might need to be encouraged to keep her own separate life or who knows.
Best of luck.
is this woman mental? she might as well stick a sign on her back saying “human traffic me please”. if you want to go somewhere use a proper tourguide not some random dude off fucking instagram
What is your question?
par·a·phrase /ˈperəˌfrāz/
verb express the meaning of (the writer or speaker or something written or spoken) using different words, especially to achieve greater clarity.
Her ex boyfriend controlled what she could wear, who she could talk to, and beat her up. You on the other hand, let your girlfriend's friend move in, no questions asked, to your extra bedroom to help and support her and make sure she was safe. You'd think that, combined with your SIX YEAR LONG HISTORY, would be sufficient evidence that you and this guy are nothing alike and I don't blame you for feeling insulted.
I think you did the right thing leaving because your girlfriend isn't being rational. I get being upset on her friend's behalf but for fuck's sake you do not deserve this at all. She is the one that needs therapy, not you.
If you did nothing, she would be pissed at you too.
you don't know this. everyone is being hot on the gf and projecting onto her. they both went through a very traumatic thing last night, her doubly so because of her abused past
Agree with others on death grip ..
BTW There’s absolutely NO WAY of saying it without being degrading so don’t say a word
I just worry about her taking care of the children, I feel like I'm trapped between caring about myself or the kids and I always put myself on the bottom.
“We want to remain friends”
You're not friends, though – he was an exploitative asshole who took advantage of your labor for uears and gave nothing back. Stop this. Cut all contact – it will help you move on.
“Yesterday we were looking for a new apartment for him”
No. Stop. His housing is officially no longer your problem, it's his issue to deal with on his own, or with help from people who are not you.
You need a therapist – you describe yourself as having multiple mental illnesses. A therapist can help you work on this as well as everything else you have going on.
If you previously agreed to it then what can you do? Like others have said, teen porn is just a label and what it means is 18-20 (although often the actresses are older). Under 18 would be illegal and be considered child porn and I very much doubt your man is watching that. Even attempting to search for it or own it can often get you into trouble. These things are policed heavily online and rightfully so.
That being said, men are naturally (biologically, almost involuntary) physically attracted to young women as those are the women who are most fertile and “in their prime”. Having an issue with that is like having an issue with biology or to draw another parallel: like having issue with the sky being blue. It’s just the way it is. However, if it is a big bother for you then perhaps you are simply not as okay with the porn as you initially thought. If you allow porn in your relationship you can’t be censoring and deciding what he can and can’t watch.
Decide if this is important for your relationship or if you can just move past it.
This guy is going to dump you shortly after birth. Start preparing to be single via budgeting, figuring out where you will online, researching procedure for getting child support, figuring out who can help you. Just get your ducks in a row.
What are you talking about? I think OP has every right to have his boundary, just as she does. You all are ridiculous, we all have our right to our own boundaries, including me.
i know 🙁
I mean, op's wife probably had no conception of how far niche fetishes can go. If you said niche fetish to me, I would probably think oh, feet, messy foods, bdsm, furries. I might not be thinking of more taboo gross things like scat and waterworks. I would really not be thinking of the truly hideous places “niche fetishes” can go like online animals, rape, snuff, children. She may have realized that the big grey area she didn't really put any thought into could actually be black as all hell.
Having seen the poo now which she didn't consider before, op's wife might be wondering how far has this man's career taken him and were there ethical limits. It's worth another conversation (assuming there actually were ethical limits).
She shouldn't have told any family about the poo though, that's unconscionable.
A gentleman would delete pictures if asked for any reason.
You must not be Orthodox Jewish. We are not allowed to touch people of the opposite sex unless we are married to them or directly related to them. I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we knew each other only 3 weeks or so. But we knew it was right after just a few dates! We’re getting married this summer when I fly out to Israel.
Honestly this isn’t an American guy or Philly guy thing at all, this is just a he’s-swiftly-falling-down-the-t@teism-in€el-pipeline thing. Most men aren’t like this (at least, as a woman living in America, I certainly hope not) and it’s only a matter of time before he goes from bashing other women in front of you to negging you to trying to get you to date or sleep with him, and when you say no, he’ll turn on you and you’ll become one of “those uppity, conceited, selfish b*tches” too. It’s happened to a lot of us and it’s not your fault, but sadly there’s nothing you can really do about it because he by default sees all women (including you, his sisters, even his own mother) as less than. If I was in this situation I would extricate myself from this friendship.
She understands my concerns, but sounds like she still wants to have this happen.
You can't just tell her you have some concerns. You have to tell her absolutely not.
I guarantee she will take full advantage of the situation and not leave.
Saying yes and no is going to effect your marriage.
But maybe saying no will only temporarily affect if your MIL realized she has to buckle up and get a job and support herself.
But the damage will be long-lasting and maybe permanent if she moves in.
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