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Date: October 3, 2022
Not an expert but in my experience some women can and some can't. My current GF (F27) has them and can have multiple in a row. I am almost 100% confident they are not faked because we have been super open about what we do and don't like so I doubt she would fake it. I have been with women in the past and they could only have 1 and had to be clit stimulating.
About telling the gf – Normally I would say stay out of it, but he’s probably doing this with other people too, and putting his GF’s health at risk in the process. So I say spill the beans.
Regarding OP – I’m not going to tell a 21 yr old she’s a horrible bc she made a shitty and harmful decision on impulse. Acknowledge what you did, and never do it again. This coming from someone who has been cheated on numerous times, and has never been a cheater OR side chick.
And for those so passionately defending the GF – we know nothing about her. She could be worse than OP and the cheater.
It's her best friend. No. Ew.
Being a SAHM is so hot. The most socialisation I get is about 2 hours with my husband when he gets home from work. I do all of the cooking and cleaning and majority of the childcare. My husband works a very physical job, usually with overtime. While I expect him to help with our daughter while he is home, his chores are taking out the rubbish and putting the bins out. I think it would be unfair to ask more of him unless I was really struggling. I think you should talk to her and see if she is doing OK mentally because staying home really does take a toll on mental health.
She met my girls four months in ass wipe
Yeah. I do agree with what you say here. You don’t have to give me advice, but if you could or want to, what may be a good way about addressing this issue? Or what should I be weary about in her answers thag may say, “I don’t think this will work out” even though she may hide thag fact
The top comment from when you previously posted this? They were correct. You can't help him, you can only help the people who aren't addicts get away from him. You can try to convince your mom to put her foot down and divorce this drunk who's hurting your family, or report to someone who can get the young kids away from this.
You’re both young. Don’t waste any more time in this relationship. Move on.
The obvious reason would be you are in different stages of your life. Accept the challenge or find somebody more your speed.
I say this as a polyamorous person who structures all my relationships accordingly: It is very rare that a monogamous and a nonmonogamous person are able to work things out. You have every right to be monogamous, and to be uncomfortable being pressured into anything different. There's nothing wrong or shameful about it. But if she is insisting on nonmonogamy despite your feelings on the matter, then you're going to have to put your foot down and tell her you're 100% not doing that, and if she can't accept that, she should reconsider whether she cares about and wants to be with you at all.
It is not your family's responsibility to rejig your trip to suit your boyfriend. His stepmother doesn't get to dictate what your family does.
I dont think you should necessarily tell your boyfriend not to come, but give hima choice. Either he's on the full holiday or he stays home and spends time with his family doing what he needs to do. Your boyfriend shouldn't be dropping you in the middle of all this, its not up to you to sort out.
If he is thinking about sex, he isn’t helping with the baby enough. First few months are exhausting.
That’s why I don’t want to rehome her either. If it were up to me, I’d have asked the vet to put her down last night. But it’s not my dog. I am definitely going to talk to my husband about it though and put my foot down because I don’t want this dog to kill a neighbor’s child or pet. Saying it won’t happen or we’ll be more careful isn’t realistic in my opinion because we never thought this was going to happen either.
Think about what you look for in a partner.
Are they polite to you? Do they choose to hang out with you when they have free time, while respecting your alone time? Do they carefully consider your feelings and obligations when making plans? Do they thoughtfully curate gifts and trinkets of affection? Would they leave you little notes for you to find as you go about your day? Is physical affection and attention important for you to receive from your partner? How important for you is it to gain reassurance from your partner?
Then that's what you should be like. If the above sounds overbearing and needy to you, then reassess what you're genuinely craving from a relationship and do that instead. A partnership should be both people working to achieve relatively similar goals, no two love languages are perfectly aligned, but the end game for both parties should be similar. You're only going to get from your relationship what you're willing to put into it.
Actions speak louder than words. Prove it to him instead of just making promises.
Don't do these things and most women will be fine working with you. It's that we don't want to teach men to not do these things, yeah?
I wish more people had your constructive attitude! But yeah as the one who is doing the dumping or saying no thanks (and I had to do this a lot when I used to live! date) it's just already such an awkward situation to be in. And particularly as a woman, you never know if it could turn dangerous. There's no benefit to prolonging or expanding the conversation for the person who is doing the dumping, and the dumpee is not owed an explanation or detailed analysis of their personality flaws from the dumper.
But the intention was there
By her own admission the reason she allowed it to continue as long as it did was because she has been feeling neglected emotionally in her relationship, and this coworker's flirting made her feel desired un a way her husband hasn't. This is exactly how cheating starts!
She caught herself this time before actually having sex but this wasn't harmlessly ego boosting. It could very easily happen again, and it wasn't nothing. She needs to be straight with him about that.
You answered your own question…the best thing is to focus on the now and the feelings and sensations and the pleasure…she needs to clear her mind and be in the present…maybe she needs to journal and do meditation and yoga and start to focus on herself….relaxing music will help and also a glass of wine or tea….the whole point is to get her to relax and be present
Your friend group is cruel. You are still young, make friends from the gym. Work. Ghost this entire group. They are not your friends. I mean, reading you description of them, are they still in high school? .
Take pictures of your busted lip… DOCUMETN EVERYTHING!! Police report for assault and him drinking while driving … save ALL his messages…. Do not delete them as they will be evidence to get full custody of your child..
