The specific trigger for her ultimatum was inane. The ultimatum was expressed immaturely, in a way that directly hurts your family, and she gave you all of 2 mins before she was ready to go.
Bitch, it’s hard for you? What about for that poor teenage girl?! You were doing right by your sister, IMO family comes first. She’s not even your wife yet and already making you prioritize her over your immediate family. While that family is having a literal mental health crisis.
My background is in EMS where a lot of our patients are mentally altered, this frankly sounds like a medical emergency. And she is ready to leave you after a couple months of this. That’s who you’re going to make things work with, for a LIFE TIME?! What if you develop mental health problems? This shit is often genetic dude. Will she bail on you after 2 months, too?
You’re about to marry someone who deals with stressful, life or death situations like an adolescent. This could end with your little sister dead, and your fiancé made it about her in less time than it takes to find a decent provider/therapist.
but I have asked him plenty of times if he does and told him that I won’t get upset if he does anything bad as long as he is honest to me.
So if he was honest with you, and told you he was watching it on the days he didn't see you, you'd have been completely fine with that?
He wants more than FWB and was indirectly trying to let you know. He’s interested in you but more than he thinks you are in him.
The specific trigger for her ultimatum was inane. The ultimatum was expressed immaturely, in a way that directly hurts your family, and she gave you all of 2 mins before she was ready to go.
Bitch, it’s hard for you? What about for that poor teenage girl?! You were doing right by your sister, IMO family comes first. She’s not even your wife yet and already making you prioritize her over your immediate family. While that family is having a literal mental health crisis.
My background is in EMS where a lot of our patients are mentally altered, this frankly sounds like a medical emergency. And she is ready to leave you after a couple months of this. That’s who you’re going to make things work with, for a LIFE TIME?! What if you develop mental health problems? This shit is often genetic dude. Will she bail on you after 2 months, too?
You’re about to marry someone who deals with stressful, life or death situations like an adolescent. This could end with your little sister dead, and your fiancé made it about her in less time than it takes to find a decent provider/therapist.
She's close with her mother, not her father very much. Her parents don't have good relationships currently with her siblings but they tolerate them.