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Oh wow, we are almost in 2023 and there are still ‘men’ out there with this point of view? So men can have sex and girls need to stay ‘pure’. Go on fuck yourself.. dump his ass.
Yes he is, he has women friends who aren’t straight and I don’t have a problem with him hanging out alone with him. That’s why I also stated in my post that sexuality matters to me in this situation.
I’d be more worried that a 23 year old man got that close to a 14 year old. If you’re fine with that and believe he’s never showed anything more than brotherly interest in her you’ve got nothing to worry about.
If that’s the true nature of their relationship she likely adores him like you would a big brother and doesn’t view him sexually.
Tbh if she feels more than that it’s 100% on your grown man bf that he didn’t catch and correct when he first befriended a child.
You owe him nothing. Break up with him and block him on all platforms. His opinion of you doesn't matter. He is dirt under your shoe.
I think this info might of needed to be in the original post, as I was about to reply with not to waste time someone who doesn’t care about you.
However, knowing he has autism and it’s severe changes my reply. As typical advice doesn’t apply, his brain literally works differently. The way he processes information and emotions is very different to the average person. He’s not accountable for that, it’s not his fault. Sure he can receive advice and coaching from professionals to help, but in the end he’s a victim of his own mind.
I think the decision you need to make here needs to be based on the relationship itself, are you otherwise happy in the relationship? If not, then I agree to part ways. Otherwise if all is well and this is an isolated incident then you can try communicating to him in a way that works for him to understand how it made you feel.
Final advice – any reason is a valid reason to break up with someone, never feel like you have to justify yourself.
Never get couples therapy with your abuser.
Sounds like rape. If you were long distance and she cheated, why tell you about it? It wouldn’t be to get rid of guilt – then she’d just have more guilt for lying to you about something so serious.
Bro, it’s over. Get out.
This is objectively bad. You want to be the good guy here, but you can be a good guy in a situation that works for you.
What’s not okay here:
You are doing things that should be expected of the kids father or being the husband. That is her responsibility.
You are accepting someone who does not act like an independent adult. Those things should not be acceptable.
You are allowing her insecurities to effect your quality of life because you are not challenging her ability to move forward from them.
Why does this matter?:
There is no issue dating a woman with a kid, but they shouldn’t be letting you play dad so easily here.
Financial independence should be an expectation if you are too. Otherwise the line between wanting to be together and deciding they would be happier elsewhere disappears for whoever you are with. You don’t get the same type of honesty there.
Festering insecurities destroy relationships as you are experiencing. Recognize the neediness and controlling as these. Talk about these early on when you see them, and figure out how to work on them together. Do not do that in a way where you lose independence at the cost of allowing someone to remain stuck in them but be comfortable.
Overall you end up here if:
You enjoy the empowerment of feeling needed, the attention paid that comes with feeling like the hero, and the empowerment of making a lot of the decisions that work out better than someone w/o basic life skills making them. You also never get an equal partner when someone needs you like that.
So:
Your gf is not going to grow up to be a responsible parent or adult so long as you allow that to be okay by being here. You are not going to be happy until that happens. So nothing productive is going to happen until you break up, or you challenge the immaturity, dependence, and games being played which will probably also break the relationship.
It’s the lying now that hurts me. Because I asked while we were in a relationship what he did during fwb and he keeps on lying… feel like I can’t trust him..
Considering this is a blind date, I would assume it would a splitting the bill type of situation. The fact that he knew he had money trouble before agreeing to a blind date makes me guess that he (1) expected you to pay from the beginning or (2) is trying to do a toxic test on you to see how you would react.
Personally, I’d happily pay for the bill and then reject him.
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you’re very right. i do understand it’s problems within myself. i just don’t know how to open this conversation when she’s allowed to post sexual content but gets upset with me when i make completely innocent tiktoks about my outfits. i just don’t know how i could be okay with a double standard like that.
Ummm I don’t want him coming as I don’t want her attack or shot etc (as OP mentioned was Bens excuse why worry unless you’re up to something).
Also it’s been seen a lot when a partner starts nee group of friends and they change their personality and behaviour.
There was a story where the OPs wife started hanging out with a group of women at new job and they were all actively having affairs and cheating then his wife started sleeping with the boss and only stopped when she overheard him bragging how easy she was but that he’s not interested in anything more. Then he slept with another one of the group and got her pregnant.
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“Give me a reason to give you another chance”… did I really just read that??? Get f——d, dude!
