No, it’s just his close family. I am not super close with them, but we are polite and civil to each other. I would like to become closer to them, because I know they mean a lot to him.
This. It’s a really good point. I read that you shouldn’t tell your child you’d kill someone if they hurt them, because they’ll be afraid to tell you in case you were serious.
Our emotions value revenge much more than it is practical. At least according to people that know more about it than I do!
I love what you have said.
What I have found through many years of being in unhealthy relationships is:
The heathy side of being in a solid relationship is communication, compromise, love and trust (& NOT in that order!!)
If you don’t have those, most people fail. I’m almost five years married and 7 together exclusively…
We still disagree and have discussions of what we are good with or not. Sometimes we agree to disagree and move forward…choose your battles.
I’m a very independent person. And he is too. My husband knows that. But we can be ourselves and live! our own lives.
We both wouldn’t follow each others’ lives trying to see if the other was fucking up.
No reason to…if the other person is not able to be trusted…walk away. Get a better person in your life!
No, it’s just his close family. I am not super close with them, but we are polite and civil to each other. I would like to become closer to them, because I know they mean a lot to him.
You haven't been together long enough for there to be a “used to be”. You're learning who he is.
Regardless, it almost sounds like you're pestering him for affection.
Are you going to end things with ABC? because you should.
This. It’s a really good point. I read that you shouldn’t tell your child you’d kill someone if they hurt them, because they’ll be afraid to tell you in case you were serious.
Our emotions value revenge much more than it is practical. At least according to people that know more about it than I do!