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Date: October 30, 2022
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If I was the gf you’re talking about, I’d be grateful if you told me, I mean- in my situation he’s an excellent liar and manipulator, but also has threatened me with many things, including if I ever move on in the future,so I can’t leave. Something like a personal account from a friend would give me the strength to leave without throwing the friend under the bus. Just be honest with her, you’d be saving someone from a possible abusive future behind closed doors, even if you think it’s not possible, it’s the ones you least expect
Record yourself dancing a slow song, mimicking how THAT CHICK was with your bf, with a guy friend. Show it to your bf and ask him if it bothers him. If he doesn't get 1 drop of jealousy………he's screwing behind your back.
Don’t give her the money, trust me bruh
If she wants to buy out a store she can with her own money
But she has no idea how to be an influencer, how the algorithm works or any other aspects of the buisness
She isn’t asking money for charity she is asking money for a business she has no experience in
Do you ever wash your stuff in a public wash machine? Like bath towels or floor towels,… or like anything in those laundry shops? Because if the person before you used it and had long black hair or something, especially if the person was Asian because their hair is indestructible, it can come on your cloths. I have a baby and I wash his cloths separately and with different products and when it comes clean out of the washing machine, I still find my hair on those clothes. I have long curly very dark brown hair. ??♀️ I’m really not surprised. I have never asked questions when I found weird hairs in my house.
I hope you can still return them!
Don't be alone with her. If you have to do some bullshit with the dog you meet at a dog park. If you need to reject her you say 'I'm sorry, I don't want to do this'.
oooh I like this. sounds like he'll run out of states pretty soon and he'll be Canada's problem
To be a couple, you need to be on the same page. That includes sex. You can't be “too sensitive” to something he seems to be “insensitive” to (though he still “needs it” so badly he needs to sleep around? SMH).
So, no, you're not in the wrong. You have a right to feel towards sex as you damn well please. He can't force you to adopt his attitude. He's trying to break you to make you dependent on him, and it seems he's achieving it.
I appreciate the perspective you brought here. I was going to comment but realized that being a guy and potential cultural differences would have made whatever I said insincere and biased.
And op, there needs to be honesty and mutual respect in any relationship. If this was your only hang up with him, I’d say maybe give him the freedom to explore and hopefully be honest but it doesn’t seem like that’s going to happen nor is it your only issue with him pushing boundaries.
Run awayyyyyyyy. Far and fast. You have a 29 year age gap!!!! He was already graduated high school and possibly university when you were BORN.
Girl, he's trying to get with other women if he hasn't already. Someone who isn't ready to commit to you is not worth your time. He's putting in no effort at all, but I assume still wants sex right? Like no, this guy is not worth having your heart broken over. You will find someone better, don't even spend more energy than you already have.
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FIrst step – counseling. Family/couples counseling.
You two need to be on the same page in regards to parenting your child. And you two need to build a good basis for communication. Counseling can help with that.
It may also help with your partner's insecurity. It may even help rebuild the trust in the relationship.
But first step here – counseling. Not break up.
Start using the therapy approved “I feel ___ when you__” statements. I feel like you are you putting us unnecessary danger by going to the destination while roads are still slick. I feel ignored when you refuse to answer a simple question. I feel repulsed that you try to use psycho babble to avoid answering a question.”
Christmas?
She’s already getting fucked where she is but if a better life comes she’ll take it.
Yeah he just says my bf is ‘fine and that he does get along’ but he doesn’t talk and semi-ignores him
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I do think it is their issue and that it will for sure get out in due time if the boyfriend doesn't already know – in the case all of this is true.
But if you cant trust him and trust is something you absolutely need you should break up in my opinion. You can bring it up but he then will be the one calling you paranoid. I wont call you paranoid but I do think that he will say that to you
What you can do however is to let him know that you dont trust his side of the story and that you dont know if you ever will because it seems like he is hiding something and you cant shake that feeling up
Some people are attracted to people with “exciting” lives.
I hope that she gets tired of “exciting” before it blows up on her, but she is the only one who can make that decision.
You are brave for being so honest about it. Now you need to work out how to move forward and not give in when he love bombs you. I wish all the best for you and if you ever need anything feel free to DM me. I’ve been where you are and it’s a rude awakening plus a punch in the gut that someone you love can be so volatile toward you. But you are stronger than you think and a hell of a lot stronger than HE thinks. You got this, sister
No, but im so close to finishing that I want to finish, work with that degree and then go back to school
What would be negative? I’ve honestly not asked or cared about anyone’s dating history since I was in high school.
