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Date: October 11, 2022
Are you sure he's not with you just for the green card?
Ok thanks and I think she wouldn’t have said anything on the latter is more likely lol she is usually very quiet and passive to me so I was confused by this
Is it possible she's tired of constantly having to justify her every move and action to you? You sound incredibly controlling. You're not the victim here.
Well I mean, OP said it herself… They never saw each other as siblings even when they were young.
Again I couldn’t really say. I’ll ask but we don’t have blue. It’s white, yellow, purple, brown, black, and then a red one.
Man, there are people in life who are forever victims. With all your responses, I’m starting to think you enjoy the drama. Speaking of lack of empathy, yeah mine just evaporated for you.
Do NOT have a baby with this BOY! HE does not need support, YOU do! When he is squeezing a fully grown human out of him, he can decide who's in the room. Until then? It's your choice and only yours.
I would have a serious discussion with him about the entire relationship because this shows he will try and make things “fair” between your family and his, even though that isn't what is going on.
Birth is a painful, complex and even sometimes dangerous medical procedure. It isn't a stage show where for every 1 of your relatives that get a ticket, so do 1 of his. You need people there who will support you, who will advocate for you, because you are the one going through the medical procedure.
I would also worry going forward about him stomping other boundaries. Don't want nana kissing bub on the face? He'll say “my baby too, my nana does that with all the babies” and other things like that. He may not. But a serious conversation is warranted about exactly where your boundaries for baby are and if he says he's willing to abide by them or not.
Um It depends on where you live!. My wife and I are not joint on either of our properties. I own one- as does she. Both bought in the marriage.
They don't stop until they kill you or you leave for good. I know she's convinced you that you can't survive without her and you'll never find someone better. Please hear what I'm saying, I was in your situation years ago, it is all lies. You are worth love and there is someone out there that will give it to you. Love NEVER hurts you. Leaving can take several tries because before they ever put their hands on you they destroy you mentally. Talk to your family and explain you need help, then you have to accept the help. Find a therapist that specializes in domestic abuse, you're going to need it. You can leave and you will be happy again. You deserve happiness.
Two consenting adults making a mutual decision to be together – wow so inappropriate
Fuck outta here
I think you need the other side of this. Talk to your neighbors alone without your bf..
I don't think you have to do anything or proceed in any way. She had stuff she needed to vent, you let her. You might have to do this again. Letting her vent without outwardly resenting her for it is what she needs from you and all you can do for her
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Pay for your own room?
OP should pay for her own room, he's covering everything already and he doesn't need the exposure, you do. So not to complicate things, stop being cheap and asking for spare rooms, ask what hotel he will be staying at so you can book your room asap and thank him for the rest. It's simple..
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From search results. Older versions of safari also highlighted searches in purple. I'm old but I'm not computer illiterate. But I understand what you're saying. Apple is great at privacy. I, unfortunately, have always had to use PCs for work, and android is easier to use. If you know what i mean.
Stop posting fake shit on here. you're taking away from people who actually need help with their problems
Yeah, ooooooookay. Nude sarcasm on that “okay”, if you didn’t catch that.
So you’re telling me your husband acknowledges that he can’t emotionally connect with you, and then encourages you to seek that elsewhere instead of WITHIN YOUR MARRIAGE?
You’re telling me your husband is absolutely thrilled with the fact that you’ve found someone who can connect with you on that level?
Girl. Cut the bull shit.
Your husband is UNCOMFORTABLE. He doesn’t like you being so close, emotionally OR physically- to someone who is a straight male who may be interested in you.
I know you are going to ignore my comment and instead go with everyone’s “I don’t see what’s wrong with that!” Way, but let me tell you right now. You’re digging a grave for your marriage, and you should absolutely be cutting contact with this other man entirely. Good luck! Though you won’t take my advice 😉
She was 20 when they married, he was 27. How old do you think she was when they started dating? He's just trashing her up and down this post.
I understand why he wouldn't have divulged this to the friend group, but you're his gf there should be a different level of trust there. I find it very weird he didn't at least tell YOU, only for the apparent purpose that he didn't want her to be ostracized by your entire friend group. Sounds like he was either trying to protect Emma for whatever reason, or he didn't trust you with the information for some reason…
And understood about the brother if they had a complicated and perhaps tense relationship in the past (especially if it was at the time), I don't necessarily disagree with his decision in that regard.
He did
I hear you, however, I did openly ask many times if it was anything that I did (intentional or not) and she insisted it was nothing I did and nothing to do with me at all. It’s purely her own thoughts/feelings from everyday things she sees, but she still can’t really pinpoint anything. That’s why I think it’s likely to do with subconscious expectations from her family and seeing how they treat her brother.
Dude. Yes. So mention that. “When you did this after you left, it made me very suspicious. I would like to talk about why you used your real number and why you thought you couldn't talk to me about this”
Marriage is weird. You're with someone you love DEARLY but sometimes you wanna be stupid, which is ok has she not used her real number and has been shady about it. That's the issue.
Good luck with the conversation. Don't accuse, use statements like “when you do this, then I feel ____” cause that's the truth.
Sheezh!!! Talk about comparing apples and oranges. Read the comments on this thread. ED is a private thing, and it’s HIS choice to share his treatment with you… nor not. It’s not your right to know. Yes, you are overthinking this and making a mountain out of a molehill. You should be happy that he chose to go to the doctor.
Honestly, it was a him problem at the start but now it’s a you problem. Grow a vagina and dump his ass
This is beyond immature. This is clearly not something an immature person would do. This is clearly what someone not mentally ok would do.
