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Date: December 18, 2022

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  1. What they said may have been out of line, but you took it to another level by combing through their post history and brought up their SO who has nothing to do with this, then later making fun of their shaken baby. You’re such a child OP

  2. Dude get out of that relationship.

    He sounds like a child

    Hitting your partner as retaliation for anything is absolutely never okay. If he lacks that understanding enough to not even know what he did wrong, he likely will do it again/lacks understanding of other abusive behaviors

  3. Well something like this happened to me, my dress fell down by accident. It was mortifying and my friend still dropped me after that night because of her own insecurities. Honestly I have a nude time believing this story is real or occurred exactly as described.

  4. Does she want a long time to think things through, or for time for the relationship to have space and to start over or she needs to vent idk she reads them all

  5. Surely you read the post chain you commented in and see we're talking about the marriage part?

    Marriage doesn't stop Infidelity. It does provide the legal framework to make sure you're covered.

    No one said it would stop cheating. We're saying it's dumb regardless of cheating or not.

    You realize that you can talk about one aspect of a post without having to discuss the other aspects that aren't relevant to the point? This is straight forward stuff they teach in middleschool. You break things into different points and discuss the points individually on merit. You are past middle school, right?

  6. if people didn’t feel the need to adolescently patter on about ‘hot celebrities’

    This is a weird thing to be bothered by tbh.

  7. I appreciate what you’re saying, I don’t want to hurt him and I know these actions will. I love him and I don’t want to disappoint him. In my last relationship I was made to feel bad about my mental health and he didn’t want to know, and I wonder whether that’s what kept me from sharing it. It doesn’t come from a place of wanting to be deceitful but rather fear of his reaction. Deep down I feel like I’m not good enough for him and I don’t deserve him – which is why I haven’t said anything. It’s the only thing I’ve kept from him, and I know he has a right to know

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  10. Why are in a relationship with a grown ass man who is at a different stage of life? You are at a child who just entered adulthood. Ffs you still live! with your parents.

    Break up with that guy. He's not healthy for you. Get a job and move out. If you want to grow up as an individual and expect your parents to regard as functional adult, then move out, work a job and go to school.

  11. If he knows how you feel then i’m afraid that’s your answer. You were FWB before but now he has a girlfriend. I don’t think he would’ve been searching for or open to having a girlfriend if he felt the same about you. It might be that not he’s not sure how to reject you in a “nice” way and still wants to keep the F part of the FWB.

  12. You not only married him but had 3 of his kids passing ok his behavior and dna down the line. It’s never too late to learn how to and start rewarding good behavior.

  13. Your body, your choice. If you plan to stay with him, it's a bomb waiting to go off if he ever finds out though.

  14. Love is a choice and clearly he’s made his. Cut your losses and go. He’s never gonna be the man you want him to be.

  15. A 27 year-old thats supposedly “mature” jealous of a 22 year old that works harder than him and starts saying it's unfair…? Please drop his ass? Like right now and don't ever look back.

  16. I don’t think you need to see anything on his Instagram. His other behavior is concerning enough. He’s in his 30s partying with college students, staying out all night, and lying about where he’s been.

  17. Lmao that is horrible advice.

    Op keeps it short and sweet. None is actually anyone else’s business. Op just wants to stop any comments or inquires. And clear the air.

    Don’t add nothing extra lmao.

    “Just want to state the baby actually isn’t mine. Im not a father. We’re getting a divorce. Id like my privacy on that matter. Thank you. “

  18. “You sound like a pathetic troll who needs attention from strangers on Reddit.”

    Oh, the absolute irony…

  19. Yeah I agree. Ops hobbies are very active, if she was with someone who was smore of a gamer/tv/movie person. Their lifestyles are different and that likely wouldnt work out as it also shows different value systems.

  20. Have him go get checked for depression, people who are depressed, will turn words around, even when you meant respect or complements.

    Example:

    You: You look very nice today.

