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Date: February 23, 2023
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Unless he’s chunking half a roll of TP down with this monstrous shits each time, then he has a shitting problem. Once or twice a month clogging is not normal by any means. You need to stand firm and tell him he’s fuckin gross:
Stand your ground. His solution is stupid, and gross. You don’t stew your pooh. It is unhygienic and nasty.
Does he eat cement? Does he need fiber?
He needs an outhouse with a damn hole in the ground.
I am with you OP.
Alright, I hope everyone reads this, my kids age are 6 and 8 and they don’t know that his family don’t know about them. So I’m not letting my kids know about any of this. And I have confronted him and asked him to let them know this year!!
Do yourself a favor and break up, he is probably not even separated from his wife and you’re his side piece. You’re most likely in the position of being a home-wrecker right now. If you thought you could win him over by getting pregnant, it won’t work. His other family has been there before you. Be prepared to be a single parent with low to no participation on his part. What do you even want from a POS like this man? Is he the best you can do to yourself?
I don't have experience on either side of this, but almost all serious relationship changes can be navigated better with the help of a competent couples therapist. Finding one with some background in this area (disability and/or open relationships) would probably be helpful too
And I’d tell your GF asap, like today, if I were you.
I just think if I was in your GF’s position and I learnt you had hidden all this from me I probably would consider the relationship over.
Do the right then, but best of luck. It is a really shitty situation to end up in.
Not really. Her leaving job she has intended to otherwise stay in. This proves nothing now. Keep something in mind, would she do the same right now? I mean lying, hiding it and ditching you hang out with him. Nothing you have said suggests she wouldn't do that again, she simply no longer needs to lie anymore due to different situation.
Going further, imagine if someone in her job would try to flirt with her, especially if it were her superior. Would she potentially sabotage her job by properly shutting down such efforts or would shr at best ignore them and hide this from you?
I think the conversation you need to have is not about what she did, but what she would do in this and other situations “right now”.
If you have an abortion because he doesn’t want kids, you will resent him. It will eat away at you until it explodes out of your mouth and it will almost certainly mean the end of your relationship and the destruction of your mental health.
But.
You need to prepare to be a single parent. Because forcing him to be a dad when he has been clear that he doesn’t want kids is also going to lead to resentment and the death of your relationship.
Please get everything settled in your mind and then tell him you’re pregnant, that it’s his, and that you’re having it. Let him know that you understand he never wanted kids and this wasn’t intentional. Tell him that you can’t have an abortion and you’ll understand if this means you two can’t be together.
He still needs to provide child support. But he can give up physical custody. And he probably will.
I’m sorry you’re not going to get everything you want. But you can still be happy. Good luck!
You want to have this baby you have it and let the chips fall where they may
I am really happy for you, and I hope this brings some well-needed relaxation to you, BUT
be open to the possibility that this isn't over
be aware of whether he knows where you are living
if you have any documentation that he choked you, keep it in a safe place where you can get it to the cops in case you need an emergency restraining order.
She didn't “let” her husband. He was allowed to seek sex outside of marriage as long as wife never knows the details. Sister slimed her way right into his bed asap and spent the last 10 years waving her ankles in the air trying to keep him on her. Wife doesn't know her own sister has been sleeping with her spouse and sister is gross enough to feel some kind of way when he chooses his marriage over her V.
Kinda think more context is needed. How long have you been with him? Has he been made comments like this before? What’s your relationship like in general? Do you have any questions, going into marriage…?
He’s either just an excited dumbass who made a stupid comment. Or he’s a scary dude and you’ve just seen the beginning of what could become a night ante for you.
I think your brother was fine, I’d be upset at you.
ruin or throw away this relationship with this beautiful woman
It is already ruined
Get off reddit
Find someone better.
Are you an idiot? Do whatever the hell you want doesn’t make you a good person tho.
OP, you’ve put him above yourself too much for someone who is NOT married, (so no legal commitment or ramifications), and doesn’t have your best interests at heart.
I think you're being far too polite in your demands – or rather, you make polite requests, when you should be yelling the house down. He is banking on the fact that you're too nice to raise hell, and rather weep in silence than confront him, pull the effing plug on his gaming system, slam doors or throw the dishes in the trash if he can't clean them.
He's effing lazy. (I sympathize, because I am, too.) What he needs is actual consequences. Do you have friends or family close by, where you could stay for a few days? Go home, pack some things, print out the article and leave that on the kitchen table before you go to your friend's place. Tell him you're leaving for a few days, and blocking him on your phone because you want both of you to think about your relationship, and whether you are happier together or apart.
And then go to your friend, vent and drink wine and relax and enjoy yourself. And figure out for yourself if his presence actually sparks joy in your life, or if you should Marie-Condo his ass. Also, envision the future you want, and consider if you can realize that future with him, or if you need someone who is an actual partner.
Is it bad that, I actually agree with you, but I cant deal with the fact that he doesnt see it like that? Like he would never understand if i left or never understands im angry. Its his unawareness thats the hardest part. Id do anything or try anything to fix the relationship and would go to the moon and back to help him, but if he doesnt think he treats me badly. Im stuck.
He always says “I dont see how I treat you badly” or “You make it out like Im treating you like shit” and stuff. Its just so frustrating
Wow! So sorry, I'm glad you didn't let her manipulate you!
Text him back that he doesn't need to come home at all.
I've just given birth
Jesus christ you just had his child and he brings up an open relationship? Was it because he couldn't have sex for a few weeks while you healed because you just birthed a literal fucking child?
I would have ended it then and there.
