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It's not always a big deal, but a 23 year old dating a 17 year old doesn't exactly give me the warm fuzzies.
I suspect that he likes being in control of you and a kid would wreck that control. The longer he can keep you from getting pregnant, the higher the likelihood that he can prevent you from ever getting pregnant. You should consider the ticking clock and move quickly if having kids is this important to you.
I mean it's not your responsibility to cover for him when he is a bad actor.
Make sure you call cops while at work. Then feign surprise qhen you get home to blue lights. haha
I dont want to break up with her and she wouldn't want me to breakup with her either
but also
I want to know is it possible to get back with an ex after all these years apart
So what exactly do you want? To cheat? To clone yourself and experience both paths guilt-free?
Trust me, I've been there. I know you want both. I know you don't want to make a choice. But your denial is only going to lead to one place, an emotional affair and more hurt for everyone involved. Rip the bandaid off and break up, or tell your ex that you can't be friends after all and get over her. Those are your options.
You might find yourself alone if you bail and your ex isn't interested. In my opinion that's a risk you have to take, or stay. Just commit to one or the other and be done with it. You might be tempted to set up the new relationship before ending the current one, but word of advice – that's what I did, and years later I still feel guilty about the unnecessary hurt it caused my previous partner. I'm lucky my new partner didn't think less of me. Why would your ex want to be with a man who treats his current gf like a lukewarm backup plan? What's to stop you from doing the same to her someday? You broke up over trust issues once before, I guarantee she would not look past this easily.
Make up your mind. Do, or don't. You're coming up on fork, if you contine to refuse to choose either road you will crash into the wall between them.
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Pursue couples counselling and if you still want to break up in a few months, do that
it’s not just friends though, most people in their teens to early 20s have at least a hundred if not hundreds of people added on snapchat. of course there are exceptions but i don’t know anyone who has less than ~300 people. it’s equivalent to posting an instagram story.
Baby means child support and custody. Abusive or not she has to be dealt with. Even if that means via lawyers.
I think it will be too hard to stop him with porn now that the genie is out of the bottle. If he wants it he will procure it.
Maybe he also needs a sex/romance talk from a man? It seems he is comfortable with you but maybe there is more he wants to ask etc?
Agree. Take a hard pass on anyone whose father has an opinion regarding your genitals, let alone anyone who entertains said opinion.
As someone who's been there – please remember that you should always care the most about yourself. Otherwise you end up being a husk of who you should be. You deserve better than this, stranger
You’re right and I know it but he lets me know all the good things he does for me and he treats me like the villain for not wanting to do something and he convinced me that I’m wrong . I have clarity when we are done but when he comes back and tells me that he gives me his all and does everything and anything for me that is why I feel guilt .
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Why is her behavior, your fault? Like, flip the script, sister is being a bitch over $15.
I'd send mom the screenshots and leave it at that.
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Apparently her heels are over her head all right, but for someone other than you.
Dump and block time.
Yeah, he's throwing red flags all over the place. I'd walk, honestly. Would not waste time with someone who is this aggressive and pushy.
Dowry? Yes, it is her decision.
She’s not in another relationship though. Also she still wears my clothes to bed sometimes and talks to me daily
I think I would tackle this issue first before deciding to go under the knife. More often than not, people who opt for surgery before therapy end up turning to surgery more and more because, surprise surprise, the nose job wasn’t enough to overcome their insecurities.
My intention isn’t to tell you “give up on the surgery, go with your bf”. Quite possibly, even after a thorough work on your insecurities and self-esteem you would still like to pursue it. At that point – by all means, go for it! I’m merely trying to warn you that you might be applying a band-aid to a broken leg.
Yes that happened. Only reason i asked for her phone was because I had a man call my phone at 4 am
Just tell her. The longer you wait the dumber your going to look.
Sorry you are going through this. Sadly you have like zero percent convincing her you are innocent so the best thing to do for your own sanity is give her her stuff and say goodbye. If her lil sis changes her story one day perhaps you will hear, so for now get on with your life, be the best person you can be, and wish her the best. It's a big wide world out there.
She’ll be mortified. You’re obviously a guy so wouldn’t get it
You need to tell everyone in the friend circle. They need to know that he might be fucking their partners too. If you are on good terms with the parents, apologise to them too, tell them that you are sorry but you can't be with her anymore as you can't be with a cheater. I mean they thought you were going to be a Son IL so they deserve to know why not.
