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You're just going to have to let him go. It's a lose/lose for you. Fight him on it and you're the instigator.
If you're not totally cool with it, then you're not trusting enough.
If you break up with him then you're petty and jealous.
If you pretend to be cool with it, then you're denying your own feelings and creating internal pain.
The only way out is the spiritual way. Total acceptance. You cannot control him or how the trip goes. Whatever happens, happens. Let it go completely. Tell him you're not comfortable with it. Tell him that it will hurt you. Tell him that you don't need to justify your feelings. Leave it at that. The balls in his court.
And remember, anyone can cheat, leave the relationship, ghost you, or fall out of love at any time for any reason.
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I can understand why he would think it's cheating. Making out with another girl would be considered cheating. Just because it's a girl doesn't mean it's not cheating. I think the same principle applies here in your boyfriend'd mind. Sounds to my like this is more of a boundary, but unfortunately this wasn't established before the event, as it's an uncommon boundary. My recommendation is that instead of assuming he is insecure, jealous or controlling, you just see it from his perspective.
Let him know it wasn't something you thought he would be uncomfortable with because it was not sexual and girls changing in front of girls is for the most part quite common. Then, while on topic, use this time to have a conversation on what both your boundaries are. If you feel his boundaries are too extreme, constricting or simply not agreeable, you negotiate a middle ground or come to the realization that you two are incompatible.
If after a day or so he isn't talking to you, then you can a) decide if you still want to be with him or b) assume that you are single. He needs to learn to communicate instead of going radio silent. Regardless, I don't think you did anything wrong, and so you shouldn't feel bad or guilty about anything.
As for all the people trying to call your boyfriend all kinds of name, my recommendation is to not listen to them. If you plan on having healthy relationships, you will come to learn that being able to empathize with your partner helps more than attacking them. It's better to hear them out, so you can understand their perspective rather than just attacking them. This doesn't rule out that your boyfriend may in fact be insecure, jealous, controlling, etc. It may be that he is all of the above, but you should come to that conclusion after you've had a talk and tried to understand his perspective. If once you've done you've concluded that the above words all apply to him, then you can move on. Communication and empathy, are a must in all healthy relationships. Jumping to conclusions and attacking are traits of a toxic relationship.
Speaking of traits of a toxic relationship, going silent and practically ghosting is one of them. This is something you need to have a talk to him about (assuming you are still together). It isn't acceptable behaviour, and therefore you shouldn't accept it. Make that very clear.
Then why wont he commit???
You absolutely need to collect every bit of evidence that you can and report him to the school. His conduct with a student that's under him (no pun intended) is absolutely inappropriate. There is NO way you can have a functional and healthy relationship with someone who behaves the way that he does. His behavior doesn't support it, like, at all.
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I have no idea what scale they use but my BF is just pissed that a guy who scored no points got athlete of the year , he’s fine with the soccer and track star winning.
He’s probably bisexual. My husband is but I knew that before I married him and I’m also bisexual. If you can forgive him for keeping it secret and you can accept him for who he is then you just need to talk this out. Make sure he isn’t using you to hide being gay but I bet he genuinely loves you. However, if you can’t ever accept him for being bisexual then you probably shouldn’t stay together. If that’s the case then you should let him know that even if you reject him because of an incompatibility, it’s ok to be himself. He just needs to be open and honest with his partner about it from the get go.
Sadly, you cannot control this obnoxious person's behaviour. Prepare yourself to say, “Yes, we are engaged, we're very happy, thank you. I don't know why Bob is so invested in talking to people about it, it's odd.”
Tell your boss before Bob gets the chance. And let your boss know that you do not want anything sent to the whole firm. Or tell management yourself – at least talk to their admin who I bet could help you out.
If your fiance didn't tell Bob then who did? Either your fiance did, or your 'good friend' at work did.
Found the moral police
It’s been three months since we broke up
Pregnant with someone else's child? You're 19 and this is a real mess. I know you don't want to break up but I would totally walk away from this if I were you. For the rest of your life is a really, really long time.
Your “open” arrangement seems also like a bad deal for you and I assume it's because you have a self-esteem issue. Work on that.
If you broke up, you are no longer a couple. Some people can continue to have an affectionate/sexual relationship, but you are not in a romantic, monogamous relationship. If that's what you want, you will need to ask him if that is what he wants. But be prepared for a no.
I think he already did it and wants to know if he should tell his friend. If you have to ask then you don’t have the will power to NOT have sex when someone throws themself at you.
