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Oh hell no. Lmfao
I'm sorry I have no advice. There is nothing worse than an extremist. Alot of people go through a phase like this, but he needs to learn boundaries. He cannot force you to convert. You do not need to obey him.he needs get off his high horse.
Personally I would take this as a red flag. There is NOTHING wrong with converting to Islam. However wanting to move to Arabia is the part that is alarming, as a women. Idk where you from or your ethics background, but women don't have the same rights in Arabia as we do other countries like America/uk etc. Keep that in mind.
To only know Islam is 5 months and then want to convert everyone and move is extreme. ASF…
I think you need to start taking her up on any offers to look at her phone.
Look carefully
Alot of time people don't confront things because they don't want to know the truth
You need to want the truth no matter what
Then you will find the truth
I'm 100% team Date and live together for at least 2 years before marriage. You need to know each other long enough to know the good and the bad. What it's really like living with them.
Sometimes you SHOULD put yourself first. Don’t give up your physical well being to preserve a one sided relationship. As a (presumed) adult and parent, she should be respectful of the fact that her chaotic and noisy household might not be a good place for you to live full time.
Guilt trips are a toxic form of manipulation and it’s likely that you two are just at very different stages in life.
You probably can't. But I don't know, just for shits tell her you'll film her while she works at the homeless shelter. lol
Tell her look me and your friend broke up. We like each other, if she's truly your friend she will be fine with it.
If she tries string you along , just stop giving her attention. Stop wasting your time, talk to other girls man
You answered your own question. Demand, not ask for a DNA test to establish paternity. No need to be nice about it. She cheated and this is this is the fallout. She also left it until a termination was out of the question. To quote Dave Chappell, her body, her choice but your money, your choice. She obviously chose to have this baby so trying to force you into “stepping up” is bullshit.
This one is very easy: Get a brand new girlfriend. She is still hung up on her ex and right now, you are a placeholder.
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Really appreciate your eloquent and well-intentioned/thought out response as well!
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Yeah you’re right thank you!
“my boyfriend is always late”
This stupid fucking website that I want to leave: “well it's obvious he's perpetuating a conspiracy to hide an entire life from you”
She was approached by one fellow and slept in another guy's bed do to poor planning on her part.
Lame, but I guess your right. I cant wait my whole life. And this “selfless” approach just leaves me miserable and on edge. It sucks its taken me this long to realize, I just dont matter enough to make any changes.
If she reacted so quickly then she wasn't exactly taken by surprise and he must have sent her more of these before. Regardless, it's HIM who needs to quit trying anything.
It’s your body. Unless he wants to carry the baby to term (a real thing), he can wait.
I want to reach out again, it only has been a couple of days.
I'm sorry op, this is dead and done. You're right, it is your trauma, but he's going through his own emotional struggle watching you refuse to take action against someone who hurt you.
Being that he was in your life when this happened to you, he is naturally going to take it a lot harder than if this were some distant memory you never addressed.
Take the time you need to heal and don't reopen this wound by reaching out to a guy who will not come back.
Oh we tried to speak to his friends, we used to be in one group. He had brainwashed them all. They’re on his side. And he DOES NOT respect his parents..literally ?
turning of the electric in her room because dear old dad had a hissy fit? No.
OP is paying rent. In that senceshe's more of a room mate than a live in child. If I'm paying rent, which in this case include utilities? You better make sure my utilities are available.
People move out of their parent's homes at different ages. Not everyone leaves at 18. Heck, these days not everyone can afford to move out at 18.
If you're in a car centric area of the world like the US or rural parts of other countries without decent access to public transport late at night, a driver's license and a car may be in order.
But if you have to take a 30 bucks über a couple of days or a full work week? That's 150 bucks a week. Or 600 – 750 bucks a month. That's a lot.
She didn’t say she’s not taking dick though
Yes or no. Did you have an affair with her boyfriend?
Are you asking for advice or…..?
It's nothing
That he’s a dumbass who doesn’t understand how life expectancy has changed over time is enough reason to divorce IMO
Just tell him the truth about how you feel and that you are seriously thinking of ending things. Seems to be the obvious answer.
