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Are you completely braindead or what ? She cheated on her ex with multiple dudes, and for some reason you thought she is a good person to date. And “shockingly” she continued with cheating and cheated on you with her ex, the same ex she was cheating with.
I have been friends with guys for years without it being sexual. But this person was trying to make it seem like it's never a situation that can happen. That people of different genders cannot ever be friends. When that's just not true.
Look, I get hangry. I would never act like this. Jeez how old is this man? You’re his partner not his babysitter. It’s a major red flag that you’re this nervous about not anticipating and immediately gratifying his needs. He can’t handle a 25 min wait for food? Is he diabetic? Truly flabbergasting
Go do your thing. Your parents are doing their thing, and they probably have been for a very long time.. Probably since before your current age.
The only difference is it would be too expensive to fly every week… So maybe fly every couple months to visit your parents.
Online your life. It's YOUR life. you're not abandoning them – don't shame/guilt yourself out of living your life. Your parents might miss your visits but unless they're narcissistic or sociopaths then they'll probably be very happy for you!
Stop threatening your relationship during arguments. He is communicating to you that he can't deal with that. Believe him. Decide whether you want your ex to have the power to destroy the better thing you have going.
They imagine themselves as “temporarily embarrassed billionaires”. Kind of like people who get into multi-level marketing schemes. Their cult leaders convince them to believe the fantasy that in no time they'll be retired millionaires walking the beaches of the world selling generic overpriced products nobody wants.
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If her friend’s boyfriend is 35 and progressed well in life. That means he already has a set career, savings, investments, and significantly more free time. You’re already going to school and covering all the bills on top of that. You’re girlfriend needs to touch grass and be realistic. You have your own priorities in life, if she’s just gonna stress you out because she wants what her friend has then tell get that on her own.
Why are women so ashamed of the way they gave birth? Having an epidural does not make you weak or less of a mother. I wish the stigma surrounding natural vs medicated birth etc would just disappear
It’s possible that it’s a promise ring or just a really great gift so that you will know he’s going to propose at some point. I would take him at his word that it’s not time yet. You’re setting yourself up for disappointment if you’re expecting a proposal. I’m sure you wish you hadn’t found it. Of course it’s possible but if you assume it’s a proposal then it’s not, you’re reaction is probably going to not be great.
You are willing to handle a relationship and the possible future marriage.
You may feel guilty but you still do it. So for all the guilt, it doesn't stop you doing it. It's just emotions and you handle them. Like everyone in life.
You can’t hide this, nor should you, plus the longer you leave it then she has to come to terms with the lay off AND the deception. Be honest with her, you’re supposed to be there for each other through thick and thin, if anything this is a great opportunity to see how strong the relationship is.
It sucks but this sort of thing happens, relationships are easy when everything is plain sailing (plane sailing?), real life has this sort of drama, not the high school/ Ross & Rachel “will they won’t they” sort of crap, lol
If she leaves you over this I’d say the relationship was doomed the second the next crisis came up anyway, if you stay together over it, it might even make you both stronger 🙂
I wouldn’t let her “explain” herself or even try and say the words “its not what it looked like”
It was cheating and she was so wrong for it. I’m sorry man, you’ll manage to pull through, don’t give her the slightest idea that you will forgive her or be with her again.
So, if I understand they are not related at all and probably didn’t grow up together at all since you are 23 and half-brother is 21.
Even if they were dating I don’t really see the issue here expect it’s weird to you, and maybe to your parents and their parents. But not really their problem right?
But like if you were in her shoes, wouldn’t you have just straight up asked “hey is that bracelet from an ex? If so that kind of makes me uncomfortable” instead of creeping up to her as she is sleeping with a sharp object?!? Lol that girl is a nut job. Good on you for running
We online within 30 minutes of his parents, who he’s gone behind my back to enlist to be on deck if she needs anything. I’m not okay with the idea that we won’t be there
Don't you think his parents are competent to handle it?
My kids we've on sleepovers and nothing ever went wrong. If you're happy that it's a safe place to sleepover… then there's no need to fret about it.
