I appreciate the re-frame and in reality I’m sure that’s pretty close to how it went. As I said also where in the Comments I do trust her and dont perceive him as a threat. I haven’t even directly told her to cut him off or cancel any plans with him. But I’m speaking for me, personally; if we’re in a committed relationship which she says she wants then I don’t like the idea of being drinking buddies with anyone she’s slept with before. She feels the same way about anyone I’ve been with in the past; but I don’t have anyone I’m still friends with. So it did not go both ways; and she admitted that.
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Take the job. One month in isn’t long enough to know if it’ll work out or if he isn’t hiding something horrible, like an addiction or control issues. You don’t want to be stuck with less opportunities because you let someone you barely know convince you to stay behind.
I appreciate the re-frame and in reality I’m sure that’s pretty close to how it went. As I said also where in the Comments I do trust her and dont perceive him as a threat. I haven’t even directly told her to cut him off or cancel any plans with him. But I’m speaking for me, personally; if we’re in a committed relationship which she says she wants then I don’t like the idea of being drinking buddies with anyone she’s slept with before. She feels the same way about anyone I’ve been with in the past; but I don’t have anyone I’m still friends with. So it did not go both ways; and she admitted that.
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Let her go. She’s getting ready to cheat on you if she hasn’t already.
Take the job. One month in isn’t long enough to know if it’ll work out or if he isn’t hiding something horrible, like an addiction or control issues. You don’t want to be stuck with less opportunities because you let someone you barely know convince you to stay behind.
Dude shes in her 30's. Its so fucking over. There is no getting better.