I would suggest not getting back together with her, but the age gap between her and her new boyfriend is very concerning- if you feel inclined, do you know her parents or a close friend of hers you can talk to about it? It might be good to wash your hands clean of it, but it also sounds very manipulative on his part. You can try to help without getting too involved
He didn’t say what was on his mind because what was on his mind was physically hurting you
I would suggest not getting back together with her, but the age gap between her and her new boyfriend is very concerning- if you feel inclined, do you know her parents or a close friend of hers you can talk to about it? It might be good to wash your hands clean of it, but it also sounds very manipulative on his part. You can try to help without getting too involved