If you're wondering if all the comments are correct, call him out on it and study his reaction HOT.
“Hey, this/these behavior insert exact, specific behavioral examples is indicative of controlling and abusive partners. It's giving me pause about our future as I will not tolerate this in my life. I'd like to know why you had such a strong reaction to a haircut and if I should I expect this type of behavior to continue with you?”
As you are speaking, DO NOT LOOK DOWN. Look in his eyes. Speak confidently. Study his face, body language. Do his features tighten? Frown? What does he say? HOW does he say it? What's the tone? Aggressive? Playcating/condescending? Sincere?
All I'd say is better safe than sorry. Ask your friends for t Some honest, no holds barred opinions.
stool pigeon?
If you're wondering if all the comments are correct, call him out on it and study his reaction HOT.
“Hey, this/these behavior insert exact, specific behavioral examples is indicative of controlling and abusive partners. It's giving me pause about our future as I will not tolerate this in my life. I'd like to know why you had such a strong reaction to a haircut and if I should I expect this type of behavior to continue with you?”
As you are speaking, DO NOT LOOK DOWN. Look in his eyes. Speak confidently. Study his face, body language. Do his features tighten? Frown? What does he say? HOW does he say it? What's the tone? Aggressive? Playcating/condescending? Sincere?
All I'd say is better safe than sorry. Ask your friends for t Some honest, no holds barred opinions.
This is like poetry.