    Depressed person: What? You mean I didn’t look good yesterday, what’s your problem? Why are you so mean to me? Don’t talk to me, I am super mad at you.

    Then they storm off.

  21. We don't know he is cheating yet.

    He said he is seeing someone. He could have just started seeing them and it is not exclusive yet. He could be cutting it off with his fwb BEFORE he goes exclusive with this other person.

    Nowhere does it say he is cheating. So she came over for sex. He gave it to her, then told her it was over. In this situation he did nothing wrong, that we know of.

  22. If you need to do some thing to hurt his ego to make yourself feel better/get closure, do it now and then cut contact. Because the reality is that you’re still pining over him and he’s still probably talking to multiple other women and copying and pasting messages he’s sending to the fake you. This guy sucks. You’re better than him. You’ve gotta move on.

  23. Could be to shes exhausted. 4 babies in 6 years. Cooking cleaning diapers teething..yard work laundry..list goes on.. Does she get 8 hours? Plus she still has baby blues to deal with.

    I think thats why she dies not have the stamina for daily sex.

  24. You need to take a deep breath and pull on your big girl pants here. You are an adult now and you do not need to take any shit or let any other adults push you around and make you do anything you do not want to do. You cannot afford to be a pushover, this is a permanent life-altering decision that cannot be taken back after the fact. You and only you are in charge of your body, your decisions, and your life.

    You are absolutely right to get an abortion at your age when you do not want and are not ready for a baby. You are protecting your own future, and (if you want to have them) your own future children from achieving the life you really want.

    Call the service that sent you the pills and see if they will be willing to replace them as you did not receive them. If not, you can go to planned parenthood (I understand they have low cost options based on income) or go balls to the wall and tell the thieves (yes, your bf’s parents) that they stole your property and must give it back now or you will call the police. And then if they do not cough up you follow through and do it.

    You can stand up for yourself, and you do not have to care about other people’s opinions. You are the one that has to live! with your decisions. Get big, get angry, as you should be. They are 100% out of line and need to get out of your uterus.

  25. I didn’t even do anything wrong here. When we were together I feel I suppressed my needs to not be too much to the point where I felt I was there to make him happy , put their wants before my needs and was scared to ask for anything. Yet I’m exhausting? For existing and being in pain? Notice how I didn’t even describe any actions here, just said that I was in pain and was insulted for it. IM exhausted. I’m exhausted by being judged and made to feel like a burden for being autistic and mentally ill. What would be best for me is not listening to this opinion at all

  26. No, what you're talking about is someone having a wank to a video that is 10 years or more older. Provided the people in the video are above age at the time it was recorded and consented to making and distributing the video, all you're doing is making stupid moral arguments that have no relevance to what OP is actually discussing.

    So of course I'm not going to engage seriously because the comment has no objective basis.

    If you have something more substantial than “ew gross, wanking over a 10 year old video”, I would be glad to hear it.

  27. I wish we could hear your wife’s side of this story. She doesn’t want more kids, but she wants to make it work with you, and the reason she suggested a vasectomy is because it’s an in and out procedure for you, where as getting her tubes cut is an actual surgery that has a painful recovery time and everything.

    It’s easier for you but from your post and comments, this is more of a HER/problem and not a you-problem. SHE doesn’t want more kids, so SHE she needs to go take care of the problem HERSELF because you know you guys aren’t going to work out, and you don’t want to ruin your chances of having a kid with someone else.

  28. Girl you cannot keep living like this because it isn’t. He is manipulative, abusive and all this will get worse the longer you pet this off.

  29. She literally said some were “very inappropriate” Any amount of inappropriate in regards to a child is wrong.

  30. thank you – so many people don't understand that when a child as young as the sister is sexually violated, they learn that sex is how to relate to people. This is then wilfully interpreted as the child's fault.

  31. Or maybe she didn’t cheat? I don’t disclose intimate details of my sexual relationship to my siblings and if I was in an open relationship, my siblings wouldn’t know.

