hugs you do not have to pay for his booty call. Why should you get a room, doesn't he have a place, don't you have a place? If he is expecting a hotel room paid for by you, he's just a gigolo who expects you to pay for a place to have sex. You can't afford it so he's going to move on. That's on him.
It's definitely normal. Men are usually more sexually driven when they're younger and we get more sexually driven as we get older. As long as there's open communication, I wouldn't worry at all.
Maybe you don’t need to get closer. Maybe you need to get further away and find new things that you like to do on your own. If you’re bored of him, then you need some space away from him to experience something new.
People can only be so fun, so sexy, and so interesting. If you spend too much time with ANYONE they will become dull.
Then you should tell the program you’re under that this guy is giving you the creeps, and show them the video of him watching your house from his driveway in the middle of the night ! wtf like who even does that besides weirdo murders lmao
Getting physically violent once means slapping you once during a heated argument. Sure, you should still leave, but it's not like that means he will kill you. What he did IS almost killing you. So yes, I would say it's pretty safe to assume “once he tries to kill you once, he will try to kill you again”. Don't think it takes a fucking detective to understand that.
Look up “man strangles girlfriend” on Google, you're gonna end up in one of those articles if you don't leave. In fact, be very careful about the breakup too, it's most likely still gonna be dangerous. Sorry if I sound like I'm taking the piss here but I am unironically blaming you too. This man tried to kill you and you're here wondering if it was an isolated accident. Wake the fuck up, man.
Don’t compromise on any of the issues you just stated, you gonna enable her to get whatever way she wants. It’s your place set, up some boundaries or you gonna have issues in your relationship. Good luck! ✌?
I lurk around on r/waiting_to_wed sometimes, and these kinds of things come up all the time. I wonder about the women give an ultimatum. A few of them come back after they're engaged and say that everything is hunky dory, but I wonder how that is going to pan out. A few years later, and a few fights where it's used as a weapon… I'm not so sure.
I'm glad you and your kids are well. Here's hoping it stays that way!
man think of it like this. she saw you crying.. she knows that this is fucking with your head. and she doesn't seem to care.
I also wanted to say that there's no way she didn't know Ashley's husband needs to be there. Sounds like she just wanted to get you on board before letting you know that.
I agree with you. If you weren't going out of town i can see it would be different. I wouldnt let my son do his first sleepover when i was gone either.
I am also not a fan of being in an opened relationship, never been and I doubt I will ever be in one, if I was younger it would have been possible but marriages that open their relationship I think that denote a problem that they are only extending, however it is healthier than cheating for sure and if people like it and they respect each other it is OK but I also think it is something not feasible for a long time in real life.
About my situation… what would you suggest me to do?
Autism can be part of the reason but its not an excuse for this behavior. And you need to stop letting him walk all over you. No one has the right to call you a cunt and scream at you.
I don’t know why you have fixated on birth control being the issue but it sounds like she has a thyroid problem. She should go to the doctor and have her thyroid checked.
I have my journal sitting on my coffee table in a home I share with my partner. It's there all the time as I tend to write A LOT down. I am not nor have I ever been worried that he'll read it.
I also have no password on my phone and tend to leave it lying around wherever I set it down. I don't think I've ever even touched his.
I feel like this is the BARE MINIMUM of trust required for a relationship. “Don't read my diary” is BASIC shit.
Or vastly insecure. If someone seeing me nude is cheating then very hot damn I guess I'm a serial cheater
Ummm this seems fishy ? My husband didn’t put my name on his house until after we got married even though i lived with him for 3 years prior.
She can still help pay mortgage without her name on your house IF that is her motive. This is very sus
NTA. You dodged a bullet there
You sound shocked by her character but you didn’t question it when she cheated on her ‘man’?
Two of my homeboys and I would like to get the little dude a couple of gifts. Where can we bring them?
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hugs you do not have to pay for his booty call. Why should you get a room, doesn't he have a place, don't you have a place? If he is expecting a hotel room paid for by you, he's just a gigolo who expects you to pay for a place to have sex. You can't afford it so he's going to move on. That's on him.