Your husband is being a whole creep. He needs to stop immediately. Especially, if it is making you feel even slightly uncomfortable. You should be his first priority, not her. He can give her the number of repair people. You might want to reach out to the young yourself (without husband knowing or around) and ask her if she’s uncomfortable with the unsolicited visitations from your husband. I’d explain to her that it’s making you uncomfortable because you don’t really know what’s going on over there. Good luck, OP. You are NOT overreacting at all. He’s being shady in the name of nostalgia.
Here is what you should do anytime you are on a break..you should go out and date other people…since you wont be able to why dont you use the break to go see a licensed professional and get some help for your problems
Legal doesn't equal moral, at least not in my head. If she was to get pregnant with an inc3zt baby, that baby would probably grow up hating itself knowing how it got here. Plus, genetic risks are significantly higher since you're messing around in your own gene pool.
She also didn't need to bring up at all unless the there's actually talk about her getting a ride from his father again.
I'm guessing she brought it up immediately to impress upon OP that she's serious and as a precaution to deter any other talk of his father giving her a ride. Sort of like, “Don't even consider this a possibility again.” That's a fair thing to request.
by leaving him hanging, she has 1) tied his hands when it comes to dealing with his father and
OP says in another comment he thinks she's a “flight” type of person and he admits to being a “fight” type of person. She may feel that this is her only way to prevent him from doing the “fight” because she doesn't want that to happen.
2) leaves him imagining the worst by saying “I'll tell you when he's dead.” You don't just drop that bomb and clam up.
Fair to your second point, but sometimes people just aren't ready to talk. Ok? Trying to make demands of them when they're not ready to talk is asking them to possibly retraumatize themselves of the situation.
People should show more patience with folks like OP's girlfriend. No, we don't know what happened, but OP trying to force her to talk beyond her being comfortable with it is not a good sign for his character.
In relationships, you don't always get to know why your partner is upset and sometimes they just have to work things out on their own until they're ready to divulge more, if it even gets to that point.
In the meantime, OP did what he could. He called his father to get his side, and is now just kind of left here. Sometimes in life we're left in uncertain spaces and that just needs to be accepted.
Good! You do not want to be tied to this piece of shit for the rest of your life! He thinks he's got you trapped and that's why he's started hurting you and then trying to act like he's just so, so sorry and remorseful. These are common abuse tactics. It only gets worse. Tell him you miscarried. Good luck! ?
I’m so sad that you really don’t see your self worth to have this person use you and drop you at her convenience and then have you thanking her for it. This person is an awful excuse for a human being, let alone a friend.
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You can't be this delusional
she does laundry, dishes, sweeping/mopping, and cooks. I do trash, litter box, make the bed before I leave for work, and fold the living room blankets at night before bed.
I’m putting in a lot of work at the office and around the house.
That is your version of putting in a lot of work around the house? How are you not deeply embarrassed?
Just dump her for someone who isn’t going to pretend to be single
This is a great conversation to have, and I'm glad you two are having it. It shows his willingness to compromise, to come up with joint solutions to problems, and to listen to each other's point of view.
He's failing badly in all three.
Honestly, I suggest reevaluating the relationship, and potentially moving on.
Plus, what will happen if you and him have a girl? After all, you and him don't decide on the baby's sex.
Dam dude.
In the end, sometimes the right move to make is the hardest decision to come to.
Good luck
I’ve read them. Nothing there that seemed like they were planning some sort of hook up situation. I plan to look further, but so far no digital evidence of a relationship or planned hook up situations. I’m very confident in my ability to find that information if it exists on any of his devices.
Go see a Lawyer, get them to write it up.
How on earth did you get so down voted? Reddit is a mystery. If I could add my 2 cents? I'd bet $1000 bucks that your missus doesn't want to be solved. She wants to feel heard. That's my 2 cents.
Let her go so she can find someone who values her. Youre getting upset when she calls you out on it because it's true. You're treating her like a backup plan.
Pictures of an ex is part of your personal history. It’s okay to have them. If you look at them and obsess over your ex is something different.
Your husband had a crush on a child. Divorce him.