Hes not your friend at all
Thete is no excuse for cheating…ever. I can see why your wife wants you to cut her off. You're basically an apologist for her. I dont think your wife thinks you will cheat, but just doesn't want you to hang around with someone of that character.
My really good friend of 20 years cheated on his wife. I never thought he would do such a thing. I thought about for a bit, then went no contact with him. I just couldn't be friends with someone who would do that to the person they supposedly loved.
So now you can pick from 2 people. Your friend, who it sounds like you're having an EA with, or the person you are supposed to spend your life loving. Choose wisely.
Being in a bad mood and waiting to avoid being around you over a high ponytail?
If this simple thing sets him off like that how is he going to be when serious conflicts arise?
You need to dump him.
His excuses are all very flimsy;
If he was “bored,” he needed to get a less expensive hobby, preferably one that doeant damage his marriage.
If he was trying to be “thoughtful” of your need for sleep, he could maybe wait until you were awake.
If multiple girls and $1900 spent in one month doesn't sound at all like a one-time thing. It sounds like a sex addiction. Not one that is likely to end just because he was caught.
In a healthy marriage, people respect one another's boundaries and talk about their needs. Its normal.that your libidos may not be at the same level and/or sex drives ebb and flow during the course of a relationship. But you talk about things, you don't just cheat and lie about it.
Frankly, I think it would take a lot to restore trust after something like this. I would recommend you go solo to see a therapist to help you sort through your feelings and reach a decision about what you want to do.
He doesn’t have to interpret it that way AT ALL.
Would you be proud and OK if this is how your son treats his future partner. Because he will of he learns you will tolerate it. It will be normal to him.
I think you're stuck in a weird place because this could be seen as a trust issue. Condoms prevent the spread of sti's and there is a very real worry she may have of why you suddenly feel the need to be careful? Are you cheating or do you think she is? Do you not love/trust her or want to have a life with her?
Now all of these feelings are very me oriented and while understandable she's not necessarily thinking about the long term. I'd try to focus on her and making sure she knows how much you love her and that this has nothing to do with her. She may think yalls current method is ok but it's not as safe that's just facts. Good luck.
Yes.
Yes you are an idiot.
He will never change. He will cheat on you just like he has cheated on everyone else.
That's what makes this so painful, if I'd just been honest there would be no problem. My wife has said at much.
What you're saying makes sense except I often feel the need to hide things (even mundane things like what food I eat), I guess time for me to go to therapy and figure out wth is going on with me.
Oof. That’s a sentiment he needs to take to a therapist. Not you. He’s guilting you.
My ex had to have that, 10/10 still cringe for him.
I mentioned how I want to spend more than just one day a week seeing him and that was probably 6ish months ago. Some weeks I'll see him 3 days but then for the next month or two it'll only be once a week.
He originally moved back to save for a house but from my understanding that was a few years ago. We've been together for almost a year and when we met I also lived at home. I moved out on my own at the end of summer. That same week he started talking about a place an hour away from my place. He didn't move and spent all of winter just chilling at home. He just started looking for apartments again last week…
Lol I mean only one party posts. Are we supposed to accuse every post of lying and take the person who isn't here's side? Obviously they don't tell everything.
Oap if you're having issues collecting evidence, you may want to contact a PI. They have ways to do it.
Lose him
I am 37 years old and i have never even met a guy this stupid. I've been with my SO for more than 2 years and we don't even know each others “body count” because it doesn't matter, it doesn't add anything to the relationship so who cares. Everybody has a past. You need to drop this dude like a naked potato.
He offered a solution when you raised your concerns, that you also get a day off to yourself while he spends the entire day caring for the child. I was against him until he suggested this. At least he's trying to be fair
don’t think it makes sense to continue this business at the expense of everyone’s free labor, including mine.
He offered a solution, a fair one. Secondly, you don't really get to speak for anyone's free time. Only yours. His parents asked for volunteers, he agreed. You don't seem to understand the enotional attachment his family have to the family business so you perceive his devotion to it as a slight to you.
could see in his eyes that my labor hadn’t even crossed his mind, which somehow makes it more hurtful.
Unpopular opinion, but caring for your own child is not labor. It's your obligation as a parent. And as I've already said, he offered to reciprocate by spending a day before caring for the child while mama gets a day off.
He's doing his best.
Also, don't really understand what the point was of saying you earn more than him. Like, how is that valuable to the story at all? He's not asking for your money.