That’s a manipulation tactic to divert your frustration towards yourself. He’s trying to make you feel bad so you’re too busy doing that instead of being upset with him
What if he woke you up and asked you first? He didn't, he raped you, like full on raped you when you weren't in a position to give consent, which is the definition of rape. Why are you so desperate to get him to agree that he raped you, when he's obviously gonna deny it to the grave? He raped you. Stop trying to ignore the fact.
Is this 2016?
That’s a manipulation tactic to divert your frustration towards yourself. He’s trying to make you feel bad so you’re too busy doing that instead of being upset with him
What if he said sorry
What if he woke you up and asked you first? He didn't, he raped you, like full on raped you when you weren't in a position to give consent, which is the definition of rape. Why are you so desperate to get him to agree that he raped you, when he's obviously gonna deny it to the grave? He raped you. Stop trying to ignore the fact.