They wanted a 2 some and their spouses sitting there awkwardly
I wish you luck…and let us know if he answers your text. Did you tell him it was super important?
You must forget that other ppl can see your comments.
He does all the dishes even for my food when he doesn’t eat it so in terms of that I have always been ok with the arrangement. The 3 meals is just too much work obviously.
For lunch I always just eat leftovers and the kids usually will help me make their lunches. We make it a little sensory activity for them and sometimes I can slip in a new food for them to try. For dinner it’s too hard to include them while making my food because they need a lot of supervision.
In terms of household work he really does help. I wont lie and say he is perfect. He has selfish tendencies, but he will clean and do things around the house.
As the saying goes, it's not the size, it's how you use it.
I wouldn't bring up her drunken remark, but rather take this opportunity to reconnect and start fresh with how you can make it better for her (and you).
Use your words and get her to use hers.
It’s a girlfriend. You’ll find another. Time to pack your shirt and leave. Otherwise she will never learn.
Take a break while she is in Spain. I went to an international uni and all the students with bf/gf in their home country had a tough time developing who they were while trying to follow the rules set in that relationship. Some times you just need to let go to discover who you are as a single. Spain could have been some huge changes for her and she needs space to learn. You can still be that supportive friend but take the rules off.
That still makes you a liar ???
Just tell her the truth dude. Copping it on the chin is part of being an adult. If keep weaseling your way out of it, it’ll make you look even worse.
Men are stupid. I’m one of them. But I know what a good deal is. OP, be careful staying with this idiot. Dump him if he makes any more jokes. Clearly, he can’t do math.
Clearly this relationship was over long ago and you just want to find a reason to justify leaving him.
Tell him to go stay with his sister then. Fuck this guy he is putting smoking over the health and safety of you and your child. If he’s this irresponsible now imagine when kiddos old enough to get into his stash – you know he wouldn’t take them to a hospital out of fear to protect himself.
What good does he bring to the relationship?
I’m confused, do you have a current husband or a current boyfriend?
Yeah I think she is just backtracking and wishing she hadn’t said what she did.
There’s still time to get an annulment & go your separate ways.
This guy LEFT you alone on your WEDDING NIGHT because one of his buddies thought you were too silly.
Is this what you really want the rest of your life to look like?
LOL Trying to shame him for being justifiably upset that his wife hid things from him, and is basically just using him for stability…. pretty pathetic thing to do…
“Stop being a backseat driver. If you can't stop distracting me while I'm driving I'm not driving you places.”
You forgot the “pouting and stomping your feet and rolling overvtge floor wailing” thing!
Exactly! The translation of what he said was that her servitude is what makes this a relationship. It doesn’t matter if that’s what he actually meant (he will argue until his dying day that it’s not want he meant, even while he won’t be able to explain it any other way); that’s exactly what he said.
Is that what Jesus would do?
Thank you
Sweetheart, I am so very very sorry for all that you have been through.
Your life DOES have worth. What do YOU need right now to feel like you can make it?
It’s my new thing lately to tell people that you do not need approval or to meet a particular check point etc to break up with someone. It’s not working. You aren’t happy. Time to move on.
Especially because if you DO “Give it more time” (why, what’s going to change? This is him in his BEST behavior he’ll ever have in the relationship) you’ll suddenly find your brain taking you “well I’ve sunk X time into him, if I walk away I’ll be wasting it.”
The whole point of dating, especially at your age is to explore, to see what you like and don’t like, to figure out what your boundaries in a relationship should be, to have experiences. You and he had an experience, it isn’t working out, it’s cool to move on.
Tell him if he carries on, you'll go to the police as you think he could be a predator. He'll soon shut up.
Your mum needs to understand this is gross and unacceptable. Tell her the same, if he carries on you're going to the police.
I don't understand how guys don't seem to understand that who they follow on Instagram reflects on them PUBLICLY. Their mom sees it, their partner sees it, their partner's mom sees it, and everyone sees it. This is what “alt accounts” are made for, so you don't publicly broadcast that you are looking at thirst traps.
That's how you can get over it, by telling him this, but in your own words, haha.
I hope he likes losing half his shit over this blank!
As someone who dated a guy for (almost) five years, lived with him for four of those years, talked about getting married, had him tell all our friends he was planning to propose, and went ring shopping together three (!!) times…..make up your mind.
You are 100% wasting her time and being emotionally abusive if you’re going through all these steps without actually being interested in marrying her. It bothers you that she calls out you on it because it’s true.
What are you scared about? I always say marriage changed absolutely nothing (day to day) and everything (this is my life partner in the most wonderful sense) at the same time. I think the feeling of love evolves over time – the excitement of the first year isn’t the same as the comfort of knowing someone for five years. That said, if you don’t like the idea of marriage in general, then you need to tell her that too. That’s an incompatibility issue that is not good for either side to compromise on.
But overall, if you’re not excited about marrying her, let her go. Stop talking about getting married, stop taking her to look at rings, and let her go to find someone who is excited to do those things with her. That’s what we all deserve and you dragging her along when you supposedly love her is an awful, awful thing to do to someone.
A thief thinks everyone steals.
It’s not like inappropriate age gaps are incredibly common on relationship subreddits or anything.
How would you have felt if she were another guy making these jokes? It would be inappropriate, wouldnt it? A lesbian has the potential to find your g/f attractive and a potential partner, just as another man might; so why treat her any differently than if it were another guy making these jokes?
There is a difference between accepting people for who they are, and letting them hit on your g/f. She was hitting on your g/f – or making some very bad taste jokes.