You might not intend for it to be that way but it is embarassing to me. I need you to stop this. If you don't I'll take it as you don't respect me or my feelings and this isn't going to work.
You guys are married already and finding this out now that she doesn’t allow you to follow her on socials. Why did you two got married this is like pretty basic stuff
Yo, you need to take a step back and realize that your obsession on making sure your partners orgasm is unhealthy. Quit basing your worth on sexual performance. It’s causing both you and your significant others nothing but problems. Your ex cheating on you had nothing to do with your sex life, and everything to do with their character.
A lot of people don’t orgasm every sexual encounter, but that doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy the intimacy and it doesn’t mean they don’t feel good. In fact, your emphasis on that aspect of sex probably ruins it for them. The pressure you put on people to orgasm almost guarantees it won’t happen. The female orgasm is so much more complex and relaxation helps immensely in the process. That’s not to say that you should ignore their needs, just be OK with it not happening every time. You’ll find people will have an easier time being upfront with you about it.
Spend some time reflecting on why you think it’s so important, seeking a better source of self worth and maybe some therapy to help you through this.
Rage driving as a form of abuse isn't talked about enough.
My ex husband used to do this sort of thing in the car when he was angry and it's terrifying to be in the passenger seat with someone who is driving and taking chances while in rageful anger. IMO this is a sign of abuse. It wouldn't surprise me if OP puts up with other abusive behaviours from him.
If you trust her, ditch the ex. That's a relationship problem waiting to be a marriage problem. If she doesn't do exes, neither do you. Welcome to married life.
You clearly don't care just how terrible it can be for a guy who's mislead or roped into raising a kid that isn't his. He has no rights in most countries, yet you're unwilling to do this?
Do you have something to be worried about? Why wouldn't you do that?
You're not exclusive and you've only been dating a few months. She's out for drinks with a mate so just leave her be until she's back home or the next day. Making plans etc requires thought, she'll probably need to check her diary etc and to reply properly. She doesn't want to do that when she's out. You're massively overthinking it and being a little needy. Just chill and speak to her the following day.
I understand that, and I'm glad I'm not alone in thinking that. However, I don't know how to tell him that. No matter how I word it, it sounds really bad. I just look at the title of my own post, and think it is a shitty thing to tell your partner
Honestly my intuition is telling me that he’s not a good guy. He makes you jealous, makes you feel insecure and inferior, takes pleasure in sharing information that he knows will bother you, and he is most likely manipulating you.
Do not feel like if you don’t do it that he will look for it elsewhere.
You know what? The more you give someone, it does not mean you will reap rewards. In fact, it often has the opposite effect. It does increase the overall heartbreak but that’s about it.
I understand that, and I'm glad I'm not alone in thinking that. However, I don't know how to tell him that. No matter how I word it, it sounds really bad. I just look at the title of my own post, and think it is a shitty thing to tell your partner
sounds like you didn't get the reason for not bringing her.
it could be that this friend of 15 years needs to not be a friend of 16 years, even if he's just doing what his gf said (assuming it's him or her who has a problem with your gf attending activities)
Are you completely braindead or what ? She cheated on her ex with multiple dudes, and for some reason you thought she is a good person to date. And “shockingly” she continued with cheating and cheated on you with her ex, the same ex she was cheating with.
Youre literally walking doormat.
HA.
run bruh. dump her.
In the words of Ross Geller: “DON'T DO IT!”
You are effectively giving away half your house.
Never
I have been friends with guys for years without it being sexual. But this person was trying to make it seem like it's never a situation that can happen. That people of different genders cannot ever be friends. When that's just not true.
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Look, I get hangry. I would never act like this. Jeez how old is this man? You’re his partner not his babysitter. It’s a major red flag that you’re this nervous about not anticipating and immediately gratifying his needs. He can’t handle a 25 min wait for food? Is he diabetic? Truly flabbergasting
I could tell it was about to turn into a religion hate post instead of anyone giving advice lmao Reddit is something else.
Go do your thing. Your parents are doing their thing, and they probably have been for a very long time.. Probably since before your current age.
