It has been less than two weeks since you gave birth. The fact that you’ve taken the baby and gone 35 minutes away for a three hour visit is remarkable, and honestly more than you should have done.
Your fiancé should be taking care of you and the baby, and if his mother wants to support the two of you and see the baby, she needs to come to you, and bring dinner for the whole family. She can come over, do some laundry, and help out with the baby while you take a nap.
Your relationship went very fast from first date to becoming parents together for life. You two have a lot to learn as a couple, and investing in some purposeful learning about how to communicate effectively is vital if you’re going to still be together at baby’s first birthday.
But, right now you have to recover from childbirth, and focus on learning to parent your newborn.
Maybe a letter would be able to communicate with him better than talking right now. Let him know that you love him, that you want his mom to have time with the baby, but that you cannot be responsible for keeping her contact with baby identical to that if your parents who online with you and baby. Ask him to FaceTime every day with baby and his mom, and to let her know she’s welcome to visit whenever she can. Let him know exactly what you need from him, in terms of baby care, and care for you.
Does his mother have a guest room? If so, maybe you three can plan an overnight at her place on the weekend, so she can have some more concentrated time with the baby, and your folks can have a little break.
HAHAHA. Thank you.
No. Do not get married. Neither of you are mature enough for marriage.
It has been less than two weeks since you gave birth. The fact that you’ve taken the baby and gone 35 minutes away for a three hour visit is remarkable, and honestly more than you should have done.
Your fiancé should be taking care of you and the baby, and if his mother wants to support the two of you and see the baby, she needs to come to you, and bring dinner for the whole family. She can come over, do some laundry, and help out with the baby while you take a nap.
Your relationship went very fast from first date to becoming parents together for life. You two have a lot to learn as a couple, and investing in some purposeful learning about how to communicate effectively is vital if you’re going to still be together at baby’s first birthday.
But, right now you have to recover from childbirth, and focus on learning to parent your newborn.
Maybe a letter would be able to communicate with him better than talking right now. Let him know that you love him, that you want his mom to have time with the baby, but that you cannot be responsible for keeping her contact with baby identical to that if your parents who online with you and baby. Ask him to FaceTime every day with baby and his mom, and to let her know she’s welcome to visit whenever she can. Let him know exactly what you need from him, in terms of baby care, and care for you.
Does his mother have a guest room? If so, maybe you three can plan an overnight at her place on the weekend, so she can have some more concentrated time with the baby, and your folks can have a little break.