He drives aggressively, he ignores your requests to be more careful, he's not showing any appreciation, he's not going to contribute to the expenses- he barely covers his own fuel…and tried to tell you to get gas money from a friend who needed a lift to the hospital? (I am glad you told him off over that)
Please invite your mother to share her concerns, in detail, and really, really listen – seriously, give her a one-time pass to express her every reservation… because all of this is adding up to a really troubling dynamic where you give freely, and he takes more than you offered, acts as if it were only his due and fails to hold up his end.
Stop letting him use your car except in an actual emergency and please give some thought to whether or not this pattern of treating you & your belongings shabbily is a pattern . This kind of thing won't get better after marriage.
This is incredibly disgusting and abnormal behavior. He needs professional help. You do NOT have to put up with this, I would have personally ran away after the first instance.
you can't consent to sex when you're black-out drunk. stop protecting a fucking rapist, my god.
He drives aggressively, he ignores your requests to be more careful, he's not showing any appreciation, he's not going to contribute to the expenses- he barely covers his own fuel…and tried to tell you to get gas money from a friend who needed a lift to the hospital? (I am glad you told him off over that)
Please invite your mother to share her concerns, in detail, and really, really listen – seriously, give her a one-time pass to express her every reservation… because all of this is adding up to a really troubling dynamic where you give freely, and he takes more than you offered, acts as if it were only his due and fails to hold up his end.
Stop letting him use your car except in an actual emergency and please give some thought to whether or not this pattern of treating you & your belongings shabbily is a pattern . This kind of thing won't get better after marriage.
This is incredibly disgusting and abnormal behavior. He needs professional help. You do NOT have to put up with this, I would have personally ran away after the first instance.