Honey, you’re never going to talk him into suddenly wanting to move in with you and be attached at your hip. It’s not an “argument” that you can “win” by crowdsourcing opinions on the internet. This is about his feelings- he doesn’t want to live! with you. You’re not compatible; move on.
Let me reframe his question for you. “Do you care more about this dress, or my control over you?” You’re too young for this. It’s not worth it, and the controlling behavior will only escalate.
I’ll be downvoted but that’ll kinda prove my point. Just remember that Reddit is heavily left leaning. I say this as someone who is also fairly centre
Have you tried cross-correlating with the location of the Williams Reed at the time your son was conceived?
Honey, you’re never going to talk him into suddenly wanting to move in with you and be attached at your hip. It’s not an “argument” that you can “win” by crowdsourcing opinions on the internet. This is about his feelings- he doesn’t want to live! with you. You’re not compatible; move on.
Let me reframe his question for you. “Do you care more about this dress, or my control over you?” You’re too young for this. It’s not worth it, and the controlling behavior will only escalate.
She came back because of the vacation, do yourself a favor, dump her, and focus on yourself.