I appreciate the response. I definitely don't feel like I have a dependency on her for emotional support. I just have troubles sleeping sometimes, anxiety in large groups, etc.
She's not on birth control, I got a vasectomy about 4 years ago. Her diet is very good and clean. She's a certified nutritionist and health coach, not like “Beach Body healthy coach” but like actual nationally registered health coach. She had thyroid cancer several years ago, and as a result half of her thyroid was removed, and is on medication for that, and does quarterly check ins for labs.
I'm scared to bring this up in conversation with her, because I don't want to hurt her feelings or make her feel like all I value is sex. But there is definitely some value in sex in a marriage, and we are missing out in that value.
Unfortunately I don’t think the relationship will last either way. She has an abortion and y’all stay together, she’ll likely resent you for not being supportive and regret having the abortion. You bear through and she keeps the pregnancy, the honeymoon phrase starts to subside and who knows what it’ll be like having a baby when y’all haven’t even lived together/combined finances. It’s a lose, lose situation. No one here is an asshole, I told my bf that if I fell pregnant I’d want an abortion bc I’m too young/haven’t bought a house/can’t drive, but if I fell pregNaNt who knows what I’d do, I’ve always wanted kids. You’ve been very supportive and understanding in this situation, a shame it’s arisen so early into your relationship ?
I appreciate the response. I definitely don't feel like I have a dependency on her for emotional support. I just have troubles sleeping sometimes, anxiety in large groups, etc.
She's not on birth control, I got a vasectomy about 4 years ago. Her diet is very good and clean. She's a certified nutritionist and health coach, not like “Beach Body healthy coach” but like actual nationally registered health coach. She had thyroid cancer several years ago, and as a result half of her thyroid was removed, and is on medication for that, and does quarterly check ins for labs.
I'm scared to bring this up in conversation with her, because I don't want to hurt her feelings or make her feel like all I value is sex. But there is definitely some value in sex in a marriage, and we are missing out in that value.
Unfortunately I don’t think the relationship will last either way. She has an abortion and y’all stay together, she’ll likely resent you for not being supportive and regret having the abortion. You bear through and she keeps the pregnancy, the honeymoon phrase starts to subside and who knows what it’ll be like having a baby when y’all haven’t even lived together/combined finances. It’s a lose, lose situation. No one here is an asshole, I told my bf that if I fell pregnant I’d want an abortion bc I’m too young/haven’t bought a house/can’t drive, but if I fell pregNaNt who knows what I’d do, I’ve always wanted kids. You’ve been very supportive and understanding in this situation, a shame it’s arisen so early into your relationship ?
Why have you offered him to look through your conversations/dms? Like, how did this come up and why?