Document (where you can) the drinking…. Make sure the police are aware he is drunk… while driving.. get a copy of the police report
I understand. .
What happens to the kids of unwanted. Or living in poverty like so many. Vicious cycle of kids having kids. Young girl in line at Walmart told her friend I can not wait to get a baby in my oven so I can get my check like my momma.. Her mom was pregnant and the two older sisters.
Abortion is your only option for many and the form you sign does not hold them responsible if you die.
Plus the damage it does can leave you unable to conceive.
So no matter which way we choose…were screwed.
Cancer chance Abortion scare tissue . Or having kid after kid.
One of our co workers hooked up with a girl that just had a kid..( adorable too)
He likes her and neither are using protection..we tried talking to him about what if she has a kid.
His answer was its on her.
All I have to say to you is you’re the scum of the earth – lower than dirt – for what you did to someone who considered you a sister. I read her posts. You stay away from her
I still love him and I was just trying to keep the relationship “friendly” because I will see him in passing at the gym almost daily.
Are you just waiting for him to start hitting you?
And even if she DID have intention to get back together after that. It just goes to show she never respected OP, their marriage, the terms of their break, or the work he has done for the marriage.
i know i need to let it go, what i need is advice on how
…. Yeah I see what you mean. It seems innocuous and petty but I'm getting bad vibes from this. He either got the second phone, thought about who might need one and either didn't think about you at all or did think about you and chose his sibling. I don't know which is worse but neither seems good.
Yes, I understand. I didn't mean to come across blunt. I just wanted to clear up that I'm not trying to rush things by allowing him to move in as I have been very reluctant in beginning a new relationship and I agree with you completely.
He has been apologetic since and really wants a second chance. He says it's completely up to me as to what I want to do moving forward. I'm just disappointed because he has always treated me with respect beforehand. He has been great at giving me advice, supporting me in pursuing a career in health sciences when I had lost hope after years of being told I'm not good enough. He is very handy in my home. He looks after my disabled dog better than anyone has. She has anxiety from my previous relationship, and I've noticed a massive change in her behaviour since he has been staying. He contributes financially, he cooks and cleans. He is usually very affectionate and loving. I guess the main thing he has given me is hope.
I never expected to hear those words.
He says his reaction was due to the fact he felt I was taking control. He seems to be happy to remove the pictures now. But I'm still unsure whether that is purely because of my reaction.
Get an abortion
If you reread my comment I literally said that some parents can't help it. Yes people divorce, a parent can die, cheat, etc etc . in those scenarios the parents can just do their best obviously. It doesn't change the statistics on those kids though lol.
But OP is actively choosing to have a child, even if the dad may not want the kid. Why bring a kid into this situation if you don't have to?
Tell her. It's not like you were asking her to be your live-in nurse, but to be aware that you can drop dead, and that you're on a waiting list to get a surgery that will drop you in hospital for a month, then you will have to take it easy for several months.
Absolutely. ?
He’s literally not even paying much more – if anything. I have a feeling her errand and grocery bills add up WAY more than his static rent portion.
Seems she’s playing you a bit. She’s overemphasizing everything wrong with her primary but bumps into him? Also, you don’t sound equipped to deal with a poly if you end felling for her (and you’re halfway through).
Are your siblings also giving them money? Time to call a family meeting so everyone gets to give their share to help mum and dad.
There’s no saving she wants the money now run. Don’t be stupid
Honestly you can ask ChatGPT This question
You are right! Everyone knows the quote “it's not mine, abort it!” is practicaly the same as “oh, i can't wait to have this baby, love it already!”.
Those are two very different questions; What's best way? Take your time, process the situation, talk to people you can confide in, focus on you for a bit… What's the fastest? Sleep with everyone, distract yourself until the inevitable above processing needs to be done.
You sent him a sex toy and are confused about why he wants to have sex with you?
Some men will fuck a hive of bees. You going full bloom on him followed by the gift maybe puts him in the cycle with you. He figures he can wait out your tantrum and get some.
Or he has really poor self esteem.
I wish my mom had kept her toxic ass family from me. My life would’ve been much better without them.
This also isn’t “keeping the peace.” It’s making yourself smaller to make everyone else keep up a sense of normalcy.
Make your own family, and let in the people you trust.
Tip-toeing around his trauma isn't your responsibility. He needs to work on this, learn coping skills, etc.
He can't confine you to a box to keep his anxieties at bay. That's controlling behavior.
I second this. If you continue to give up parts of what you love at some point you’ll be further invested then you already are and really feeling the pain ~ asking yourself this same question again but years later.
I don’t envy your situation but I do admire your courage to ask the hot question. Best of luck to you OP
Apparently if your mom is Cuban, but she's pale and you like to ski, you're white! Wow, who knew?!
*I trust him and don’t think he has bad intentions*
If you trust him and don't think he has bad intentions, why are you here on reddit relationship advice, asking for advice?
In our first year he went out drunk and was sexting women which I found out about and forgave him over.
This was rather mature of you to forgive. But this happened again and doesn't deserve any forgiveness. Abort the house contract and get out.Your gut is telling you that you can't trust him. You brought it up to him because you were pissed. You're posting here now because you know all of this is wrong.
Has he specifically said what he wants from you and asked you to work with him, or has he just made snotty passive-aggressive comments about you failing to make him happy?