He‘s not interested in you as a person, that’s got nothing to do with bad timing. Let it go.
What types of arguments are you having? Like what is the topic of discussion? Disagreements about where you want to go on vacation or big things like potentially moving / changing careers / having kids?
Same. I didn’t travel abroad in college because my then-bf didn’t want me to. I’m 50 and FINALLY planning a trip. I’m going with my teenage son, which will be fun but not quite the same as going for a month at age 19 or 20.
Also, that ex turned out to be a real jerk. My awesome husband is staying home with our adult son with disabilities and encouraging me to take the kid and travel now that our son is old enough. My husband and I haven’t traveled together because our oldest has severe disabilities. Go, go, go when you can, because you never know what life will throw your way.
I would probably have the same reactions as you, I like to think I’m not jealous and stuff but imagining your partner with others is rough. I remind myself in these moments, I am the one they are with now. That my partner prioritizes us, and their consensual sexual history has nothing to do with our future.
I'm not sure if I would if I was home alone. I went out with a guy who told me he was single. Turns out not so much.
She found out and instead of dealing with him came for me. She was texting and calling me incessantly. Stalking me on social media and messaging anyone we could have possibly have a mutual connection with. Telling them all I was a homewrecker and trying to hurt her newborn baby. She even told me she came to my work and would be back to physically fight me.
I made it clear the first time she reached out that I didn't know he had a girlfriend/wife and newborn and that I was also very much no longer interested in any contact with him. It didn't matter. She saw me as the target and the problem.
Sadly I had a friend in an adjacent situation and the jilted partner threatened her.
Lots of women mistake the other woman for the enemy instead of their cheating partner, even when the other woman was not in any way at fault.
THIS IS BORDERLINE HARASSMENT. Stop suggesting stuff like this.
you're right. I thought it was something I could work on (trusting them to be just friends), and thought that if I was still uncomfortable, he would take the initiative to break off the friendship. but that's just my unrealistic expectations that I'm working on trying to not have.
He's brought up befriending her and I've given it a thought since me and her have the same style, and in any other instances, we'd probably be really good friends. but if we were all in the same room, all I'd think about is them having their rendezvous together. and also my mind went to “he just wants his gf and side chick to be buddy buddy”. it's unfortunate that my mind thinks like that.
I've been postponing breaking up, cause I'm scared I'd regret it. but this isn't a way to have a relationship. thank you for your advice, I appreciate it.
She did mention in the comments that she brought it up briefly and her family has too and each time he just blew off the conversation. He KNEW he never wanted to get married but decided to keep it to himself
While these I guess are real questions that absolutely do not play out in his favor the most telling thing here is that these are not what your main concern should be.
Maybe you should seek someone to talk this through with. A counselor would probably be really helpful.
I mean yeah he's going to get sick of you most likely. It might be because you get older, it might be because he makes the conquest, it might be when he's not able to manipulate you anymore, it might be when you pop out his children, it might be when the next child hits on him, it might be when your daughter brings home friends, you don't know because you don't know this man at all.
He slept with a child just before he met you. So not only was he attracted to that but he was willing to do damage to them for his sexual gratification. And I'm not being hyperbolic… as an adult he should know that relationship was extremely inappropriate and damaging for an 18 year old.
Also have you looked at a fresh 18 year old lately? Interacted with one? If you have a friend with a highschool age sibling ask to take them and a couple of their friends to lunch. Sit in the presence of a child and realize your fiance's cock was nude while you I'm sure will be well aware that you are sharing a table with children.
Have you tried talking with her about it? Therapy?
He moved a woman and her child (another man's kid) into his home. If it was his bio child, it wouldn't be stepdad. But he is housing a single mom who is his “best friend” and her child as a single man. Sorry you do not like my answer
Don’t communicate with her in any way whatsoever. Take screenshots and document any contact attempts and let the police know too, I’m not sure how it works but she might be doing something wrong as she got the order and now baits him and might be like phishing
My wife of 30+ years is a blond, but I think I might be into brunettes. Do you think I should ask her if I can kiss one to find out?
If you think my question is asinine, the re-read yours, it is the same thing.
Do you need to kiss a guy to know you’re attracted to them or not?
I think you did the right thing. I’m extremely close to my parents and my siblings and see them several times a month. Your boyfriend was likely trying to keep you isolated and control you.
But for the future bare in mind not everyone has a great relationship with their family. My ex wasn’t close to his family. Which I didn’t really get because they seemed okay to me and I love family time. But if someone “dreads” seeing their mother, don’t make them go. I’ve tried doing this and it causes more harm than good.
This is very true. I feel there was a lot that wasn’t communicated on my part. I am thankful that she is so understanding and I respect that she either doesn’t want that or isn’t up for it at the moment. Either way it’s out there and she knows and he’s it probably doesn’t make her feel good knowing that it’s something I want but that can’t be helped anymore. But thank you for your comment.
iT DOESN'T MATTER WHY, IT'S NOT YOUR JOB TO WONDER WHY!
You don't have the necessary diploma's to go anywhere near this billboard of red flags. you are no where near stable enough to be anything good for this person and vice versa. You read as someone who thinks they can save her is they just love her enough and the reality is you will never be good enough for her, never love her enough, never be devoted enough because you can't fix her, she has to. just like no one can fix you and your damage, only you.
You can't save someone from drowning if you yourself are getting pulled under too. You need to put on your own life jacket and get yourself better and even then, all that nude work risks going out the window the second you extend a hand to someone else who is drowning. They grab on and drag you under in an effort to save themselves.
You are horrifyingly ill equipped to deal with this, so run far and run fast towards your own healing.
She not he. There is no he in the story.