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Date: December 11, 2022
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My husband and I playfully tell each other when we did the deed sometimes and than laugh about it together. Other times we joke about keeping the hands over the blankets. We are very much relaxed with each other. I only ever did it once while he was watching. I usually do it for me alone when he is not around. I wouldn't do it next to him sleeping.
The question here is if it bothers him and then why? Did you ask him.
And go and get yourself a blanket.
It doesn’t sound like he respects your feelings or boundaries. That’s definitely not the type of relationship you need when you’re trying to heal from some serious trauma. There are such good people out there, don’t settle for this.
Please don’t do it my guy
This can’t be real.
What man would deal with ED for “several years” without consulting a doctor and coming up with a solution?
maybe try poly if she does love you??? but women as well
Maybe if people didn't weaponize the metoo culture ruining peoples lives over he said she said, then people wouldn't call you toxic.
Wow, just wow. You're just 10lbs of disgusting in a 5lb bag.
To be quite honest, I wouldn’t be surprised if 95% of relationships are still alive because the other just hasn’t been caught, never was caught or they both never been caught.
Who the hell sends videos of them jacking off….?!?!
Does this seem out of character for him…
The real question you need to ask yourself, is he going to be willing, thorough and honest with trying to regain your trust…. Trust is earned in drops and lost in buckets.
It will take at least 2 years for this not to be a weekly thought in your head.
Does the dude even do sweet things like brush your hair….
A partner who liked you would not berate you and judge you about your past. Is this how you treat people you like?
i don’t. especially when i’ve had a breakdown that lasted 2 hours and made it hot to breathe for the entire time.
Props to you for not beating his ass yet, then again, he hasn’t gotten physical with her (I hope) so speaking to your sister seems to be a better option, being an ear and support will remind her she’s got people around her, ideally this will empower your sister to finally decide to get a divorce and never go back to him again. Easier said than done though. Good luck to your sister Op!
That would make such a great episode
The hour-long commute would be a big, No, for me, Op.
Also, petrol is pretty expensive so, yeah~~~that is a big concern.
What concerns me more is
*doesn’t want to move in and “have to contribute towards” my home*.
What does this mean, Op? Paying 50/50 for utilities, home upkeep, home insurance, property taxes, groceries, etc.,?
If he stays with you 3 times a week, will he not be contributing to the household at all? Like, nothing, zero, zip, zilch?
What happened to him getting a job nearer to your house? We just pretend he didn't say it?
That just throughout the relationships I’ve been in I’ve been cheated on, Yes I was young and still am but I just hate the thought of being cheated on and I don’t want this girl to cheat on me. I love her yk
He needs to get all the evidence and go to the police. I'd also unblock their numbers on their phones and try to record any recent threats or Harrassment at his work.
Threats
Blackmail
Harrassment
I'd even look into sexual coercion or assault if they purposely plied him with alcohol in order to take advantage and video taped without his knowledge.
I would also think about changing jobs and moving. Also, changing phone numbers after you go to the police and get things settled.
Your husband needs to find a therapist because this sounds like such a traumatic situation.
I'm sorry WHAT
This! Most of the fun in life comes from trying new things and falling in love with them. A friend of mine recently introduced me to the music he listens to, which I had never heard before. Some of it I didn't really care for, but some of it has become my go-to get up and feel good about life music.
You know how we reacted to that? He was thrilled that I loved what he loved, and that we had more in common than before.
Your boyfriend sounds selfish, and insecure.
You're wasting your fucking time
Your wife has such serious medical issues that she can’t work. I’m guessing she’s also in pain?
My thought is that your wife is dealing with depression related to her illness. She’s not feeling anything good from you because she’s not feeling anything good at all. Maybe she should talk to her doctor? If pain is involved, that alone can cause personality changes.
It might be a good idea for her to talk to a therapist. That she’s unhappy with you but can’t point to a single specific thing that you’ve done wrong makes me think this might not really be about you or your relationship.
The opinion isn’t irrational based on the text, but it’s irrational to think you know everything about this relationship based on this text. Imagine if this is how things worked in real life. Let’s say an acquaintance of yours told had the exact same OP is describing. Would you really respond with “I don’t think you guys are ready for marriage or a baby”? No obviously not, you’d tell them to work things out and communicate, something along those lines. It’d be absurd to suggest to a serious couple in real life that they should end the relationship based on one problem you’ve heard about
Start chipping in a bit for rent, put you both at ease.
She's known by everyone for being honest to a fault and genuine; it's her most endearing quality.
What killed my marriage wasn't the cheating (it happened but at the time i had zero proof other than some side eyeing behaviour)
It was watching the one thing i had 100% faith in my wife for, be blown into orbit in front of my eyes.