Your husband needs to man up and defend his family. His silence is encouraging her to spew bs at you. If your husband has told her to stop her bullshit, she would most likely stop. If it’s been going on constantly for five years, and she’s still disrespecting you then I would agree it’s time to give up. You can give him one final chance, sit him down and let him know his mother is unbearable and if he doesn’t handle it he will be at risk of losing the family he created. And seeing how his mother is, divorce won’t be easy. Make sure you lawyer up.
Thank you. I think therapy would definitely help, but insurance doesn’t cover it and we don’t have the funds for regular appointments right now. Are there any other good resources you would suggest?
He told you though- hes looking for reassurance. He wants you to say of course we shouldnt break up and i am happy with you. It’s testing and not healthy, but its what hes doing
Everyone has a past. Don't you? You have to get over it. Otherwise, you're limiting yourself to virgins, and they are few and far between. This post makes you sound jealous and controlling. If she's choosing to be with you now, that's all that matters. She was honest with you, and it's not cool to use it against her.
She's still exploring and figuring out who she is, so don't pressure her to label herself one way or the other. Feeling better b/c she hasn't enjoyed her past encounters is selfish. It's something to feel sympathy for, not something to rejoice in. What's done is done, stop dwelling on it, for your sake and hers.
I did the 28 and married thing as ALL my friends were getting married and settling down. We are all divorced except for 1 friend.
Most of these divorces were messy.
It met my now husband much later in life, and our marriage is perfect.
Stop focusing on being married, and start focussing on meeting someone you enjoy spending time with. Life is fun when you have a buddy. Make buddies. One day one of those buddies will be a bang buddy who you spend all your time with just hanging out and doing stuff together. A couple of more years go by, and you’re married.
Take the time. Life this really precious life.
If you’re feeling unhappy with your life, work on finding your joy. Become a fully realized human.
Wow she sounds really weird tbh I would ghost her
I think you should just stand your ground here. He's just being ridiculous. There are plenty of other ways to make friends, ways that make it clear he's looking for friends instead of girlfriends. Just make it clear to him that you are fine with him having female friends but you are not okay with him using the dating mode of the app.
Just throwing it out there that she might have felt like it was a trap. Considering the lengths he’s gone to to “prove” she’s throwing the games, doesn’t seem beyond the realm of possibility
He thinks making money will make me happy cause it does him so he spends most his time doing that when in reality I just want him to spend time so I nag and we argue and it repeats it seems every other day now and we haven’t came to a good solution.
Yup. If he took full accountability and had a plan to right the situation (as much as he possibly could have), then my opinion might be different, too…..but like you said, he tried to make OP feel like it was somehow her fault? Nah, that's a huge warning sign right there and you are right, OP should get out. Taking him back now would only give him the green light to do this again in the future and pull the same uno reverse on her.
Yeah most women that like married men, like them married. They don’t want a real relationship. They’re broken just like your husband.
I would react both ways.
Your sister interfering in your relationship gave me the cringe.
What the eff? She obviously had some ulterior motives.
I wouldn't believe in all she said. Chats can easily be manipulated/ faked.
But/ AND: She seems to be jealous of you and now successfully drowned your relationship.
I really would forbid her to ever do it again. Firstly. Otherwise she gets cut out.
Then secondly sound her out why she is meddling with your life? She sounds low key aggressive and high key destructive.
She may have done this out of jealousy. Or for wanting your bf.
I would thorroughly tell her off.
As to bf: I would ask him if he would show me his part of the chat. To be sure she didn't fake any of it.
And then I would ask him what this was about. Why on earth would he text strangers and text them THAT specific way?
He dumb?
That it feels as if he was looking for an opportunity to cheat on you.
That that's a dealbreaker.
baby, the fact that you are asking about the age gap should be a clue that it doesn't sit just right with you.
If I was your mom ( I am old enough) I would seriously question why a Grown Adult is dating a teenager. I know you are almost 18, and by law that makes you an adult, but I wouldn't want my 17 yr old with someone 6 yrs older.
I have the ick from this. and baby, weirdos are everywhere. The fact you think just because he has friends his age, makes him “normal”. it doesn't.
Aww this is adorable. Me and my first gf first kissed for the first time to system of a down – chop suey, and I get a little twinge of cringe every time I hear it haha. Love reading this sort of thing!
I’d turn up at his work and ask for my husband . There are zero legitimate reasons for him to keep your marriage a secret.
This stinks of something dodgy.
You've been dating 10 months. Hardly enough time to know every nuance of each other. You could talk to her if she matters or let her go if communicating would be too much work.
You are conveniently blowing past the most important golden rule of polyamory, you can't be polyamorous with a monogamous person! Its moxing orientations, if you believe wanting to fuck anyone anytime is a sexual orientation. I mean you would never tell your lesbian friend to go date a straight man, it's inconceivable.