The only difference is it would be too expensive to fly every week… So maybe fly every couple months to visit your parents.
Online your life. It's YOUR life. you're not abandoning them – don't shame/guilt yourself out of living your life. Your parents might miss your visits but unless they're narcissistic or sociopaths then they'll probably be very happy for you!
Leave!!!
Im going to guess she’s dating you for your resources.
Stop threatening your relationship during arguments. He is communicating to you that he can't deal with that. Believe him. Decide whether you want your ex to have the power to destroy the better thing you have going.
she's literally avoiding sex with him. How does that seem like she's fine?
They imagine themselves as “temporarily embarrassed billionaires”. Kind of like people who get into multi-level marketing schemes. Their cult leaders convince them to believe the fantasy that in no time they'll be retired millionaires walking the beaches of the world selling generic overpriced products nobody wants.
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If her friend’s boyfriend is 35 and progressed well in life. That means he already has a set career, savings, investments, and significantly more free time. You’re already going to school and covering all the bills on top of that. You’re girlfriend needs to touch grass and be realistic. You have your own priorities in life, if she’s just gonna stress you out because she wants what her friend has then tell get that on her own.
But he said he hasn’t met anyone that he could date right? That means he doesn’t think of me that way right? :/
Why are women so ashamed of the way they gave birth? Having an epidural does not make you weak or less of a mother. I wish the stigma surrounding natural vs medicated birth etc would just disappear
Don't be The Girl Who Didn't Go to Paris. Have we not learned this lesson?
It’s possible that it’s a promise ring or just a really great gift so that you will know he’s going to propose at some point. I would take him at his word that it’s not time yet. You’re setting yourself up for disappointment if you’re expecting a proposal. I’m sure you wish you hadn’t found it. Of course it’s possible but if you assume it’s a proposal then it’s not, you’re reaction is probably going to not be great.
You are supposed to grow from life.
You are willing to handle a relationship and the possible future marriage.
You may feel guilty but you still do it. So for all the guilt, it doesn't stop you doing it. It's just emotions and you handle them. Like everyone in life.
You don't deserve this kind of negativity. Life is too short
You can’t hide this, nor should you, plus the longer you leave it then she has to come to terms with the lay off AND the deception. Be honest with her, you’re supposed to be there for each other through thick and thin, if anything this is a great opportunity to see how strong the relationship is.
It sucks but this sort of thing happens, relationships are easy when everything is plain sailing (plane sailing?), real life has this sort of drama, not the high school/ Ross & Rachel “will they won’t they” sort of crap, lol
If she leaves you over this I’d say the relationship was doomed the second the next crisis came up anyway, if you stay together over it, it might even make you both stronger 🙂
Good Luck 🙂
I’ve tried so naked to fix it this has gone on for 5+ years
I’m not here to argue, but losing a child is as extreme as trauma gets imo
I wouldn’t let her “explain” herself or even try and say the words “its not what it looked like”
It was cheating and she was so wrong for it. I’m sorry man, you’ll manage to pull through, don’t give her the slightest idea that you will forgive her or be with her again.
Is this the same bf who raped you multiple times? You should leave both of them behind
So, if I understand they are not related at all and probably didn’t grow up together at all since you are 23 and half-brother is 21.
Even if they were dating I don’t really see the issue here expect it’s weird to you, and maybe to your parents and their parents. But not really their problem right?
But like if you were in her shoes, wouldn’t you have just straight up asked “hey is that bracelet from an ex? If so that kind of makes me uncomfortable” instead of creeping up to her as she is sleeping with a sharp object?!? Lol that girl is a nut job. Good on you for running
Grow up. Seriously. You aren't married to her so why do you think the kids deserve your last name? Solutions.
Get married and have her change her last name and adopt her son and change his last name.
Get married and take her last name. You won't die.
Fix your fragile ego about having the kids have your last name. Will they be less yours if they don't have your last name?
I personally wouldn't. Too risky about it getting out if he has a bad reaction.
