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This reads like a humble brag. And he obviously invited you over for sex
women should be allowed to get drunk without getting taken advantage of. this same sort of thing happened to me. I was at a party, got too drunk, and assaulted by a “friend.” I didn’t really realize what happened until the day after. the process of getting a rape kit can be very complicated and scary.
maybe consider the possibility that if she did in fact get taken advantage of, would you want to be there for her, supporting her? or do you want to be that guy who doesn’t believe her and hurts her when she’s already going through something awfully traumatic? I understand this might be difficult for you to fully understand since you weren’t there but this is a very real thing that happens to many women. be gentle, good luck.
Break up with him immediately. He’s not interested in a solution, even something as simple as lube. He’d rather hurt you, and that’s incredibly fucked up and selfish. You need to go to a doctor and look into whether you have vaginismus or another condition. Wishing you the best of luck solving your problem for you to enjoy sex with a better person.
Your anecdotal experience is utterly irrelevant. Please educate yourself.
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I think that's nice, but maybe think about a bunch from a florist, not supermarket flowers.
this is put a lil bluntly but you should be able to process a little more than you are now with a better therapist. a lot of therapists milk you for all youve got and prolong healing
Leave. You're getting your life together, and honestly, if you got a debt from 20k to 4k, you are doing a great job. You don't need him and his mom committing mail fraud and identity fraud in your life, and you don't need a man that would rather run to his mommy instead of talk to you.
I once had someone twice my age(I was underage, like 17) only quit flirting with me at work after I told them “I’m waiting till marriage”. I told him no several times through the course of a month, but this was what pissed him off and made him stop.
3 years and a huge lesson learned, you can't trust her, she's immature and has narc traits. I'm so sorry she didn't value your dignity enough and the intimacy of your relationship.
I honestly don't know how to move on from that betrayal. Isn't that against the law?
Sometimes I really wonder if people can be this clueless and lack this much awareness.
“Other than that I’m completely disgusted by him, he’s great”
You groomed and robbed this girl of her entire 20s and you’re sad now?
Bite him.
Joking aside, that's so far beyond okay and actually super dangerous. I'd make sure to point this out next time you discuss acceptable behaviour with him.
Good luck ?
I was going to comment that I had a sexless relationship for two years & it turned out he was gay & I was his cover. Then I read the rest & don’t think I even needed to comment this.
I’ve been scrolling to see this comment. I’m so shocked so many people think it’s okay for a spouse to control who you’re friends with. In any case what does the friends marriage problems have to do with me.
Ahah I was going to edit my comment to add that, this is probably a troll
Eh. If my partner paid for sex before we were together but hasn’t since, won’t while we are together, and got checked for STDs, it doesn’t really impact me or our relationship. If they want to share about it, fine. But I don’t feel entitled to know.
It’ll be an awkward conversation, largely because I’d be concerned about exploitation.
Doesn’t have to be a placeholder. You can feel bad someone thought you sucked and also be over someone. Emotions aren’t black and white, we’re complex human beings.
Don't forgive him. Neither the rape nor the choking is forgiveable.
However you do NOT have to feel obliged to immediately report him to anyone. It's traumatic telling people about this sort of thing, and you do not have to. You can tell who you like when you want. You can tell your friends when they're saying why did you guys break up? But you don't have to.
Ok thanks for the insights. All great questions and thoughts. We both make similar, good incomes and are professionals, but she has more student loans than I do. Hahaha no Chris Rock scenario here. Thanks for sharing the financial advice forum, very helpful! We discussed this before she moved in and she wanted to split everything. I just wanted to see what other couples do. I've been thinking about it all.
You’re way overstepping and you need to back the fuck off. You have no right to try to moderate what your wife eats. Learn to back off and don’t apply your disordered relationship with food to your wife.
Probably need it
And you left it at that? Bring it back up. Tell her everything you told us here. Tell her how she has destroyed not only your self-confidence but also your desire to be intimate with her.
It may get his ass kicked one day. He should chill
Just to clarify, during his gaming sessions, he is not completely ignoring me, maybe it was not clear. We can have a conversation, he comes to cuddles a little when it s loading or when he dies ( We have a not so great internet connexion so it is often ) But thank you for the advice
She doesn't get to invade your privacy because of her insecurity. Why would you even have let her use the laptop if you were hiding something, which you're not. Yes, you're allowed to keep whatever photos of your past that you want, and no she's not entitled to look through your computer bc “trust issues”. Tell her she just created trust issues for you with her because she didn't even ask, just did it. And she apparently is approaching this very casually as if she had a right to. That's what's most concerning to me here.
You have a right to feel violated and not want to trust her. Do with that what you will, whether that's breaking up or giving her another chance with a firm understanding that she is to work on her own insecurity issues, ask questions she has, and accept whatever answer you give if you don't want to share whatever it is she “needs” to check. I, personally, would break up with someone who was so absorbed with themselves they decided to violate me to feel better about their own insecurities, but I don't know the dynamic of your relationship. You're valid in whatever you choose to do, and she will have to on-line with the consequences of her actions.