So in your world “feelings” and “crushes” are interchangeable?
No. In my world, feelings and crushes can be the same thing, or feelings can be much deeper than crushes.
My point is that you have omitted significant information from both of your posts and still refuse to edit in information that would drastically alter responses to your situation. I am still very lost as to why you continue to not add in information that would actually benefit you and enhance the accuracy of responses.
You posted about your wife liking a coworker and cutting him off, yet in your comments you paint a picture of her apparently being in love with him. It's not reasonable to lash out at commenters for following along with the scenario presented in your posts when for whatever reason you've presented another, quite different scenario in your comments.
If you want advice about a wife who's in love with a coworker and confessed such to him, you need to write a post about a wife who's in love with a coworker and confessed such to him. Instead, you wrote a post about a wife who had feelings for a coworker – which could fall along an entire spectrum of emotions – and took appropriate action to separate herself from said coworker.
It is not readers' fault that so many of them are confused by how unclearly you have written your posts.
Using someone's resentment over you cheating as an excuse to cheat again is absolutely disgusting.
So in your world “feelings” and “crushes” are interchangeable?
No. In my world, feelings and crushes can be the same thing, or feelings can be much deeper than crushes.
My point is that you have omitted significant information from both of your posts and still refuse to edit in information that would drastically alter responses to your situation. I am still very lost as to why you continue to not add in information that would actually benefit you and enhance the accuracy of responses.
You posted about your wife liking a coworker and cutting him off, yet in your comments you paint a picture of her apparently being in love with him. It's not reasonable to lash out at commenters for following along with the scenario presented in your posts when for whatever reason you've presented another, quite different scenario in your comments.
If you want advice about a wife who's in love with a coworker and confessed such to him, you need to write a post about a wife who's in love with a coworker and confessed such to him. Instead, you wrote a post about a wife who had feelings for a coworker – which could fall along an entire spectrum of emotions – and took appropriate action to separate herself from said coworker.
It is not readers' fault that so many of them are confused by how unclearly you have written your posts.
This seems to be a common theme you post about.
I’m sorry you’re with such a sad and hurtful person but I’m not sure what Reddit can add at this point.
You can move out – he can find another roommate.
That’s why I included a TLDR ?