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Your wife and mil are absolutely awful disgusting people!!!! Why are you putting up with all this????
Why can't him bring up a fantasy?
Yes please leave for your safety. I know that is nude but it sounds necessary. Reach out to a therapist about this traumatic event. I’m sorry you experienced this
I am quite amazed hearing someone play CoC in 2022. Tell him to upgrade himself and play Genshin Impact.
Its a single player game . He doesn't need to be in panic mode always. And can spend more time with you.
It will be a win win
This can be a form of emotional abuse. I dealt with it. I always had to “see a different perspective”. Like….. what was ALWAYS wrong with MINE?! And in 90% of cases, his perspective was the superior one.
He once started a “perspective” argument over whether a slushie was a fountain drink. I wish I could make this shit up.
In THIS case, is this new behavior? Is she stressed about anything? Not that that makes it ok but people who are stressed are generally more iritable. Everything is annoying.
Is it possible she's just done with the relationship and feels it's reached its natural end? That's usually my first sign. When I start getting annoyed with everything my partner says or does and it's not just a passing bad day when everything is on my nerves in general.
I would give it one last VERY serious discussion. If she turns it into the same argument or won't hear you, there's your answer. If there's no change there's your answer.
I’m not disagreeing with that, but that’s usually the charges for cutting bicycle/E-bike breaks it’s a type of “vandalism” Cutting a car break hose is attempted murder. Laws have weird specific claus
It honestly sounds like she's not doing well mentally. Like when I'm really struggling with anxiety this seems exactly like something I'd send. If you want to be with her still I'd check to make sure she's ok.
Holy fuck, is everyone so goddamned restarted that they need Reddit to point out massive, colossal red flags?? Figure it the fuck out
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Wow, those are good. I understand it seems like an easy fix, I obviously am not stating everything in our relationship. Ut after creating a life for six years with someone it's terrifying to think it might all be gone. Along with the fact I don't want to hurt him. It's unfortunately complicated and something I struggle with.
Rude how? Trying to join your conversations? Do you expect her to just sit there mutely while you two talk?
If you want time with your buddy just the two of you, express that to him and make plans for that. If he chooses to have his girlfriend along when you hang out, then your beef is with him, not her.
Did your fil feel like your kid was his grandchild?
If not then don't split the money.
But also how much we talking? Millions each or like 5 k each?
Thank you so much. I accept it, and I will do the right thing. This is what I want to say before I block him(in response go him saying what made him first talk to me after i asked; his response was me being really pretty and my “nice and genuine bio”), “
i thought you couldn’t see my bio at first bc it had what i said about not being ready for hooking up yet and you told me you couldn’t see it so then i sent it to you. i don’t want to talk about it, but it does make me feel bad that we hooked up anyway. after i said i wasnt ready. i didnt even know that condoms are a sign of consideration until recently. i feel more sex positive now obvi, but it did feel bad emotionally. i dont know if it was your plan the whole time to hook up with me regardless of my sentiments, but i don’t even want to dwell on that. you showed me a bunch of new feelings and every time i wanted to feel that way i associated it with you. and like you saw, i did miss you and those feelings. i accepted that what happened, happened, and that i could still feel good. but like i was months ago, i still have my catholic feelings and i think i need to go back to my roots for my safety, morals, and health. and i ask that you respect this separation. and being completely honest, i did find out you have a daughter only a year older than me. how could you do it? you watched her grow up, so you had some idea of where i am mentally and emotionally. and it does make me wonder if youre not the honest type of person i thought for you to want to be with me when that person exists in your life, at such a close age to me. please never talk about me or think about me again.”
It's a construct so people can avoid saying they're in a relationship and not have to admit their feelings for each other. Totally agree.
If she’s cheating to be with you, she’ll cheat on you.
Have you ever explicitly told her exactly what your boundaries are, and how you'll be enforcing them?
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Cannot say definitely ever until a paternity test. We were together pretty much every day during the window. But because of the split after it will be paternity
The amount of things that he needs to care about you for will increase exponentially after you get married (will he help you with your kids or through your pregnancy?, will he care when you’re old and get sick?) You will not fix him and this will only be magnified later.
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Just talk and agree on a set of mutual boundaries. Two broad boundaries that have worked well for my wife and me for 50+ years are: 1. If you would not do it in front of your significant other or without their knowing approval… don't. 2. Do not allow yourself to be in a situation or environment in which the possibility to inadvertently violate #1 has even the slightest opportunity to occur. In this situation. #1 would be violated because you would not have provided approval. #2 would have been violated because being in a very intoxicated state in a private setting with a group of the opposite sex is very risky. So have the conversation now. Discuss boundaries and what the outcome is for a breach. Discuss different scenarios such as this to have a better understanding of how these boundaries apply. Then, commit to live by them on the go forward. It eliminates a lot of misunderstandings and arguments up front. This is not a matter of trust, but rather a way to prevent inadvertent issues or misunderstandings that could lead to strife. You'll be fine. Talk.
