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Barney, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 10, 2022
Barney, 19 y.o.
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Don’t worry, he’ll do it for you
If u read my other comments i said that I had PTSD that's pretty much the reason i have concerns about it. Thank you for putting me at ease. I'll keep that in mind. I'll also be going with her but still I'll put her safety first
The mature way to handle this is to have a conversation and say “i really like you but i need to take this slower.” Of course he couldn’t believe that you liked him. You were constantly rejecting him and playing games isn’t a healthy way to start a relationship
Were you together when he did this? Or had you broken up with him by rejecting him? If it’s the former, why would you want to date someone who handles conflict by cheating on you?
Again, you change relationship dynamics through communication and empathy, not through mind games that make someone believe you don’t give a shit about them. Your feelings are one thing, but you actively fucked with his in order to protect your own rather than just… talking to him.
Again, did he actually dump her or just promise to dump her by getting back together with you? There’s a difference bc one is him having a “back up”
You don’t trust him, he probably doesn’t trust you given how you fucked with his head rather than just talking to him
The point here: Neither of you is mature enough to be in any relationship and getting back together will only end with both of you miserable bc of this immaturity. For fuck’s sake though leave this other girl out of it and don’t follow her on instagram or whatever. Maybe work on your own issues that led to you playing mind games rather than having a simple conversation
You are 24 years old!
Youve known each other for less than a year.
You moved in together way too soon (out of situation)
Her daughter is just getting to know you. (is her dad around?)
You have not processed your loss completely.
You are not financially steady.
And you 2 are already discussing having another baby? What is the damn rush?
This has so many red flags.
No decision needs to be made now, unless you are 100% a no and she is 100% a yes.
You need to go to therapy and deal with your loss and fear. It will help you figure out and deal with many things.