Next realise that you deserve better than she could ever be on her best day. Work on making yourself happy. Find your joy in life. Get back into your hobbies, make new friends. When you are ready you can find someone 1000% better than her. And honestly now you know that there are things to look out for in a relationship. Learn to stand up for yourself. Know your worth.
At 30 years old, I would think she's more mature than that. I expected this insecurity from a girl in their early 20's who is afraid of losing her boyfriend to another girl. I think your girlfriend is being unreasonable. It's a medical procedure and no different than giving a ride home to someone who just had dilation eye drops from the Ophthalmologist's office.
What kind of moron wants to go driving in the snow?
Is there any reason you can’t hire people the way everyone else does? By Googling the service you need?
I suppose it’s not a huge deal, but I can’t imagine asking an old FWB for something so many people are capable of doing.
You being uncomfortable with sex doesn't mean she's a hooker, which sounds like is the case. However, you being uncomfortable is more than enough reason to say no, and stop having sex/ messing around with her.
My sister married a Shawn 20some years ago.
I promise you he is just the same today as he was then.
He literally gags – yes, gags – when he smells bananas because he doesn't like the way they smell. He doesn't like fruits, veggies, “green” things, or “chunky things” in his sauces (ie veggies). The only veggie he eats is lettuce. I swear, his “salads” are lettuce and ranch.
He hasn't gained weight, but that's his metabolism. He does have high cholesterol, high blood pressure and diabetes type 2. They have 3 kids, 2 of whom eat very similarly to him, though they are branching out.
Your life will forever be like this. He will have days where he feels like shit, and you will be frustrated because you know it's because he doesn't take care of himself.
You are not his mother. Cook for yourself, and if he wants to eat it, great. If not, that's fine. Just know that if you want a partner in your health journey, this man isn't it.
You just have to determine if that's okay with you or not. No right or wrong universal answer here – just right or wrong for you.
It sounds like you have basic differences in your ambition and in your level of introversion/extroversion.
He also seems very disconnected, maybe depressed?
This is not an impossible situation, but it does take a lot of work on the part of both of you. If he’s not willing to do the work, consider that he never will.
Not a toilet.
Yo.
Heroin addicts love heroin. Doesn’t mean it’s good for them.
Plan your exit and leave without telling him. Your safety is more important than his need to know.
I suggest giving it 24 hours and then standing your ground, and saying u need the money back, that you lent it to her on the condition she would pay you back.
If she insists on waiting till payday, and forcing u to use savings then I suggest accepting her terms, and not lending her anymore money.
Eventually either she will learn she crossed a line today when 6months from now your still not leding her money, or you will learn she's financially irresponsible
I’m glad I’m not 21 anymore.
Soooooooooooooo……… ?
Her feelings are very normal and realistic. Not everyone lives to be a mother and a therapist wouldn’t try to brainwash someone into enjoying motherhood.
Dude, you only see her twice a year? Time to move on and forget about her. She's not interested and you are actively clinging on to a memory of a single time holding hands.
Its pathetic, creepy and unhealthy.
I am realizing this now. Thanks for the info… I have a shit ton of ibuprofen and Tylenol because I play intramural sports and always jack up my knees. And I honestly didn't even think “why didn't you just take this?”
You have I think 72 hrs but anytime I’ve had to purchase it for a girl they were not trying to wait so it was generally the next day.
I’ve done the long distance thing while In school and there’s absolutely no way we wouldn’t have sex during a visit unless something was up. Sorry bro but I think you already know what happened.
I hate that you lied when you made your vows to this woman. You married her. In sickness and in health, toll death do you part. I'm sure you'd be devastated if the situation were reversed. I hope she finds someone who treats her better than you.
Ah good old reddit… Minimal issues? Just dump and be alone forever because you deserve better, people need a reality check….
“I’m sensitive to smells, so I do need you to put on deodorant, or else I’m going to have to decline when you want to put your arms around me.” Then when he tries to put his arms around you, if no deodorant, decline and remind him gently about putting it on.
“I’m sensitive to chewing noises so would you mind chewing with your mouth closed. If not, that’s fine, I’ll just eat separately.” Then if he’s being too noisy just remind him of your sensitivity and excuse yourself to eat in another room.
His MIL explained his first wife left him because he was diagnosed with Asperger's
No one in their family informed you of this already? Well that explains why his mom was so quick to protect you and tell you to get out of the situation earlier.