It's definitely normal. Men are usually more sexually driven when they're younger and we get more sexually driven as we get older. As long as there's open communication, I wouldn't worry at all.
Maybe you don’t need to get closer. Maybe you need to get further away and find new things that you like to do on your own. If you’re bored of him, then you need some space away from him to experience something new.
People can only be so fun, so sexy, and so interesting. If you spend too much time with ANYONE they will become dull.
Then you should tell the program you’re under that this guy is giving you the creeps, and show them the video of him watching your house from his driveway in the middle of the night ! wtf like who even does that besides weirdo murders lmao
he said I could have it
Does he own you? Wtf?
Getting physically violent once means slapping you once during a heated argument. Sure, you should still leave, but it's not like that means he will kill you. What he did IS almost killing you. So yes, I would say it's pretty safe to assume “once he tries to kill you once, he will try to kill you again”. Don't think it takes a fucking detective to understand that.
Look up “man strangles girlfriend” on Google, you're gonna end up in one of those articles if you don't leave. In fact, be very careful about the breakup too, it's most likely still gonna be dangerous. Sorry if I sound like I'm taking the piss here but I am unironically blaming you too. This man tried to kill you and you're here wondering if it was an isolated accident. Wake the fuck up, man.
I'm really sorry my man, once the idea is in her head, there's no getting rid of it. It's only a matter of time before she acts upon her belief
Don’t compromise on any of the issues you just stated, you gonna enable her to get whatever way she wants. It’s your place set, up some boundaries or you gonna have issues in your relationship. Good luck! ✌?
I lurk around on r/waiting_to_wed sometimes, and these kinds of things come up all the time. I wonder about the women give an ultimatum. A few of them come back after they're engaged and say that everything is hunky dory, but I wonder how that is going to pan out. A few years later, and a few fights where it's used as a weapon… I'm not so sure.
I'm glad you and your kids are well. Here's hoping it stays that way!
Forget how HE feels. How do YOU feel?
man think of it like this. she saw you crying.. she knows that this is fucking with your head. and she doesn't seem to care.
I also wanted to say that there's no way she didn't know Ashley's husband needs to be there. Sounds like she just wanted to get you on board before letting you know that.
Great men respect boundaries. Great men do not rape you. Great men understand the word no as a complete sentence.
So obsessed he’s fucking his cousin, huh?
I agree with you. If you weren't going out of town i can see it would be different. I wouldnt let my son do his first sleepover when i was gone either.
I can see your comment so maybe there's got removed for some reason I'm confused honestly
I am also not a fan of being in an opened relationship, never been and I doubt I will ever be in one, if I was younger it would have been possible but marriages that open their relationship I think that denote a problem that they are only extending, however it is healthier than cheating for sure and if people like it and they respect each other it is OK but I also think it is something not feasible for a long time in real life.
About my situation… what would you suggest me to do?
Autism can be part of the reason but its not an excuse for this behavior. And you need to stop letting him walk all over you. No one has the right to call you a cunt and scream at you.
I don’t know why you have fixated on birth control being the issue but it sounds like she has a thyroid problem. She should go to the doctor and have her thyroid checked.
how in the goddamn fuck is any of that “normal”
newsflash people! if you’re marrying someone, it’s because you like them!
Well then he did something you wouldn't tolerate and you didn't tolerate it. Surprised Pikachu
You did nothing wrong.
Eh.. i know i was just referring to myself having bipolar! And that any mental illness isn't an excuse to be shitty!
I have my journal sitting on my coffee table in a home I share with my partner. It's there all the time as I tend to write A LOT down. I am not nor have I ever been worried that he'll read it.
I also have no password on my phone and tend to leave it lying around wherever I set it down. I don't think I've ever even touched his.
I feel like this is the BARE MINIMUM of trust required for a relationship. “Don't read my diary” is BASIC shit.
Just be honest