I don't feel capable of that… I went through a lot before going out with him, I'm not good at confronting because I'm weak, I don't have the strength, I don't have it, I don't want to lose him, I don't want to be the second option but, I don't have with whom to speak… I lack the forces.
Hahah, internet strangers give me better advice than most people I know, so thank you! Emotions suck, and sometimes I wish I was a robot. Just bummed. I feel it would almost be easier had we had some big fight and I had a solid reason why it wouldn’t work.
You've been dating 8 months, she is not entitled to your money.
I don't have as much as you, but my ex found out about my savings and immediately wanted to spend it. I told him no, because it's my safety cushion, my rainy day money. It's there if anything happens.that I need a large amount of money for, but I mostly view it as savings for my nieces.
It's not to be spent. I invested it and lost sometimes, but because it comes out regularly and I only get a statement once ima year, I usually forget about it. And that suits me fine.
I think he was used to living paycheck to paycheck: he spent all his savings on presents for his family, when he didn't have an income. He eventually came around to the idea of savings, or stopped talking about it.
People who view a savings account as another regular account never make money. Your savings should be nude to touch, or they will be drained away.
What if I need major repairs, or special medical treatments? That's easier if I don't have to take a loan when I can't prove that I'll be able to pay it back.
NO NO NO!!! Listen to these people OP!
I don't feel capable of that… I went through a lot before going out with him, I'm not good at confronting because I'm weak, I don't have the strength, I don't have it, I don't want to lose him, I don't want to be the second option but, I don't have with whom to speak… I lack the forces.
Hahah, internet strangers give me better advice than most people I know, so thank you! Emotions suck, and sometimes I wish I was a robot. Just bummed. I feel it would almost be easier had we had some big fight and I had a solid reason why it wouldn’t work.
Yes. I dated my husband for ten years before we got married. I would not be offended if he told someone he was “seeing someone” ten years in.
You've been dating 8 months, she is not entitled to your money.
I don't have as much as you, but my ex found out about my savings and immediately wanted to spend it. I told him no, because it's my safety cushion, my rainy day money. It's there if anything happens.that I need a large amount of money for, but I mostly view it as savings for my nieces.
It's not to be spent. I invested it and lost sometimes, but because it comes out regularly and I only get a statement once ima year, I usually forget about it. And that suits me fine.
I think he was used to living paycheck to paycheck: he spent all his savings on presents for his family, when he didn't have an income. He eventually came around to the idea of savings, or stopped talking about it.
People who view a savings account as another regular account never make money. Your savings should be nude to touch, or they will be drained away.
What if I need major repairs, or special medical treatments? That's easier if I don't have to take a loan when I can't prove that I'll be able to pay it back.