    You felt comfortable enough to open the door while she was having sex. You should feel comfortable enough to use your words and ask her if she cheated.

  32. Meaning: eff him.

    But no sex.

    That clearer? People in that yesterday shape of mind may be able to get the wife pregnant to destroy her unwanted carreer and tie her down to house and kids again.

    As it once worked.

  33. I see you are right and I’m not asking with a tone but I’m curious what your credentials relationship-wise are then? I did mention us being entangled financially. No one has a gun to my head but what you’re saying is not always easily done. We have bills we’re equally liable for, we share a car, we love each other’s families, no kids but would that be worth you considering hypothetically? We built our lives around each other. And yes that makes what I did even worse because the stakes are high but I’m only addressing your last point. It’s not exactly simple to leave and neither of us could have afforded to.

  34. How is she going to react when he takes a fellowship on the other side of the country or maybe even back in Europe?

  35. I mean it's good that she feels so comfortable with you tho! And it seems like you guys have really different views and attitudes towards sex. That may be something to bring up to her, but just make sure not to criticize or belittle her view. Neither of you have a wrong view, just different. Also when I read about her mentioning your friend Mike alot, I got the impression that it was because she wants to be liked by your friend and is showing interest (maybe too much for your liking) in your life. Perhaps your discomfort with her talking freely about sex made you view the Mike situation with a bias? In any case, try communicating with her.

  36. Well I understand what you mean but def not pedo lol.. more like the guy from You mixed with George Constanza vibes tbh

  37. Yeah I was thinking that too. Like sure showing you wiped down the kitchen counters is good, but you could also be like 'I'm gonna bend you over this when you get home'

  38. Then your wife can deal with infidelity and the death of her husband and the SIL can raise a kid all on her own while you get to RIP.

  39. He does not come across as a doting husband and father.

    Do you have somewhere safe to go because this guy sounds like he’ll kill you.

  40. INFO: You start off saying you’ve been saving for 5 years OP but don’t mention what amount you have put aside?

  41. Are we also picking up on her own admission that SHE was the other woman here… because they got together while he was with his ex that turned out to not really be an ex yet, so he proved that he broke it off for her

  42. Make a pro and con list about each guy. Choose the better guy. You’re young the stakes are not very high for you

  43. It sounds like you definitely need to work on yourself. Im kind of appalled at your lack of accountability. Saying you cheated online is not the same as being up front with your girlfriend. Not only that but you decided that her baring a part of her body was so awful you’d draw away and stick your dick in some random. As if those are at all in the same world.

    Your girlfriend tried and saw you withdrawing. Her shit was out in the open. Yours wasnt. To her shes the problem. You let her believe that was the sole issue. While being an immature man who cant deal with conflict in a relationship without dropping trou for the neighbour down the street. Go tell her what you did so she can have some peace of mind it wasnt totally her fault, and leave the girl alone. You both probably got work to do but at least she seems to be trying.

  44. If his own child is not allowed to set foot in his home, that tells you everything you need to know about him

    Nude Pass unless you want to be baby mamma #3

  45. What happens when you start fucking a guy that checks all the boxes as well as having a high sex drive as you?

    We know what happens.

    You are unsatisfied in a relationship. Passion, security and shared values are all needed for a succesful relationship.

    You know how we call people we don't have passion with? We call them friends.

    Sounds like a band-aid solution instead of an evolution of a relationship. And you seem to be intuiting the same.

  46. Then he shockingly divulged he had regular anal sex with his ex wife and how she (as well as he) really enjoyed it (she's a big issue in our relationship and I feel very jealous when it involves her

    He knows you feel insecure about his ex but still brings her up anyways to tell you about their sex life. This guy doesn't care about you, someone who did wouldn't do that to you.

