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I'm sorry OP. I'm sure these are some hurtful realisations but sometimes the price we pay when we do internal work is learning that we are out growing certain relationships. You're doing amazing, don't let anybody hinder your growth.
It bothers you because she knew it would and kept it from you, while this guy is still in her acquaintance group. Which puts you in an awkward situation among her friends, as well. And she just allowed you to dangle. Not the sign of a good partner, in my book.
And, open-minded or not, sleeping with three guys in a week while quite interested in just one of them shows bad judgement, as well. That would bother me, as well.
What’s funny to me about her no longer being friends with people over PE because it “isn’t real Chinese food”, is that someone did a video where they gave older Asian folk Panda Express, and asked them to say how similar it was to Chinese food they would make. The older folk said it was similar if not exactly the fucking same lol. In the same video, they had college-aged Asian-Americans eat Panda Express and funny enough, they were the ones claiming it didn’t “taste like real Chinese food”. Your girlfriend sounds like a hypocrite AND racist. Get out fast.
As a female doctor, it is difficult to find men to date who don’t resent how successful you are. And often these men will lash out about about tiny little things like this, but it is usually a symptom of this deeper issue of them feeling inferior. I don’t really have any advice to you except to try and sniff these men out early on because they will NOT be supportive during residency, during fellowship, during you first job where you are trying to be equal with the male surgeons, etc. What if there is another pandemic, is this dude gonna be all butthurt you are spending too much time keeping people from dying?
I had a strict ‘no dating other doctors’ policy for a long time, but sometimes only people in the medical field really understand. Something to consider since this guy sounds like trash. Good luck!
Going to be hard.
It is something she should have told you prior to getting married.
As she said it wasn’t necessary to tell you at the beginning, but when you get serious she should have.
Now you need to decide what is greater. Your love for your wife, your marriage and kids, or her lie of omission, the disgust you feel at both your wife and brother.
Start with marriage/couples counselling, and see what happens.
Your wife also needs to do some serious trust rebuilding – she can start by telling you of any other skeletons in her past that have any possibility of coming to light, as the marriage will not survive another one (if it survives this one)
And you need to cut your brother off completely.