Oh hell no. She can help with the mortgage w/o being on the title. Imagine what happens if you break up and your finances are that tied together. It's be like a divorce w/o any protections of a divorce for things like that.
For real. Op you are being extremely immature. Don’t you want compliments to be genuine, or do you want to be lied to? Withholding sex because he isn’t telling you exactly what you hear is toxic. How about discussing it like an adult? What’s with all these relationships where people can’t seem to bother communicating?
Yeah no worries. That’s what the sub is here for 🙂
If it were up to me, every two to three days, but like… real calls. I wanna catch up properly, not just yada yada and forgetting about it the next minute. Sadly, she sees this as me not showing proper interest, but it’s my way of doing just that. I wanna be able to sit down and listen to what she’s got to say and since I sometimes have busy days, that doesn’t work all the time. I work a physically exhausting job (cashiers desk with no possibility to sit down except for breaks) and after standing for nine hours and constantly talking to customers, I’m not always in the mood. But luckily, the job is part time only hence I have my moments where I am able to fully commit to talking to her. I have communicated this very clearly so she understands that its not a sign of me showing disinterest, but rather part of my love language that I don’t want to do this half-assed. It’s exacerbated by the fact that we’re LDR until next month because she’s doing a semester abroad, but I flew in a couple of times and we’ve made it work thus far.
Once a week is a decent amount of time to see each other too! I think it's important to feel supported by your SO while going to school especially with how stressful it is. I'd work full time but still help my ex with writing (typing) notes, helping with essays, hearing her presentations. Honestly it's a lot of fun and I think it's a great way to spend time together. Plus, he could have just hung around you while you studied and cheered you on (without distracting you from your focus mode). I'm sorry it felt like he didn't care as much as he should have.
Oh hell no. She can help with the mortgage w/o being on the title. Imagine what happens if you break up and your finances are that tied together. It's be like a divorce w/o any protections of a divorce for things like that.
Well that's some added info to the story. Do they now have history so you can justify your distrust for your gf?
For real. Op you are being extremely immature. Don’t you want compliments to be genuine, or do you want to be lied to? Withholding sex because he isn’t telling you exactly what you hear is toxic. How about discussing it like an adult? What’s with all these relationships where people can’t seem to bother communicating?
Yeah no worries. That’s what the sub is here for 🙂
If it were up to me, every two to three days, but like… real calls. I wanna catch up properly, not just yada yada and forgetting about it the next minute. Sadly, she sees this as me not showing proper interest, but it’s my way of doing just that. I wanna be able to sit down and listen to what she’s got to say and since I sometimes have busy days, that doesn’t work all the time. I work a physically exhausting job (cashiers desk with no possibility to sit down except for breaks) and after standing for nine hours and constantly talking to customers, I’m not always in the mood. But luckily, the job is part time only hence I have my moments where I am able to fully commit to talking to her. I have communicated this very clearly so she understands that its not a sign of me showing disinterest, but rather part of my love language that I don’t want to do this half-assed. It’s exacerbated by the fact that we’re LDR until next month because she’s doing a semester abroad, but I flew in a couple of times and we’ve made it work thus far.
No. What a trashy thing to say. You should start talking about your friend who had some good pussy and you can't stop thinking about it
Crazy how the narrative changes when the roles are reversed
Once a week is a decent amount of time to see each other too! I think it's important to feel supported by your SO while going to school especially with how stressful it is. I'd work full time but still help my ex with writing (typing) notes, helping with essays, hearing her presentations. Honestly it's a lot of fun and I think it's a great way to spend time together. Plus, he could have just hung around you while you studied and cheered you on (without distracting you from your focus mode). I'm sorry it felt like he didn't care as much as he should have.