Sister refuses to go to rehab again or counselor. She says it won’t help and she doesn’t need it. A few of us have tried to express how badly she needs help and mother even needs some sort of codependency therapy but no one listens. We are told “we don’t understand because we don’t have adult children/ or any children.”
Have an honest discussion, explain where your at, say your committed but this is your timeliness, and explain what your timeline is for marriage, buying a house, as well as children? Then talk about what you would need from her, is she going to be a stay at home mom, does she have a degree or job?
He's about to have a baby with someone else.
If she hasn't gotten an abortion yet, I doubt she will. AND i doubt he will leave his job and cut all contact ESPECIALLY with a baby.
And would you really want to be with a man if he would be willing to abandon his kid.
7 years is not that long in the scheme of things. You're still young. Leave, get therapy.
Build a better life for yourself
Say no. Tell her if she's willing to end the relationship over this then bye ??♀️
It's not it's just him
Are you even enjoying it? If not, why?
If you love each other enough to stay together, maybe set some ground rules. First, having to cancel plans because someone stayed up all night is unacceptable. In fact, if he could be with you more often by adjusting his sleep sched, he should do it. Doesn’t mean there can’t be one night a week he can party all night.
Weird dynamic of aggression followed immediately by servile gestures of atonement. Kinda sad that the best treatment he gives you only comes after he bites your head off.
Maybe find some way for him to manage his frustration (counseling, books, videos) and both of you just start doing sweet things and catering to each other as a general practice, instead of it being used as a bandaid..
It must be your choice of women. Some would consider you a challenge.
Alright thanks for your perspective though, maybe i’ll ask about it.
Hmmm I don’t really agree with confronting John. I think just cutting all contact would probably be the best way to deal with things. The opposite of love is indifference.
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I don’t even bother reading the OP anymore. I always know that’s the default single response.
Never any doubt.
She didn't leave out that she has an awful temper, loses her shit regularly and resents him, putting herself in a victim role as his maid while screaming at him.
I think when you’re talking about a relationship, you have to put your own self first. Especially when you’re talking about such traumatic things like violence, and sounds like he works in all like torturing people. In a weird way it explains things and then that way it’s comforting. In another way. It doesn’t solve the issues. You can be friends with him or friendly if he will let you, but it may not be the safest place to be there if he’s continuously getting more aggressive. And that has nothing to do with not caring for him and being grateful it really has to do with protecting yourself yourself
This then leaves the BF essentially subsidizing her living expenses
Oh, and obviously, don't show up yourself.
Wow he is insecure with himself.
He doesn’t get to tell you what you can and can’t do with your body.
You get yourself that vibrator. And find yourself a man (not boy) who is comfortable enough with himself and a woman’s sexuality.
Besides the age gap, yes die on this hill. They are divorced and should behave as such. No playing happy family. Ffs
I disagree. He should’ve atleast communicated that he wasn’t willing to forgive me in the first place instead of lying and saying he’s willing to talk things over and trying to hurt me back.
The guy I spoke to knows everything and we still communicate. I never seen this guy in person whilst in the relationship, or did anything other than speak to him live for a few days. Did I really deserve what I got?
I was once married to someone who tried to make streaming a job. His mother and I ended up paying for everything. So my advice would be to set an extremely firm boundary: you will emotionally support his streaming as long as he continues searching for an IRL job. He should also probably look into getting help with his CV and interview skills if he still isn't getting a site engineer job for 2 years.
Lol. It's cool I will leave it like that.
I like it when someone can disagree or feel differently without feeling the need to attack someone with a different opinion. Rather refreshing on reddit.
Why would you want to do this long term?
You’re opening up a can of worms she does now want to open herself. If she’s seeking support from you then act in kind but as disgusted as you are, do NOT push her back into it until SHE is good and ready.
Have you thought about retiring in a RV?
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No justification just explanation just told her I’m stopping
How did she introduce you to her family? “This is my friend” or “This is my boyfriend” ?
Yeah the lying makes you think maybe they have 3ways with bff and gf who knows
Well as a certified racist himself… probably alright
Strangers. There's a reason women his own age didn't want to date him. He's a piece of shit. ?
I'm so sorry, sounds like he's not ready for therapy.
You’re 29, please tell me this is fake and you know what to do smh
Thank you. Your comment really helped to clear this doubt in my mind!