You are unbelievable. You want your cake and to eat it too. You want the stable, dependable, loyal boyfriend waiting at home while you have to option to go fuck anyone that catches your eye because that's wHo YoU aRe. That logic is fucked up, childish, and deeply selfish.
I hope he smartens up and realizes you aren't girlfriend material, just “fun girl” material.
One bag moment should end a relationship that they had recently agreed was going to be for life? I don't know about anyone else but before I proposed to my wife I was SURE about wanting to commit to her. One bag night would not have changed that.
To your comment, even though I am a man, wouldn't it be more obvious to a woman that perhaps there may be a change in her body that she would be concerned about, and not assume that her husband has suddenly turned into Captain Thunder Dong? I don't think my wife would even mention the words, “Hey honey, been googling dick surgery for you….”
Hopefully he's not gaslighting you queen
This guy sounds like an asshole. And he sounds emotionally abusive. This early on in the relationship I would leave. It’s not worth it n
I love the thought of this. Just sorta waiting for the ‘tantrum’ to end then getting back to the conversation. The only problem is that whenever I attempt something like this, she will physically remove herself from the room or even the house so she doesn’t have to hear it. Also, she gets very red and puffy when she cries, and I never want her going to work with swollen eyes. But like you said, bills still come out.
Wrong sub.
Near Philadelphia, have to get to New York. Not very far, I just don't have a way to do it myself.
Comparing braces and eye correction to plastic surgery is nonsensical. People are allowed to have preferences and it's not wrong to be turned off by plastic surgery.
The issue here is OP's boyfriend seems like a hypocrite because he was fine with her body before he knew.
Oprah told him about it. That lady can never keep a secret!
Oof. Suddenly grateful I have a normal ex mother in law!
He's been lying to you about something life changingly important your entire relationship.
The lying will never stop. Decide if you want to let a child into your life with a liar
Just because you were dating your current bf first, doesn't mean he has some special claim on you. Talk to big boy and if he is agreeable, make the switch.
Sorry OP. This doesn’t turn out well I suspect. If you Call GF’s “bluff” she will leave or back down. You can’t control the outcome. Your primary focus here is your child and to some extent your self. Good luck.
Kids affect relationships when it's your own child. Factor in someone else's and co-parenting arrangements and potential custody battles. Also by staying with him you'd have to accept the fact he's a father and at some point that child would be involved in your life or your home. All of this is something you don't have to deal with if you don't want to you can still walk away.
Thank u for this ❤️
Bingo! That hit the nail on the head!
OP Tell yourself over and over again that you will be happier alone then in an abusive relationship. You want and deserve a relationship that you can thrive and feel secure in not one you’ll have to recover from. Please put yourself (and your puppy girl) first and dump this manipulative ass. Wishing you all the best and the peace and happiness that comes with it.
No, get on an live dating site, and meet new men. My mate Prison Mike said he’ll take u out, but he has some ground rules
It sounds like having seperate finances may be the inky way your relationship can survive. You have have not been able to get past the fact that you contribute more. Regardless of what you say here. Its clear today was the final straw and she's tried everything.
Having seperate finances will remove any lingering resentment.
Basically as soon as my fiancé and I moved in together we combined finances. I’m a little better with money so it worked better that way. When they were separate he’d spend too much and I’d be covering the slack. Now that we’re combined and he can see how much total money we have to work with, he’s cut back substantial and we’ve been able to grow both our savings and checking accounts. Couldn’t imagine still having separate bank accounts.
Yes I honestly have thought that and now believe it now. Totally possible that he could've ranted about me sometimes but he swears he “doesn't talk to his family about his personal life” his words.
I have tried that multiple times and it still doesn’t make the feelings go away
I would go NC or LC and I would tell them why. I would ask if choosing him is worth losing me. Because you are walking away from them if they are going to continue to try to guilt you into being with a cheater and giving up your self respect. I would tell them they didn’t raise you to let a man walk all over you like a doormat. You did nothing wrong and your partner slept with another person and came home and put your health at risk. Is that something you should forgive ?? No, it is not. You have more self respect than that. And if they can not support you and quit pushing him at you you will no longer be in touch with them because you don’t deserve this treatment and it is time to take care of yourself since your family doesn’t seem to want to support and take care of you.
He’s not dumb. He’s calculating and misogynistic. Stop giving vile men excuses.
36 years and probably miserable for all 36 ??
That’s the thing it starts from something silly then escalates. And by that I mean yelling, not speaking for days, and a lot of insults….
I can appreciate your full on belief in her but women lie and baby trap all the times. If you're going to have sex, use condoms. I'm reading between the lines that she's had her tubes tied but don't rely solely on this because you're absolutely still taking on the chance of pregnancy.