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Ive no idea why you don't feel guilty. If it was a one time thing and didn't take away or disconnect you from your SO then perhaps you didn't feel an emotional connection and got it out of your system. Sure its an @ssh0le thing to do. But if it happened a year ago and hasn't affected your relationship and you used condoms to protect your SOs health then maybe that's why there's a lack of guilt. And yes, although she'd be likely devasted if she found out from someone other than you, if you feel 99% satisfied with you not being found out in the future, then I have to agree with you about not telling her. All it would do is crush her if you told her… But if that 1% chance happens and she's finds out, I think if you love and care about your relationship, your guilt and remorse will quickly change. Cos her trust in you won't come back for a very long time if at all and I'm pretty sure that any inconsistent behaviour from you in the future will mean she'd be constantly be checking on you for signs you're doing it and causing you a lot of stress and her a lot of anxiety
There was literally a post about 23 year old man and 36 year old women. You and ALL THE OTHERS weren't there to say this then. I commented about that being grooming and everyonw said they are adults, double standards
I think it’s really cool that you know yourself and your needs that well, and especially that you listen to them. That’s the best anyone can do for themselves
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start transitioning. We've been dating for 5 years now, and this was a massive shock to me. I did my best to respond in a supportive manner and making sure she knew I was happy for her and was fully supportive of her if this is what she wants to do. However, I also said, as calmly as possible, that this was a lot for me to process and I needed to take some time to think about things and went to stay at my sister's for a few days.
I know coming out to me probably took a lot of courage and I'm sure she was worried about how I'd react. And she was probably right to do so, since this pretty much means the end of the relationship. I'm a straight woman, and I'm not attracted to women. I didn't want to just immediately go “I'm happy for you, also I'm breaking up with you” because I knew that would make things worse and make her feel awful. But I feel stuck and I legitimately do not know what to do.
She's been texting me and her messages come off like she expects us to continue our relationship. She knows I'm straight. I know it'll crush her if I dump her after this, but I don't want her to think I'm rejecting her because she's trans. I don't know what to do.
TL;DR: My fiancé is a trans woman, I'm straight, I want to end things without totally destroying her or making her feel like I don't support her transitioning
Wait until the whole extended family is there. Then tell infront of everyone so they have to get divorced. But in all honesty, they might have discussed it and buried the hatchet. Why not ask your mum? She can’t blackmail you now.
Ive no idea why you don't feel guilty. If it was a one time thing and didn't take away or disconnect you from your SO then perhaps you didn't feel an emotional connection and got it out of your system. Sure its an @ssh0le thing to do. But if it happened a year ago and hasn't affected your relationship and you used condoms to protect your SOs health then maybe that's why there's a lack of guilt. And yes, although she'd be likely devasted if she found out from someone other than you, if you feel 99% satisfied with you not being found out in the future, then I have to agree with you about not telling her. All it would do is crush her if you told her… But if that 1% chance happens and she's finds out, I think if you love and care about your relationship, your guilt and remorse will quickly change. Cos her trust in you won't come back for a very long time if at all and I'm pretty sure that any inconsistent behaviour from you in the future will mean she'd be constantly be checking on you for signs you're doing it and causing you a lot of stress and her a lot of anxiety
There was literally a post about 23 year old man and 36 year old women. You and ALL THE OTHERS weren't there to say this then. I commented about that being grooming and everyonw said they are adults, double standards
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They are planning to celebrate Christmas with her family so perhaps I should wait until after?
That sounds scary!
I think it’s really cool that you know yourself and your needs that well, and especially that you listen to them. That’s the best anyone can do for themselves
Thank you!
Staying = enabling
Unfortunately that’s how it is.
What have you done in the past?
If she breaks it she replaces it, not replaced then no you until it is.
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start transitioning. We've been dating for 5 years now, and this was a massive shock to me. I did my best to respond in a supportive manner and making sure she knew I was happy for her and was fully supportive of her if this is what she wants to do. However, I also said, as calmly as possible, that this was a lot for me to process and I needed to take some time to think about things and went to stay at my sister's for a few days.
I know coming out to me probably took a lot of courage and I'm sure she was worried about how I'd react. And she was probably right to do so, since this pretty much means the end of the relationship. I'm a straight woman, and I'm not attracted to women. I didn't want to just immediately go “I'm happy for you, also I'm breaking up with you” because I knew that would make things worse and make her feel awful. But I feel stuck and I legitimately do not know what to do.
She's been texting me and her messages come off like she expects us to continue our relationship. She knows I'm straight. I know it'll crush her if I dump her after this, but I don't want her to think I'm rejecting her because she's trans. I don't know what to do.
TL;DR: My fiancé is a trans woman, I'm straight, I want to end things without totally destroying her or making her feel like I don't support her transitioning
Don’t feel guilty for following her. Go to surviving infidelity. Com . It helped me with a cheating wife
Wait until the whole extended family is there. Then tell infront of everyone so they have to get divorced. But in all honesty, they might have discussed it and buried the hatchet. Why not ask your mum? She can’t blackmail you now.
I appreciate both of your input! Thank you