  47. Then he shockingly divulged he had regular anal sex with his ex wife and how she (as well as he) really enjoyed it (she's a big issue in our relationship and I feel very jealous when it involves her

    He knows you feel insecure about his ex but still brings her up anyways to tell you about their sex life. This guy doesn't care about you, someone who did wouldn't do that to you.

  48. She's struggled with depression as well as I, we've both clawed our way out of it by ourselves and supported each other in doing so. We've talked numerous times about the issue, and I've done all I can to satisfy her needs before mine in bed. Regardless she does not seem to reciprocate what I've conveyed to her that I need, and in doing so has portrayed me as “the bad guy” in those discussions. We haven't tried counselling and I highly doubt she'd be open to it. I will suggest it if there's much value in doing so at this point.

  49. I did not say that, I said that trans people should absolutely tell the person there with what they are before they get intimate otherwise they can't complain when they person freaks out when finding out and beats them for it. I did not say I would rape you I said I would fuck you because doing so would not be gay. And don't threatened to rip something off you don't have and never will. You wouldn't last 10 mins in this country and let's be honest any non white country would take to the tallest building they can find and throw you off the roof. People like you are only tolerated in predominantly white countries everywhere else you just some freak of mentally ill nature

  50. You’re in a relationship with someone that doesn’t have future , get out of this relationship, you deserve better .

  51. Run as fast as you can! This is not the life path you should be on. This man is not yours and that woman is not a mother in law you deserve.

  52. I’m so confused…. Are you actually dating the man or are you his mother’s caretaker and house-sitter while paying HIM rent????

    He’s using you. 🙄

  53. If he’s choosing to stop hanging out with them then so be it, he can make new friends. I wouldn’t bother meeting them either, they don’t sound like good people.

  54. What do you mean by “domineering” and “intimidating?” By way of your stature? Or by way of your actions? Both? And if by way of your actions or both, what actions?

    Both. From 540+ lbs to 224lbs. Went from an obese teddy bear to a dude. Add on top of that I tend to get loud in arguments.

    You're dancing around some really critical pieces of information. What do you mean by “close, physically?” Have you threatened to or become close to hitting or in some way physically abusing your wife? If so, what? How? When?

    what I mean by close physically is that on two occasions during arguments, she got in my face to make her point, and it triggered something inside my brain and I grabbed her shirt collar and shook her, essentially, and told her to leave me tf alone. Never slammed her or shoved her down or anything like that. When= I don't recall, exactly, but both times within the last 12 months, most recent being approximately 5-7+ months ago.

    Who asked you or mandated you to attend couples counseling and parenting classes? Your wife? Or were you legally required to?

    How many children do you have? Why did you have to take parenting classes? (Besides, of course, the information about physical intimidation).

    My wife asked and I felt like it would benefit us and the kids. Three children, and because she has always felt I was too hard* on them, in ANY regards to discipline. Then I started to wonder the same.

    You can't convince your wife that you aren't the person she has witnessed and knows you to be. It sounds like you only just very recently started to work on yourself, and most of that involved “agreeing” to do certain things to better yourself rather than taking on the work to seek them out of your own volition.

    It was of my own volition? My wife brought something to my attention. I realized she may be right. I decided to give it an honest shot. No one is making me do anything.

    You need to step way, way, way back from trying to convince her that you've changed, and actually start changing.

    I have. A SHIT TON.

    “Agreeing to and attending” is not, on its own, necessarily positive or even meaningful change. Anyone can agree to and attend parenting classes or couples counseling. It's what you do with what you learned that matters.

    I have given them an honest chance AND I have put everything I've learned from them into practice in our/my daily lives.

    You need to stop trying to get your wife to fall in love with you and start doing the work for her safety and others around you. You should not be motivated soley by wanting her to love you again. You should be motivated by wanting to be a healthier partner, a healthier father, and a person whom others feel safe around.

    I am only motivated by those things, not only so she'll love me again. That's how it used to be, and my ONLY motivation is to make it so again.

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