Yes, I assume it’s cultural. Just a very different mindset, compared to my family and my friendgroup.
I think the father in law, is a bit stressed from her family, more particularly from her moms side, but they just call me son in law, and often ask when our wedding is..
Wait- you think he can’t get lunch, because he might cheat? Oh hun no.
Going thru phone, checking the room every 15 minutes. Those are extremely controlling behaviors. You are making him responsible for your insecurities.
That is your issue to deal with. You were honest but you weren’t vulnerable- you were trying to stop him from eating. You are using your insecurities to be so very controlling.
He snaps at you because you have him wound so tight it’s not the only option. His stubbornness is him trying to push back to reasonable boundaries.
If you need this much soothing, you shouldn’t be in any relationship.
Yes, I assume it’s cultural. Just a very different mindset, compared to my family and my friendgroup.
I think the father in law, is a bit stressed from her family, more particularly from her moms side, but they just call me son in law, and often ask when our wedding is..
Another example of how these types of relationships are just bullshit from the start
Wait- you think he can’t get lunch, because he might cheat? Oh hun no.
Going thru phone, checking the room every 15 minutes. Those are extremely controlling behaviors. You are making him responsible for your insecurities.
That is your issue to deal with. You were honest but you weren’t vulnerable- you were trying to stop him from eating. You are using your insecurities to be so very controlling.
He snaps at you because you have him wound so tight it’s not the only option. His stubbornness is him trying to push back to reasonable boundaries.
If you need this much soothing, you shouldn’t be in any relationship.