I don’t have much life experience or relationship experience either, but I hope you do what’s best for YOU. From the post OP you sound like a great boyfriend trying to communicate your frustrations which is exactly what’s needed in a relationship. This is going to make you a stronger and better person in your life’s future endeavors. Keep your head up king!
She went all mental and nuclear over you saying you don’t know what could have happened 10 years ago but you are definitely not interested?? Is she normally this crazy, and normally asking you damned if you answer damned if you don’t questions? If this is her habit, you might want to rethink this toxic stuff.
I just hope this isn’t another “CO leak caused me to leave notes for myself” twist.
Sick of those.
Press charges on him for sodomy. Nobody should be doing anything to your body without your ongoing and expressed consent. Your boyfriend is abusive. There is nothing wrong with your body at all.
He is either just using the “you're not tight enough” bullshit as an excuse to abuse you OR He has a micropenis and you two together should see a professional about working together for a solution that works for both of you.
Imo your boyfriend sounds like a misogynistic piece of shit that deserves to be single.
hahhahahahahaha and you have the AUDACITY to call her transactional
This should be voted way higher.
The guy is mooching off his gf for food, having her being her bangmaid, and calling HER a gold digger when she diesnt want yo be used and taken arvantage of. And he feels like the victim, acting all butthurt that her gf is ” not doing as much as she used to” for him.
The entitlement and narcissosm is through the roof of a six-storey mansion.
yeah, because this girl is not a friend of his. he barely knows her.
Yeah ofc, I think sooner rather than later is better for sure. It’s late in the UK so maybe tomorrow. Just want it to be anonymous for his own sake really.
No way would I ever tell anyone or bring it up with him after the one time I relay the message. This post is the only time I’ve spoken about it to anyone. Id be so upset if he told anyone if it was me in his shoes. I once had a friend look through an anon account I have for sexual stuff when she was holding my phone (I think to take a picture or something…yeah was weird). That shit hurt lol. Anyway, thanks.
I am scared to bring anything up as we talked about the situation around 5 months ago and he said he didn’t think he was ready for a relationship.
Honestly, what you have with him isn't a FWB. It is dating without the title because he is scared of relationships.
You do literally everything dating people do, all the way down to him being jealous of other guys [more on this point later]. So basically he wants you to act like his girlfriend, sleep with him, don't interact with other guys sexually/be exclusive. Which is, you know, dating.
So I guess get real about that with him. If you are dating in every sense possible what is it about being FWB he holds onto. I worry it is the freedom to run away, or to pursue other people if it came to that, something that he doesn't seem willing to offer you the freedom to do. And as you note you are getting kind of tired of being stuck in a grey area and know it can't last forever.
He once saw me kissing another guy in the club and grabbed the guy in a headlock and they ended up fighting.
You seem to be framing this as a point towards him liking you but I want to put a lot of emphasis on just how absolutely awful and crazy this is. Even if you were actually dating to go and headlock a guy like that is just completely stupid. The fact he is this territorial and you aren't even exclusive, like one of the main points of FWB is freedom to pursue other people, to me just paints him as being unhinged and deeply toxic. Just be careful with that, a boyfriend prone to violence like that is extremely tiring.
Your parents probably feel caught in the middle. Whether you meant to or not, your choice affected not just your sister but them as well. I couldn’t imagine my child expecting me to exclude my other child from family events and bonding. Did you expect them to just host 2 thanksgivings, 2 christmases, 2 birthday parties for themselves, etc.? I can understand why they made the very tough choice to choose neither of you and choose themselves rather than taking sides. It seems they have a lot of love to give and want to provide that for kids in need. You are still their daughter and they still love you of course.
I can’t say whether you were right or wrong for cutting your sister off. Only you know what’s best for yourself. But it seems that just like you decided to choose what’s best for you and be selfish, they are doing the same thing. And I don’t say selfish in a bad way, you need to put yourself first at times.
I hope everything works out for your family, I don’t think any of you are bad people. You’re all just hurt and trying to find a way to be happy.
Knowing that current trends are showing women salaries as a whole increasing and men's salaries deceasing as time passes there is absolutely nothing to say he won't be taking off of your money.
Friend got layed off from a dying industry, his unemployment lasted years. Tried to retrain and it didn't work. Ended up making far less than his wife.
The years of unemployment killed their marriage and in the divorce he got alamony and child support.
Today isn't the 1980s. Courts are trying to assure that no party will be hurt greatly by a divorce. Sex has absolutely nothing to do with it.
Well buddy… Rarely do people nail their first relationship. Its common that the first ones are sloppy, complicated, full of mistakes, etc… but they're learning experiences.
You admitted yourself:
I wasn’t putting in enough effort in the relationship (which I agree with her) She didn’t feel like I loved her. I admit that I was not a really good boyfriend even though I tried to be. When we argued, I would just stay mad and not try to fix the issue. I couldn’t really give her my all.
