This is called trickle truth. Most likely the story will change again and it will be worse. Maybe it was 3 months in to your relationship instead of one, maybe it was full on sex instead of head, maybe it was full on sex without a condom, maybe the baby isn’t actually yours and this is how she is building up to telling you. I’m sorry man, the outlook isn’t good and how can you trust her now?
I don’t think he “deserves” anything. People can and will have their own secrets, private thoughts and past moments they don’t care to share with others. As long as her past actions aren’t affecting him in the present relationship, I think it’s okay if she keeps it to herself.
This is called trickle truth. Most likely the story will change again and it will be worse. Maybe it was 3 months in to your relationship instead of one, maybe it was full on sex instead of head, maybe it was full on sex without a condom, maybe the baby isn’t actually yours and this is how she is building up to telling you. I’m sorry man, the outlook isn’t good and how can you trust her now?
Go to the location and find out who are living there. You do not need proof to split up.
I don’t think he “deserves” anything. People can and will have their own secrets, private thoughts and past moments they don’t care to share with others. As long as her past actions aren’t affecting him in the present relationship, I think it’s okay if she keeps it to herself.