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So basically I’ve been with my husband for 4 years and got married almost a year ago. Today I found out that he activated his tinder account this past weekend while out of town for a job interview to “seek validation that girls still found him attractive.” I asked for his phone and noticed he received verification codes in Aug (while on work trip to Boston), Oct, March, and this past weekend. He originally told me that he didn’t message any women but I had him login and he had message over 5 women this past weekend. The messages were flirty and it was obvious to me he was trying to get something out of it at least validation. What should I do? I’m currently set on separating and possibly divorce but I still love him.
You’re still not getting it. She DID bring it up. Cut the bs
I don’t mind it during sex. But if a guy did that without asking or me saying it was fine I’d be like wtf man.
The guy sounds like a douche
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
So basically I’ve been with my husband for 4 years and got married almost a year ago. Today I found out that he activated his tinder account this past weekend while out of town for a job interview to “seek validation that girls still found him attractive.” I asked for his phone and noticed he received verification codes in Aug (while on work trip to Boston), Oct, March, and this past weekend. He originally told me that he didn’t message any women but I had him login and he had message over 5 women this past weekend. The messages were flirty and it was obvious to me he was trying to get something out of it at least validation. What should I do? I’m currently set on separating and possibly divorce but I still love him.