There's a huge difference between top less waitresses and lap dancers. Topless waitresses serve drinks without a top on. Lap dancers can get (almost?) Nude and grind on a guys dick until he cums. If it's her job and she had it when you met then you might have a very hot time getting her to stop. Catharsis might be to turn up at her club and give her a try? You might find it really nude and you might also find it really very hot to know that she's then coming home to give you what yhe customers don't get.
He knows you don’t like it. He’s mean to you on purpose. You can’t get through to him – he understands perfectly well and makes an active choice to be mean to you. Is this what you want the rest of your life to be?
Sounds like he needs a check. And a dose of reality. Sorry you are going through this. Any new stresses toy our life? What are his triggers?
He will not “be there for you.” He will be there to manipulate and gaslight you.
There's a huge difference between top less waitresses and lap dancers. Topless waitresses serve drinks without a top on. Lap dancers can get (almost?) Nude and grind on a guys dick until he cums. If it's her job and she had it when you met then you might have a very hot time getting her to stop. Catharsis might be to turn up at her club and give her a try? You might find it really nude and you might also find it really very hot to know that she's then coming home to give you what yhe customers don't get.
He knows you don’t like it. He’s mean to you on purpose. You can’t get through to him – he understands perfectly well and makes an active choice to be mean to you. Is this what you want the rest of your life to be?