Him doing that and thinking that way isn't about you, so it doesn't matter that you don't do it to him. He would probably think and do the same with any other woman he was dating. This is a Him problem, not a You or an Us problem.
It’s hot as hell. I would argue it’s less difficult if there isn’t an addiction involved. I hope you can work it out with your woman. I’m not so sure I can work this out with my man. Especially if he a.) doesn’t believe he has a problem and b.) doesn’t believe I’m even worth it bc he’s so preoccupied with other stuff and has said he worries we are just “too broken” at this point
Blue balls really isn't a thing. It's been backed up. You sound like a 14 yr old boy and you're mid 20s. Get the fuck over it. Either handle it yourself or distract yourself. You're not entitled to any part of her body.
I was really put off by you choosing to wait up for her and then attacking her for being “selfish” by keeping you up. You kept yourself up.
Is there context we’re missing? Or are you just a suspicious and kind of aggressive guy?
If my partner were to offer to drop off friends I wouldn’t look for a hidden motive. I wouldn’t look for a hidden motive in the order they were dropped off either.
So either we’re missing a lot of context or you came out of the gate swinging and on the offense.
You sound controlling, insecure, and problematically suspicious.
Of course your wife got defensive and doesn’t want to adhere to your “boundary”. From what you’ve said she hasn’t done anything to deserve this treatment.
Him doing that and thinking that way isn't about you, so it doesn't matter that you don't do it to him. He would probably think and do the same with any other woman he was dating. This is a Him problem, not a You or an Us problem.
There's nothing you can do to fix him.
It’s hot as hell. I would argue it’s less difficult if there isn’t an addiction involved. I hope you can work it out with your woman. I’m not so sure I can work this out with my man. Especially if he a.) doesn’t believe he has a problem and b.) doesn’t believe I’m even worth it bc he’s so preoccupied with other stuff and has said he worries we are just “too broken” at this point
Blue balls really isn't a thing. It's been backed up. You sound like a 14 yr old boy and you're mid 20s. Get the fuck over it. Either handle it yourself or distract yourself. You're not entitled to any part of her body.
I was really put off by you choosing to wait up for her and then attacking her for being “selfish” by keeping you up. You kept yourself up.
Is there context we’re missing? Or are you just a suspicious and kind of aggressive guy?
If my partner were to offer to drop off friends I wouldn’t look for a hidden motive. I wouldn’t look for a hidden motive in the order they were dropped off either.
So either we’re missing a lot of context or you came out of the gate swinging and on the offense.
You sound controlling, insecure, and problematically suspicious.
Of course your wife got defensive and doesn’t want to adhere to your “boundary”. From what you’ve said she hasn’t done anything to deserve this treatment.
Are you projecting?