We had many, many issues over the years but honesty around fidelity (and being 100% faithful) was the one constant i never had to worry about, other than what i thought were bits of insecurity.
Then in the blink of an eye, i saw the same face i'd seen over the years lie to me without flinching over a guy, in that moment that 100% trust went bang
It meant my thought that i would always know if she did lie to me as her face would give it away was nonsense, then those bits of insecurity i mentioned came charging in on wild horses
Every single event where i'd trusted her words became open to being untrue.
That was not something I could deal with and remain married, although cheating is an insta divorce for me, she killed the marriage the moment i learned the person in front of me, wasn't the person i thought they were.
Chance of trusting them ever again, zero!
Sounds like you’re me in this respect, forget the cheating, it's the ability to lie and look you in the eye that just made staying impossible.
Short answer is no because you should unwife her
it is litterally BDSM. a BDSM he did not warn about and that you didn't consent on base of relevant informations. you may consider it as sexual assault.
go on therapy before the PTS kick on.
he may cry on you trust because he broke it definitively.
You are overthinking this.
Honest communication is key ' so if you want your BF to speak to you in Korean then tell him.
Be honest with how you feel and he should be honest with how he feels.
It doesn't sound like you like him simy because he is Korean, you just like the sound of his language. That is totally reasonable.
Having a preference is not fetishising. So just enjoy the relationship you have, be open and honest….And don't complicate things.
Yes, it's time to be done. Controlling behavior tends to escalate, eventually you'll cry uncle. Just save yourself the stress and do it now.
why is it off-putting?
It's common advice to never buy a house with a bf/gf. I imagine the risks involved are an unspoken objection.
Most women are sexually egotistical. Percieved Sexual rejection leads to a narcissistic reaction. I do think some of it is biological mixed with cultural expectations about men and women.
You might have more success posting this to r/BDSMAdvice.
I’d say you need to stop playing/step out of your dynamic until you get this aftercare situation sorted. It sounds like this is really doing you some harm, and that’s antithetical to what kink is about. I’d encourage you to also think about your own limits—if a certain act or type of play is leaving you feeling this badly, this consistently, then it’s okay to say you don’t want to engage. A good Dom will respect that (though I would also argue that a good Dom would help you explore why it makes you feel the way you do to try and help you form more positive associations, if it was a limit that you wanted to work through).
As to actual solutions, I’m going to make the good faith assumption that your partner is not a shitbag, and is simply young, oblivious, and (it seems) has different aftercare needs—some people do need space and to switch gears completely to decompress. I’d suggest coming up with a protocol—he always does x, y, and z things immediately following a scene or session, then goes and does his thing.
To help this along, maybe part of your pre-scene prep could be gathering your aftercare items so they’re ready to go. Maybe you cue up an episode of your favorite comfort show on your laptop and throw your bathrobe in the dryer for ten minutes. Have a cold drink on the night stand and a couple pieces of really good chocolate or another favorite sweet ready to go. Depending on what kind of play you’re doing, keeping a set of baby wipes handy, some body lotion, arnica gel and/or antibiotic ointment nearby is a good idea too. If you have a favorite stuffed animal or pillow, make sure it’s close by, etc.
After you play, maybe your aftercare protocol goes something like this: he cleans you up and you both share your favorite part of the session, or he gives you whatever type of praise you enjoy…if your dynamic is bedroom-only, this might be the time you transition back to your everyday headspace, and having him praise you and reassure you could help with that. This also would be the time for any applications of lotion or first aid (my Dom does this after our impact play sessions) and cuddles. Then, your partner could go get you your now-toasty robe, wrap you up with your stuffie or pillow, give you your chocolate and drink, press play on the episode you’ve got ready to go, and leave you all cozy in the bedroom while he goes and does his thing to decompress and transition back to regular life. Maybe you agree that he needs to check in on you periodically afterwards (timer or alarm on his phone or watch to help him remember?) and make a point to drop another compliment or “good girl,” whatever does it for you personally. I would like to stress that this is part of the deal when you Dom or top in a BDSM context—you’re responsible for your sub’s well-being, and that includes helping them regulate the physiological and neurological processes that inevitably occur when you engage in this type of play.
Wow I wrote a novel, sorry!
Big takeaway: hit the pause button until you figure out how you can both meet each other’s needs re: aftercare. If after all that, he still doesn’t make an effort to adjust, then it might be time to think about your long-term compatibility, especially if kink is integral to your intimate life. As a fellow subby lady, I’m here for ya if you ever want/need to chat ?
Good luck!
It's in the post?