And when you go through that, sometimes its too late to go back. The texture of things have changed.
You've self-reflected and recognized your mistakes, so for your next relationship you know what to avoid doing.
The first ones are usually learning experience.
And I agree with both of your POVs here:
I told her I don’t think it’s a good idea for us to be friends because I still have feelings for her. She agrees that it’s best for us to not be friends in order for me to move on from her.
Move on completely from each-other. Go work on yourselves and find new people to date. New experiences are exciting and can bring you more enjoyment than you previously had because you achieved a better relationship.
If this was her way of moving on (posting the guy)… So be it.
Everyone deals with post-break ups different. The reasoning behind it wont offer you much of value. And the more you pay attention to it, the longer you will keep yourself in this spot. If you need to remove her from your socials, do it.
The value you need is moving on…
Start a new journey.
Honestly? According to Carolyn Hax, advice columnist for the Washington Post, ““Wow” is for ugly things” so if someone made such an ignorant and cruel comment to me I'd just reply, “Wow.” And let them stew in how ugly and inappropriate they were.
Tell her and block him
Look, you're so young, it's a shame you're going through this. I mean, if you're already feeling drained with a relationship that should fulfill you and make you happy, well…
On the other hand, I'm always a bit afraid to find posts like this from my SO. When I was going through a depressive episode I tended to complain about anything too, and constantly absorbing all the attention.
Maybe she has some deeper issues she needs to work on? Clearly sounds like she needs a therapist if there's so much negativity around her.
I don't have answers, really. But I hope ehatever you decide to do (break up, talk, try to make changes) makes you happy in the end. I insist, 18 is an age for growing and having fun and being happily in love
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My gf of 3 yrs, gave her # out to another guy directly in front of me. He asked for her # and I told him that she had a bf, he left. Later, when I was walking out of the restroom, I saw her talking to him and he had his phone out. This is out of character for her. A few days later she lied about going out with friends, stayed the night with this guy, and went to work directly from his place. Obviously, it was planned since she had a change of clothes. However, she had told me that she drank too much and stayed with a friend but somehow she had the extra clothes with her. I saw the texts between them the next night and it was clear they hooked up. He had sent her a message saying she should have called into work so they could have stayed in bed all day. I broke up with her and made her move out.
Her sister called me telling me my ex was saying frightening things (I thought she was only saying this to her sister to try to make me feel bad and force me back into her life) and she ended up in the hospital a few days later. Her mom and sister are begging me to come see her but I’ve refused so far. She is being looked at for histrionic personality disorder. I don’t know anything about this but I cannot see how this would excuse cheating, especially since she has never done anything like this before. The doctor did call me and ask me to visit since my ex said I was her bf but i told the doc what really happened and she should call the other guy instead. The doctor was confused because my ex hadn't mentioned him at all.
I need advice on if I should go to the hospital or not. I don’t think there is a chance for us but she keeps asking for me and she has tried to get them to call me since I blocked her. I don’t want to make her feel like I’m leading her on by going to the hospital and I don’t know how I’ll react either. I don’t know if going there is the best for her or me. I really don’t know what the best choice is for this situation.
UPDATE:
I tried to post this last week but it was instantly deleted and Reddit didn't provide much info why until I checked today. My ex is out of the hospital and is at home…I did not go check on her. I received a lot of angry messages from people she knows regarding this. Now, should I visit her at her mom's house and check in out her? Maybe only stay for a short while? Her sister begs me everyday to go see her…my ex still refers to me as her bf, according to her sister.
We both are stubborn and I end up giving in a lot, but she will lose this one
Send him links to penis sheaths, preferably the fantasy kind, I'm talking like orc d*** and tell him it'll help him be bigger for you ?
You choose to stay with a cheater, then sorry, but no one here can help you. The minute you’ve forgiven him, it’s giving him the green light to do it again.
No. He’s asking you to go through a bunch of trouble and jump through hoops over something that means NOTHING!! He’s a control freak. It’s your ex-husband’s NAME, which was also your name and is your child’s name … not your husband’s favorite shirt you’re wearing every day, for pete’s sake. If you intend to take his last name (which I assume you do), why make you go to the trouble of changing it twice? Control. I’d tell him, in no uncertain terms – “if my last name prevents you from marrying me, feel free to move on.” If he’s giving you ultimatums over something this petty BEFORE you’re even married, I shudder to think what kind of ultimatums you’ll be getting once you tie the knot!!
I was happy alone before we started dating… and I do love her I do care for her I do so much for her and making her happy makes me happy. I just don’t feel like it’s the same way when it comes tonher