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Eh, I wouldn’t act like this is the only solution. OP said there’s circumstances preventing her from moving out, which is precisely why she posted this. I agree that a healthy sexual relationship is important in marriage, but I also think there are solutions and compromises to create an easier coexistence.
For one, we all in the comments have no idea how loud these parents are and what kind of sounds OP is hearing, so the parents might be able to do more to help. If they’re being excessively vocal, then one solution is for them to be considerate and monitor their noise to a reasonable amount or insulate their room better so it doesn’t travel as much. This doesn’t mean they CANT have sex, just that they should be considerate of their noise levels if they are living with someone else. If it’s a creaky bedframe, they could work on getting a new/different one or padding it.
Also, there are things that OP can do to help reduce the impact of the noise. Padding the walls and adding more fabric decorations such as tapestries, rugs and such could help. Adding a seal at the bottom of the door could help too if there’s a big gap there (could also be said for parents room). If the sound is purely coming through a shared wall though, this might not help. Another solution is to drown out the noise via a white noise machine, background TV noise, etc. People that have lived in thinly walled apartments know there’s a ton of solutions other than moving out.
Over all, I think OP’s parents should be mindful of the scenario they’re putting OP in. She is not consenting to hearing their sexual encounters, and if she expresses discomfort then the parents should be working toward solutions, not just telling her to deal with it. Again, I’m not saying they need to stop having sex in their own home, but they should try to help their daughter be comfortable in her living space. If they don’t like it, they can always tell her to get out, though many people would consider them assholes for that.
Eh, I wouldn’t act like this is the only solution. OP said there’s circumstances preventing her from moving out, which is precisely why she posted this. I agree that a healthy sexual relationship is important in marriage, but I also think there are solutions and compromises to create an easier coexistence.
For one, we all in the comments have no idea how loud these parents are and what kind of sounds OP is hearing, so the parents might be able to do more to help. If they’re being excessively vocal, then one solution is for them to be considerate and monitor their noise to a reasonable amount or insulate their room better so it doesn’t travel as much. This doesn’t mean they CANT have sex, just that they should be considerate of their noise levels if they are living with someone else. If it’s a creaky bedframe, they could work on getting a new/different one or padding it.
Also, there are things that OP can do to help reduce the impact of the noise. Padding the walls and adding more fabric decorations such as tapestries, rugs and such could help. Adding a seal at the bottom of the door could help too if there’s a big gap there (could also be said for parents room). If the sound is purely coming through a shared wall though, this might not help. Another solution is to drown out the noise via a white noise machine, background TV noise, etc. People that have lived in thinly walled apartments know there’s a ton of solutions other than moving out.
Over all, I think OP’s parents should be mindful of the scenario they’re putting OP in. She is not consenting to hearing their sexual encounters, and if she expresses discomfort then the parents should be working toward solutions, not just telling her to deal with it. Again, I’m not saying they need to stop having sex in their own home, but they should try to help their daughter be comfortable in her living space. If they don’t like it, they can always tell her to get out, though many people would consider them assholes for that.