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Date: December 15, 2022
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Like I wouldn’t mind being friends if you know what I mean. He just doesn’t have what suits a romantic relationship:)
Let's assume that's all true (it might be, it might not be, we dont have full picture).
Why on earth demand house is sorted before counselling?
1) Financial issues: what is the split of rent, utilities, groceries?
2) Chores, who will be responsible for what chores?
1) Time and Space: there should be a clear agreement on when friends can or cannot be over and how late. Such as, if you have to be up to go to work/school at 6 am, it would be very rude of him to have friends over being loud until 2 am.
You are not going to change my mind. I fought to be sterilized for over 10 years. It's not a simple thing.
A lot of people treat getting married like it’s a goal, but getting married is just the first part of spending the rest of your life with someone. It’s a big decision and if they want to spend their life with you, it’s really not something that needs to be rushed.
If he's out of town, take everything to his parent's house, and hand deliver the Valuable Thing to his mom.
Or hand deliver the Valuable Thing to his best friend and mail the rest.
Or send everything to mom and send the Valuable Thing by registered mail.
Or dump everything except the Valuable Thing, which you put in a closet and don't worry about until he makes the effort.
Stop worrying about accommodating him, when he is making no effort to retrieve his property. Just do whatever suits you.
I don't know. He has begged me not to leave. He says he is working on it
Your post sats he has given reasons he doesn't want to. Stop pressuring the guy.
My lack of concern and consideration stems from the fact that most of your story is you dislike your parents because you're reliant on them and that makes you angry. You apparently want to be able to be allowed to do whatever you want and them still support you financially. That's not how life works you're living in their house you're living under their rules. You trying to charge your brother to use your eBay account will your dad called it that's just greedy. This is why I say you need to move out you need to experience the real world. Where there's nobody there you can run back to for assistance. You got a boyfriend who's unreliable. Honestly you just come across as ungrateful for the life that you've had. And this is all based on the things you've posted yourself. You got angry when I asked you to give examples of this abuse. You don't want to be questioned you don't want anyone to doubt you you want to just be believed and have things go your way. And it's my guess that you're the same way at home. I wish you the absolute best of luck making it on your own. Perhaps once you're out in the real world paying your own way you'll get a greater appreciation for the family life that you had.