This exactly. Just tell her you didn't decide or wanted to buy a car. Her decision, her car, she has to pay for it. It has nothing to do with you. If you wanted to buy a car with these conditions would she have accepted it or would she say to you, you are taking advantage of her? Because this is what she is trying to do.
Well if its normal in his country you cant really blame him for being raised that way, he sees nothing wrong with it.
There are many many countries where 14 is the legal age of consent.
I'd shake the dude's hand.
This exactly. Just tell her you didn't decide or wanted to buy a car. Her decision, her car, she has to pay for it. It has nothing to do with you. If you wanted to buy a car with these conditions would she have accepted it or would she say to you, you are taking advantage of her? Because this is what she is trying to do.