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When you say he might like me but not be attracted to me do you mean he likes me as a friend? I'm just confused why he'd invite me to his house alone to do his hair and drink all night if there was no interest…I appreciate you're honesty!!
Can't upvote this enough. You are either paying rent to a landlord or your BF. It's still rent. It's still the cost of living somewhere. I don't understand this mentality that people have about paying rent in a spouse's house. You aren't at risk if he defaults on it, so you should not get equity.
That said, you must protect yourself with tenant rights. Draft a contract similar to a lease. As stated above, do not contribute to taxes or renovation. It is unfair for an owner to ask a tenant to pay those bills.
I would also negotiate a more fair split of chores. Being a homeowner does not forfeit your duty to clean or cook.
Lastly, have an honest conversation about what will happen if you decide to marry. That is the true dealbreaker conversation. He will either work with you on a fair plan or insist on sole ownership. At that time, you have a choice to either suck it up or bail. But that conversation should not happen until the both of you have rings on your finger.
I’d much rather get a gift that showed he was listening to me (knew my favourite show and that I can’t stream it anymore) than generic jewelry.
Your gift is great, don’t second guess it. The thought truly does matter most and it’s clear you put thought into this.
When you say he might like me but not be attracted to me do you mean he likes me as a friend? I'm just confused why he'd invite me to his house alone to do his hair and drink all night if there was no interest…I appreciate you're honesty!!
Can't upvote this enough. You are either paying rent to a landlord or your BF. It's still rent. It's still the cost of living somewhere. I don't understand this mentality that people have about paying rent in a spouse's house. You aren't at risk if he defaults on it, so you should not get equity.
That said, you must protect yourself with tenant rights. Draft a contract similar to a lease. As stated above, do not contribute to taxes or renovation. It is unfair for an owner to ask a tenant to pay those bills.
I would also negotiate a more fair split of chores. Being a homeowner does not forfeit your duty to clean or cook.
Lastly, have an honest conversation about what will happen if you decide to marry. That is the true dealbreaker conversation. He will either work with you on a fair plan or insist on sole ownership. At that time, you have a choice to either suck it up or bail. But that conversation should not happen until the both of you have rings on your finger.