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Have you brought it up to her yet? Perhaps you can suggest that she takes a girls trip or a solo pampering trip that same weekend?
Chores would definitely be helpful. Cooking/getting food. Attending and really listening and getting informed at appointments and such will be a great way to show support.
That said, you said you were not dating until she got pregnant and so you decided to for the future kid. The honest truth is, this very very often ends in disaster that is worse on the kid. Now, if through this you found some great relationship that you would want to be in even if there was no pregnancy, great! Very happy for you and the love this helped you find. But otherwise, if it’s truly just for the kid and you would not want to be together without one, it is likely to end up in either a breakup the child also will have to witness and experience, or resent the kid will absolutely pick up on.
Two separate but happy, healthy coparents will be healthier for a kid than two parents that decided to be in a relationship just because there is a kid involved. Most children will deal much better with growing up with two parents that they have never seen be in a relationship but coparent in a healthy way than growing up seeing signs up resentment or going through mom and dad breaking up.
Nope. He needs to learn some self soothing strategies like square breathing or something. And you need to prioritize your sleep.
You sure he was open to this arrangement and didnt get forced into it?
It really doesn't. Call an attorney tomorrow if you don't believe me. And what she saw was emotional, horrible, and a conversation that shouldn't have happened, but it wasn't infidelity.
Best advice I've ever heard about this is to take all the time you spend on household tasks and work add them and see if you balance. Like dishes take 20 mins, laundry takes actively like 20 mins but overall like ~2 hours so count that how you want. Add on how long you spend at work and then try to get the most equitable outcome.
But having him do 80% would not be out of bounds. Especially if you continue to just be tidy (putting socks in the hamper and plates/ect in the dishwasher). A partnership is just that, two people that support each other and it won't always be 50/50. What you want is both people putting in 100/100. If you have more time do the thing if they have more time they do the thing.
Someone who can watch you struggle and do nothing is a bad partner