I'm glad you'll be OK going forward. It's his choices that he's making, so be OK for the choices you have to make for your own well-being, and now, for your child also.
Has your wife been through menopause yet?
Tell him after the abortion. He does deserve to know even though he's a massive POS.
I say after so he can't try and change your mind.
Your husband needs a reminder. Perhaps take it from a co worker angle
Tell her maybe she isn’t aware because of inexperience but calling male co workers cute names and baby nicknames the way you call my husband is extremely inappropriate. So is texting and communicating secretly. You could lose your job you know..:
Your husband needs a reminder. Perhaps take it from a co worker angle
Tell her maybe she isn’t aware because of inexperience but calling male co workers cute names and baby nicknames the way you call my husband is extremely inappropriate. So is texting and communicating secretly. You could lose your job you know..:
Your husband needs a reminder. Perhaps take it from a co worker angle
Tell her maybe she isn’t aware because of inexperience but calling male co workers cute names and baby nicknames the way you call my husband is extremely inappropriate. So is texting and communicating secretly. You could lose your job you know..:
Ah, this is one of those permanent “breaks”
Get a pren. Even better, don’t marry until he behaves in a secure way. It would likely end poorly.
You need to address the problem. Don’t joke about it and don’t treat it like ‘our’ money. He’s not showing enough stability for that.
Can he realistically handle not ever making as much or having as much? You both need to know. It may change in the future but he needs to be okay either way. Not hope he will be but know he’s mentally handling it.
Maybe couples counselling would help? Have a third party ask questions.
Don’t get into funding his business. It’s probably unwise because you become a business partner and if it fails or goes sideways you both have extra resentment.
Talk about how you see both your lives. How you both want to handle money, goals, children, future. What you both want from the relationship. Are you really both on the same page? Talk it out.
WTF. GET OUT! This is abuse, not sex.
You've been together for 6 years.
Recently took a break to sort yourselves out.
Also, you're on completely different wave-lengths after people go through that 'discovering yourself/coming of age' phase.
How good does your relationship sound on paper, than it does in reality?
Whatever the course of action you're taking… the following conversations need to be brutally honest.
You cannot tip toe around things, you need to tell it exactly how it is. Hold nothing back. Make sure what you're trying for is actually compatible long term.
If you can't be painfully honest with your partner, no relationship will survive.
I agree with this. As sad and difficult as this is to hear – telling a woman that you've known **for a week** to consider termination is not a horrible thing.
But you are here now. You have a two month old baby with a biological father who will or will not be in your child's life.
Get Legal Help.
This is great advice. You need to calm down and be rational.
Why can't you join her on these nights out
after a year of dealing with a painful condition and not getting any real help from doctors.. chances are she may be experiencing some depression or medical ptsd. I've been there, you get to the point where you just feel like giving up.
I would highly recommend seeing if she can get in with a functional medical specialist.
Abuse is literally any form of violence used against someone. The definition of abuse is “treat with cruelty or violence, especially when frequently or repeated”
How did you know that you could trust them and that they really are your friends?
Tell her it's like if she tried anal sex one time, discovered she hated it and never did it again. And in response to that you called her “Mrs. Anal Sex” and asked her if she loved anal. Every day. What she is doing is so ignorant, stupid and insensitive.
Is it?
If this is something he feels strongly about, isn't it better to get it out there early?
I gotta be honest, I don't think it's fair to claim that this is controlling behavior. OP is saying that there's a chance she'd ask him to uproot his life later, and he isn't okay with that.
Nobody's doing anything wrong here, this might just be a compatibility issue.
Sorry I haven’t responded to all the comments I didn’t expect to get such a massive response, from the bottom of my heart I thank all of you for the kind words and the advice you have given me. It means a lot and was definitely needed. I might update at some point when everything has settled down. And once again thank you to you all
Also you’re suggesting solutions to her but probably not just asking her if a) she wants a rant or b) she needs someone to take baby for a bit so she can have the time to exercise by herself! I’m in my thirties too and it is such a transition as you move into have friends with children and my biggest lesson is that your friendship with them will change and that’s ok and you need to redefine what that means for you and her. So it might mean going round hers to perhaps watch baby as she has a nap, or bringing a dish and a bottle of wine so she doesn’t have to cook and spend time with you etc.
This is a HARD NO for me. You cannot stop her but you don’t have to be there when this ends. She really needs to choose.
