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Date: October 28, 2022
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Stress causes many extreme emotions, which sounds like the case for him. Do you feel like he may feel stressed trying to meet his works needs and your needs? You could try just letting him know that you support him and if he wants to talk that you are there for him. I wouldn't say it's over, just sounds like he is overwhelmed
I just saw you posted about the dancing 20 days ago ! What did he say about that. So, after you got upset about that he let her video and share “ love of my life” and he shared it too ? I think you have to leave him. He goes not respect your relationship or he never would’ve done that.
Yes she did, she was emotionally cheating on Jake.
I don’t trust her. She might kill you ?
I was gonna say… how lucky for this 28 year old man that a girl who couldn't evne legally drink when they met only wanted sex and no commitment. Match made in heaven I'm sure.
Also: Note how the friend feels guilty and reached out but he hasn't? Yeah.
OP, dump the dude. The friend isn't great either but at least she felt bad. Honestly, though, get a different group of friends… and then don't sleepw ith any of them.
Are you currently in a relationship? How long was your longest-lasting relationship? Why are you posting this kind of bullshit when somebody asks for advice? Are you unhappy and want to make others unhappy too?
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The mercurial nature of teenagers is exactly why you shouldn't tell someone you love them when you've only been dating them for a mere 90 days. But no 22 y.o. of average intelligence/life experience has any desire to have a real relationship with an 18 y.o. So this guy is likely just wanting to have sex with you, probably precisely because you're “taken” now and represent “forbidden fruit”. Whether you'll betray this person you claim to “love” or not is up to you. Just don't believe that this older guy is looking to date you, that's almost certainly not the case. Good luck.
I’ll check that out, thanks! And I’ll look into to getting the book and properly reading it rather than letting it collect dust on my shelf?
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The threesome fantasy is usually a dead giveaway with all the other stuff.
It does mean however you don't complain to stranger if your SO takes some time off at his own discretion.
And it certainly means you should not betray him and break the agreement when you got all out of him you could get.
She's not a fair weather friend: your friend has become an alcoholic. Call her family (especially her parents), compare notes, and consider staging an intervention. And getting her to attend an intervention should be incredibly easy: drive her to a cabin in the woods with the promise of a wild party.
As per you, start hanging out with other people. Or if you don't have anybody to go to the movies or stuff with, go alone. Stay her friend, but put your foot down that you can't keep drinking like a fish just to see her. And get passive aggressive: let her know of your plans, but rather than asking her to join you, tell her “…but I know that, without alcohol involved, I can't count on you.”
So I don’t think a little bit of innocent flirting is bad or wrong on its own. That said, it sounds like you went a bit too far and crossed a line where you aren’t comfortable with your own behaviour anymore. Next time, stop before you get to that point – you need to feel good about your own behaviour.
Wow, OP is toxic AF.
Irrelevant what they asked advice for. If someone had exposed wires in their house and asked me if they liked the color of their lightswitch, I'd still tell them to get the wires fixed. Someone's safety is paramount to a different question.
I had to stop reading after you said you put your hands on her because that is so pathetic. You should be deeply ashamed and you should leave her the hell alone as well. She deserves someone who would never touch her like that. I’ve been with my man for years and we have had some pretty heated fights But he would NEVER hit me. I’m glad you’re in therapy and I hope that you talk to your therapist about your feelings so that she can tell you that you are being ridiculous and delusional in thinking that you deserve her back.
he DID rape you. not “rape.” you don't forgive him, you report him to the police
He is showing me more and more every day that he is sexist.
Thank you for the advice.
“Undeveloped” as OP so eloquently put it
This woman is seriously confused and wants both of you which isn’t fair. Honestly that is too much baggage to take on. Three kids, going through a divorce, and single mom. You are lucky you did not fall too deep into that relationship.
I'm sorry you don't want to hear it but the age gap IS the issue here. He is acting incredibly immature. Is he in therapy to correct his trauma or is he just hoping you're gonna shoulder these burdens and beg for his affection cause he doesn't know how to show it? The vague walk around when you are trying to have a straight forward and serious talk about your relationship is a giant red flag.
Don't be his emotional support gf or his therapist.
Yes. If you were still living at home, they might have concerns about you being a drain on the finances if you didn't have a job.
But if you are living on your own, making your own decisions, they are welcome to an opinion…but you aren't obliged to take it into account. My dad told me once he thought I should go into medicine, but I never had any interest in that sector at all, and I went into computer science.
You have an obligation to yourself to take care of yourself now that you are an adult. You know what is going on in your life. You know what expenses you have, and what income you need, and what kind of work will help you meet those needs.
In short, you have a plan. So, how much criticism of that plan is good?
With any plan, you want to look for weaknesses and gaps. Is something missing? If something doesn't work, do you have a back-up plan?
To use an analogy, consider travel planning. Maybe I want to go someplace by train, because there's a wedding in that destination, and I want to enjoy the trip. But I wouldn't take the train that gets me there a couple hours before the wedding; trains can be late (in the US, very late), so I'd plan to arrive at least a day before. But if a landslide took out the tracks, I'd probably opt to fly instead. So I had a plan, understood a risk and planned accordingly, and have a backup in case the plan doesn't work out.
If my only idea was to take a train and show up on the day of the wedding, telling me that trains can be late and I might want to arrive a day ahead is valuable feedback; constructive criticism that helps me make a better plan.
Telling me that trains are an awful way to travel and too slow is without value. I like trains. Someone trying to make their personal preference seem like a superior choice that renders my plan fatally flawed is too much criticism.
To use another analogy: Suppose you plan to go out to dinner for Chinese new year, so you plan to go to a Chinese restaurant. If your family hates Chinese food, them telling you that you are making a mistake and should go to an Italian restaurant instead isn't valuable criticism at all. It misses the point, and that you get to make choices about your own life.
Good advice but I don’t know any women who like olive oil instead of lube. Sorry I wanted to speak up about this part.
Oil is so hot to clean up after and if someone is trying to wash with soap after it can put them at real risk for a yeast infection or BV with messed up PH balance. Even silicone lube is a mess and nude to clean up with.
My favourite brand of lube is Pjur and find it’s great especially for sensitive people. A lot of store bought lubes have too much alcohol in them and can burn tissues especially if you’re not used to it.
You are doing right by your family and I am proud of you and the way you handled the situation.
I suggest contacting a therapist to help him get over his fear of flying. For what it's worth, airplanes are larger than cars and trains.
Self improvement is important in a relationship, and should be something he's interested in doing. If he doesn't want to improve himself, that should be viewed as a red flag.
If you want to travel internationally, you'll have to travel by yourself, or not travel.
You are angry that your self involved cousins don’t ask how you are but expect you to care? You answered your own question. They are self involved.
Why wouldn’t you be fine? You are 24. Why aren’t you pursing your life and goals?
This. Stop asking, but keep digging. Be prepared for how you'll move forward when you find what you're looking for.