We online within 30 minutes of his parents, who he’s gone behind my back to enlist to be on deck if she needs anything. I’m not okay with the idea that we won’t be there
Don't you think his parents are competent to handle it?
My kids we've on sleepovers and nothing ever went wrong. If you're happy that it's a safe place to sleepover… then there's no need to fret about it.
I don't see how it can be from her?
You might not intend for it to be that way but it is embarassing to me. I need you to stop this. If you don't I'll take it as you don't respect me or my feelings and this isn't going to work.
You guys are married already and finding this out now that she doesn’t allow you to follow her on socials. Why did you two got married this is like pretty basic stuff
Yo, you need to take a step back and realize that your obsession on making sure your partners orgasm is unhealthy. Quit basing your worth on sexual performance. It’s causing both you and your significant others nothing but problems. Your ex cheating on you had nothing to do with your sex life, and everything to do with their character.
A lot of people don’t orgasm every sexual encounter, but that doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy the intimacy and it doesn’t mean they don’t feel good. In fact, your emphasis on that aspect of sex probably ruins it for them. The pressure you put on people to orgasm almost guarantees it won’t happen. The female orgasm is so much more complex and relaxation helps immensely in the process. That’s not to say that you should ignore their needs, just be OK with it not happening every time. You’ll find people will have an easier time being upfront with you about it.
Spend some time reflecting on why you think it’s so important, seeking a better source of self worth and maybe some therapy to help you through this.
Rage driving as a form of abuse isn't talked about enough.
My ex husband used to do this sort of thing in the car when he was angry and it's terrifying to be in the passenger seat with someone who is driving and taking chances while in rageful anger. IMO this is a sign of abuse. It wouldn't surprise me if OP puts up with other abusive behaviours from him.
You asked her to change. And she will not.
If you don't want to leave her. Then you have to change all your expectations.
I genuinely hope that some random person will start kissing OP and walk off with him. Poor dude needs a rescue.
If you trust her, ditch the ex. That's a relationship problem waiting to be a marriage problem. If she doesn't do exes, neither do you. Welcome to married life.
This is really something that only you guys can figure out on your own.
I take it as an offense to me and my loyalty
You clearly don't care just how terrible it can be for a guy who's mislead or roped into raising a kid that isn't his. He has no rights in most countries, yet you're unwilling to do this?
Do you have something to be worried about? Why wouldn't you do that?
Update when you've left him for good, ok? Don't risk getting a disease from his cheating and keep your mental well being in a stable place.
Ugh for some reason Reddit being stupid again and I can’t see the first commenter
You're not exclusive and you've only been dating a few months. She's out for drinks with a mate so just leave her be until she's back home or the next day. Making plans etc requires thought, she'll probably need to check her diary etc and to reply properly. She doesn't want to do that when she's out. You're massively overthinking it and being a little needy. Just chill and speak to her the following day.
No. She sounds like a professional student. Does she have any plans to ever work? What type of student loans is she carrying?
Sugarglitterkiss, I was in a long distance relationship 8 years, and I totally agree with you!
I understand that, and I'm glad I'm not alone in thinking that. However, I don't know how to tell him that. No matter how I word it, it sounds really bad. I just look at the title of my own post, and think it is a shitty thing to tell your partner
Honestly my intuition is telling me that he’s not a good guy. He makes you jealous, makes you feel insecure and inferior, takes pleasure in sharing information that he knows will bother you, and he is most likely manipulating you.
Do not feel like if you don’t do it that he will look for it elsewhere.
You know what? The more you give someone, it does not mean you will reap rewards. In fact, it often has the opposite effect. It does increase the overall heartbreak but that’s about it.
I would rethink this relationship.
I understand that, and I'm glad I'm not alone in thinking that. However, I don't know how to tell him that. No matter how I word it, it sounds really bad. I just look at the title of my own post, and think it is a shitty thing to tell your partner
Sounds like you're still afraid of commitment, and are projecting that fear onto him
sounds like you didn't get the reason for not bringing her.
it could be that this friend of 15 years needs to not be a friend of 16 years, even if he's just doing what his gf said (assuming it's him or her who has a problem with your gf attending activities)