He needs a wake up call. Maybe go stay at a hotel for a week, leave him everything and don't answer his calls etc. See if his attitude changes and if he's willing to contribute more. If he won't then you have to choose between accepting it or leaving.
Aside from honesty being the right thing, telling him is probably the path with the least potential fallout. If you don't tell him, he might find out anyway, as 3 other people were involved, any one of whom could throw you under the bus or decide to confess themselves. And then your friendship would be even more screwed, for you participating and for not telling him. He might hate you either way, but keeping secrets like that is so much worse.
Perfume, gift card, book? , maybe u can buy whatever she needs
He needs a wake up call. Maybe go stay at a hotel for a week, leave him everything and don't answer his calls etc. See if his attitude changes and if he's willing to contribute more. If he won't then you have to choose between accepting it or leaving.
Aside from honesty being the right thing, telling him is probably the path with the least potential fallout. If you don't tell him, he might find out anyway, as 3 other people were involved, any one of whom could throw you under the bus or decide to confess themselves. And then your friendship would be even more screwed, for you participating and for not telling him. He might hate you either way, but keeping secrets like that is so much worse.
Please let her shine un anything she bloody hell wants -she's earned it.