I don’t really get the first part of what you’re saying. Why wouldn’t it be possible for him to have a strand of hair on him in a picture?
To clarify, I didn’t really think he was cheating when I thought I saw a strand of hair on him. I asked him about it because it did look like a woman’s hair and the photo was taken in bed, but there are a lot of situations where you can have a strand of hair on you.
I only started to think he was cheating when he said it was a lamppost. That made me think he was covering up the hair with a very poor lie (which was not the case), and I know it was wrong to accuse him of this.
Wow! The nerve to throw that word around and accuse you because she's jealous of her 16 year old sister. Break up with her! Stand your ground and set boundries.
I would never even consider staying with a cheater unless – they come clean on their own, they make no excuses (no BS about not feeling close, you were absent etc.), they volunteer to go no contact with their affair partner (even if it means quitting a job or leaving a friend group), are prepared to be transparent for a long time (no phone privacy etc.) and you both realize and commit to months to years of rebuilding trust.
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Why did he even came to the funeral? Normally the partner comes as the support but you need to care about him by checking on him every few minutes. He made the whole funeral about himself. People can grief how they wanr, but if something doesn't go how he think is right, he pout and make it for you harder and will not support you? Is this the life you want? His way or the highway?
Because when you care about someone you take steps back. Maybe for you, giving up on going out with your boobs flopping around every now and then seems like too much of a sacrifice, but logic dictates simply not wearing 2 or 3 of your 200 tops to please the person you're with and care about is perfectly acceptable. But these things all come down to personal preference. If my gf asked me not to wear my grey sweatpants or not do sth else cause she's uncomfortable, I'd do it because I care about her(something within reason ofc). It's not insane to take a step back every now and then to make the people you care about comfortable, and I'm not sure why it's such a foreign concept to you.
You married a woman who sucked her cousins dick. And you're mad at her??
A bit overkill there bro
Common sense that a guy would like to know if their girl gets home safe
More likely something nefarious is going on then her wondering if she will wake him up.
No. Harsh maybe. But honest. I would dump this guy. Yore exhausted and not happy . Why waste your time.
My name issue that I have with I have nowhere to go if we do and if I take her out but I don’t want to take her out as I know she has nowhere to go and I care too much about people in that sense
So they couldn't reschedule as well as hid it from you?
Nah that's some cruel shit OP..
Personally I'd write them all one letter and tell them thanks for making me feel unwanted..to enjoy their life together and to leave you out of everything from now on. I'd also leave and won't look back. But that's me..kids or not if they want their step mother then have her..they clearly want her more then you..
I'm a therapist … but I wouldn't write her off for it.
Let's just say that I'm glad you're not my therapist.
Hold your ground. Depending where you are in EU and her status, it will be TONS easier to fly in. Driving is absolutely NOT the way to visit NYC.
Source: Me, a NYCer for 20+ years.
You can do so much better. You don't need to put up with that! Leave his immature ass.
Congrats on your graduation, but there’s no way in hell I’d ever miss my brother’s wedding…
It’s a little very hot to tell from you post: are the friends rude to you or intentionally leaving you out? Or is this just a style difference: you play video games in an incompatible way?
I always knew Dan as a guy. In college he was kinda flabby, dressed in baggy clothes, clean shaven, no girlfriend etc. but his student ID definitely said Daniel _______. Then we lost touch for ten-ish years so when he reappeared with facial hair, a girlfriend, and dressing better I thought he'd just gone through the same virgin-nerd-to-well-paid-programmer transition as the rest of us.
Just tell him you don't have any complaints and there's more than just physical size to intimacy
If anyone's choosing a dog over family,its them because they're saying you ruined their dogs life. As much as our dogs are family, if they arent welcome somewhere they stay home so the inlaws can do just that with their little troublemaker
This kind of attitude screams of deep seated insecurity. OP sounds like one of those men who only cares what his partner’s looks say about him to other men. I’m sure his GF is perfectly attractive, he just spends too much time in certain corners of the internet.
He should break up with her, but he won’t because if he could “do better” he’d be out there doing it. She’s likely dating down on many levels. I hope she leaves him.
Yes i posted a link to a national health service about one that causes a fishy odor. It can be multiple sources but leads to a nitrogenated amino acid (on the chain part obv) that when it decays from over abundance causes the smell
I agree. Cheating isn't okay. She isn't scum of the earth though. You're a horrible person throwing rocks from a glass house honestly