I cannot understand if he tried to rap* her for real, why she would be near him. What is truth there?
Good luck
Maybe that's because that's all he's seen. You think OP is gonna ignore an underage boy on the street?
Girl omg protect yourself and your child asap. Above all else.
I’m so sorry for your lost. I understand you’re both grieving and it’s understandable to share that grieve with someone who’s in the same circle.
But the problem lies in the fact that she likes you. To me, I try to put myself in my partner’s shoes. Would l be okay with her texting with someone who we both know has a crush on her?
If they’re grieving, then yes it’s okay. As long as there’s nothing that might indicate the sign of infidelity. Keep each other in check.
Again, I’m so sorry for your lost.
This is an advice sub-reddit. Not sure you need advice.
Have you asked her why things have changed so much?
It's not appropriate to hang out 1:1 with people you've had a sexual relationship with when you're in a relationship. Especially if your partner isn't aware of this
You walk that stage and you get that diploma. And then go to your brothers wedding.
Well if tries his best, it looks like he doesn’t even care about his pleasure, only mine. He always makes me finish in other ways, and the aftercare makes me feel so loved.
Can't forget when he left for college she was happy. Op made a choice and it wasn't her son.
LMAO – what a statement! but I do agree to it – you wanna marry that toad?
Keep in mind I am a very gentle person who rarely gets angry, it was a one off incident that was exasperated because I had a bit to drink.
Dude. Don't even try that.
Exactly. Dudes a fucking weirdo trying to make this seem normal or not a big deal.
He explicitly says that's the plan down the line but he can't afford it currently.
Stick to meals weekly for a bit and get her to do what you've already asked well and consistently, and then add in a new task and repeat. It'll gradually allow her to understand meals you guys like and be more confident as she picks up each step.
It sounds like you are trauma-bonding to him. You're fresh out of a dysfunctional relationship with kids involved and your focus should be on healing and building yourself up so you can even become receptive for a healthy relationship down the line.
If he had feelings for you, he had plenty of time to reveal them to you. He didn't. I think the sooner you realize that feeling-wise, you're not on the same page and no relationship will come from this, the better. You need to heal – from your abusive relationship as well as from your feelings for your friend. The longer you wait, the more painful it will become. He's actively speaking to other people and showing you that he's ready to get into a relationship once he finds a woman he clicks with. Imagine how much it will hurt you if you stay in this arrangement until one day, he tells you that he's found someone. Don't be a placeholder, it's unhealthy and painful.
“please knock before entering a private room such as the bathroom or bedroom. I don’t appreciate being barged in on and I’m sure you don’t either.
Consent is key though, as a surprise it will wake you but you may pull your back from jumping
Why did you dump him?
OP — Don't worry about the phone numbers for the coworkers – ask her for the phone numbers for the coworkers' wives. Tell her you want to ask them what their husbands said about their whereabouts that night. The coworkers will lie for her, but their wives won't. 🙂
Help her get professional help. It’s sporadic and yes you’re both young but that’s a lot of stuff going on at once. But remember, you can’t make her.
There’s nothing wrong with keeping yourself healthy, even if it means having to space yourself from others. If she declines needing help and you guys continue to hang out, tell her calmly you’re not okay with how she just — to that person because —. And point out how one SHOULD treat others. She may just realize she needs help. OR she may be completely happy with herself, decline anything and everything and continue to be how she is.
You can bring a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.
God I hope so
Your attempt to make a “whataboutism” argument is laughable. He didn't sit and mock her for hours. He made a couple of statements. You're adding so much baggage and drama to an unequal scenario you made up in your head that you are correct. There is no productive anything in your words.
I'm not saying he shouldn't go and pretend to have fun anyways!
II do love her but am having mixx feeling for the marriage . But some part of me says to get married and I need some advise from a stranger who can't judged the story just bcoz of
II do love her but am having mixx feeling for the marriage . But some part of me says to get married and I need some advise from a stranger who can't judged the story just bcoz of
It seems like her passivity is because she’s not enjoying the sex that much. If you see turning her on as a burden and slowing yourself down so she can have one orgasm with a vibrator- it’s pretty lousy. Where’s the passion? Is there stress or resentments that are interfering with your ability to connect with each other?
Why do you not eat together if you’re dating
The right person may not ask, or want to know. I have been with my partner five years. He's never asked and genuinely doesn't care, because that's not how he defines me.